Of course, this coaxing starts from the material. For example, buy gadgets for the little boy and big gadgets for the big boy - it depends on the hobbies of the eldest son.

So this is probably why everyone is more fond of coaxing their bosses to coax their bosses in one room, two rooms and three rooms, after all, women are very simple, jewelry such as pearl hairpin rings, clothes and skirts, clothing such as silk and silk, rouge gouache and other makeup...... How many women in the world can be an exception? It's not too simple.

And if you coax one room, two bedrooms and three rooms, your official fortune will be better prosperous, after all, the person next to the boss's pillow is happy and praises you next to the pillow every day, so isn't the opportunity to do things a lot of things?

This is why a person with a pig's brain like Xiang Guohou was able to fight with an old fox like Prime Minister Lu for so many years. Ninety-nine percent of the pillows in it are Liu Meiren and Jiang Meiren, and the wind blows well. If there is anything outstanding about the Xiangguo Hou itself, it can be said that there is none.

Fourth, tribute. The word "tribute", as the name suggests, is tribute, of course, in addition to paying tribute to the emperor's birthday, the queen's birthday, the queen mother's birthday, and more importantly, the birthday of your boss's family.

Although it sounds like the birthday gift of the Emperor and Empress Dowager is more important, this opportunity is not for you to use alone, and it is very difficult to get something that the Empress Dowager is satisfied with according to your small money, of course, if you can get it, then this is a rare opportunity to ascend to the sky. However, ordinary people will definitely not be able to seize this opportunity. If you want to impress the person with the highest status in the world, you will definitely not be able to spend all your money, and even if you spend your money, you may be said by the emperor to oppress the people and embezzle money.

I can't use it to describe this bleak scene, I can only say that I am guilty of my own sin, and I can't live.

It can be seen that it is much simpler to pay tribute to his superiors.

Often hand over the gold to the boss, three festivals to worship, the boss's birthday, the joy of Zhang, the joy of the tile can not be missed, the boss's old lady's birthday such a heavy and special day, but also to prepare an incomparably rich gift.

As long as your boss is impressed by you, there will be more opportunities for promotion and wealth.

In addition, there is also a four-character mental method, which Luo Yunyao also knows. "Ruthless, accurate, steady, forbearing."

One, forbearance.

After all, when you first arrive in officialdom, not everyone can look at you pleasing to the eye, of course, even if you have been above the officialdom for a long time, even if your status is already very high, it is impossible for everyone to be able to look at you pleasing to the eye. It's just that by that time, you are already a person who can take charge of yourself and make others not to be underestimated.

In the officialdom, we must gain a foothold, first grasp the word "forbearance", be patient when we are excluded, be patient when we are discriminated against, be patient when we are discriminated against, and be patient when we are unexpected. Or that when you're in a bad mood, you have to smile and endure it, and you can't let others see that you're patient. Remember, don't be reckless. As the saying goes, "If you can't bear it, you will make a big plan".

Second, stability.

When you are an official, you must be even-handed, and you must not easily offend people, everyone is your uncle. Easily offend people, be careful because there are too many enemies and be plotted, this plot does not only refer to assassination, but also frame-up, behind-the-scenes discussions, secretly hurting people or something...... Well, it can be seen from the fact that Luo Yunyao is now in prison, not to mention that she has only offended one person.

Of course, due to partisan disputes, you must stand in line clearly, except for this, after all, you have to offend the other party's party from time to time, if you are still calm and silent at this time, then what use does your boss want you? How do you make him look at you differently? How is it possible to get him to elevate you? Therefore, how to be stable in the turbulent dark tide is even more of a science.

Three, exactly.

That's the key phrase of how to be sure to offend someone. If you want to attack your opponent, you must see the timing clearly and analyze the situation in place. It is also necessary to look at the weaknesses of the other party, after all, it is clear to see the disgust of the person who can determine the weakness of the other party, and more importantly, the taboo of the person.

This can be used as an example of how Prime Minister Lu Cheng overthrew the Marquis of Xiang step by step.

Prime Minister Lu Cheng handed over the matter of relief to the victims to Xiang Guohou for so many years, resulting in Xiang Guohou's corruption records in the hands of Prime Minister Lu Cheng, which was created by Prime Minister Lu himself and waited for many years.

The emergence of Luo Yunyao, the newborn calf who asked for the people's life, is the emergence of this east wind and this opportunity.

And the weakness of Xiang Guohou, the fatal shortcomings in his personality are simply not to be said, everything depends on his two daughters, he does things without considering the consequences, and most importantly, he even has the intention of rebelling to threaten the emperor. It's so much to take myself as a thing.

