At this moment, Feng Beiying's room was filled with a smell of sadness.

"Qi'er, don't cry, can you tell the princess's sister why Qi'er's mother and father have always praised Qi'er?"

After Feng Beiying heard this, he was naturally surprised, to say that Qi'er was too stupid to do anything worthy of praise from Concubine Rong and the emperor, it seems that it can't be said, after all, Nangong Qi is not confused, and he is not stupid at all, he is so smart that he likes it very much, however, he has not been praised by everyone.

The most important thing for a child is to give her the necessary rewards, the necessary encouragement, and the necessary praise. In this way, a perfect childhood will be formed in a small childhood.

"Sister Princess, Qi'er doesn't know why, there are many times, Qi'er thinks of many things to surprise her father and queen mother, so that they can praise Qi'er, but every time they treat it as no surprise at all, or rather, these surprises of Qi'er are very common feelings, anyway, Qi'er just can't get praise from her father