And the emperor who can decide whether the Marquis of Xiangguo lives or dies, all of Lu Cheng's preferences relative to him can't be clearer. In the words of the crown prince Xiao Limo, his uncle is to some extent the roundworm in his father's stomach. What the emperor likes and what he doesn't like, Prime Minister Lu Cheng roughly has a number, the so-called knowing oneself and knowing the other, and not being defeated in a hundred battles. Prime Minister Lu is an expert in this, not to mention the emperor's taboo of possessiveness in the world.

Fourth, ruthless.

Since you have accurately found the timing, the current situation, and the weakness of the opponent, it is impossible to cut the grass and eradicate the roots without killing the opponent when you start. Since you're going to start, it's polite to be soft-hearted. There is no need to be vicious, mercilessly put the other party to death, not to mention that he will never have a chance to turn over, no matter what you say, you should let the other party go to eighteen layers of hell.

This can be seen from the hand of the county lord of Yue Liuxi, although she is not above the officialdom, but she has been exposed to it for so many years, and she is not many times stronger than Luo Yunyao, the new military department scholar, with just three maids, the reputation that Luo Yunyao has accumulated for so long has been completely ruined, and now she can't find a way to save herself.

An official word, in the final analysis, is two mouths.

A mouth above the court, in front of the emperor, in front of the people, in front of the world, it is said in a glossy manner.

A lower mouth at the dinner table, the wine party, the tea party, the song house, and even in the fun-seeking places such as Yihong Courtyard, do their own private transactions, saying those things that are unknown, but everyone knows it.

Of course, these are just the tip of the iceberg of the way of being an official.

Besides, Luo Yunyao didn't like to generalize like this, saying that this was an official. Officialdom certainly has his dark side, but he also has his good side.

For Luo Yunyao, in addition to learning the way to restore the country and govern the country, the greatest value of being an official should be to establish a life for the people.

If you want to fight for the interests of the people, for those who are powerless, you can only do this if you put yourself in a high position.

So for the sake of those living beings, what does it matter to learn the way of being an official, and to do those things that tend to be inflammatory?

And when this is a game, promotion and wealth are the way to achieve the final ending.

If you want to say why the scholar is very capable of being an official.

Luo Yunyao will use her tricks to analyze and analyze - after all, Du Runsheng, who was present in the officialdom, was like a child, and although Ouyang Dali Siqing and General Qin knew this, people like them who cared for a utopia in the officialdom did not bother to talk about the whole thing.

Luo Yunyao was very helpless, although it was the class that got the axe, she had to do it.

First of all, Gongsun Xinxin's bamboo horse lover mastered the shortest way to become an official.

Pry open the door with money, of course, this is also a kind of thing that most people do, and there is nothing special about Takema Lovero doing this. However, a smart person like him donated a lot of money into it, and I am afraid it is not just as simple as real money. Luo Yunyao thought that the bamboo horse lover probably gave something that was right for the examiner's appetite.

After the imperial examination, although according to that year, Gongsun Xinxin's bamboo horse lover was also born as a new champion, the reason why he did not encounter such a dark treatment was probably because of the rectification of the dynasty. As for why the rectification is overclass. This is very clear, now that Xiao Limo has grown up, it is the time for His Royal Highness the Crown Prince to cultivate talents and forces for his future. What's more, at that time, Prime Minister Guohou and Prime Minister Lu Cheng fought so fiercely. For the sake of his nephew, of course, Prime Minister Lu can't sit back and watch the darkness of this imperial examination and ignore it.

However, although half of the official position of Bamboo Horse Lover was bought by him with Gongsun Xinxin's money, it is only half, and the other half is of course the strength of the talent he became a talent when he was a child.

And, the biggest bargaining chip and the biggest victory point of Bamboo Horse Lover is that he successfully attached himself to the Ministry of Officials, and through the Ministry of Officials, he took a big boat with the prince and the prime minister.

Here you can see why Luo Yunyao said that the scholar lover is amazing. The choice is decisive, the position is accurate, and the goal is clear.

In the case that Xiang Guohou obviously had the upper hand in the party struggle back then, the bamboo horse lover was able to accurately see the situation of the two sides and make an accurate analysis - you must know that this kind of position itself is a misstep that will be hated for thousands of years. At that time, the Xiangguohou party, the Xiangguohou himself, who had the power to lean towards the government and the opposition, as well as Liu Guifei and Jiang Meiren in the poor crown harem, they still had a tendency to become more and more favored. More importantly, there is naturally the second prince, Xiao Ming.

On the other hand, Prime Minister Lu Cheng, he himself is deliberately constrained by the emperor's power to a certain extent, and Xiao Limo is even if he is a prince, but anyone with a discerning eye can know that this is a prince who is not treated by the emperor. In other words, what if it's the crown prince? With the existence of the second prince, it is not certain who will be the future prince. After all, the emperor is still young, and the future is not necessarily a certainty.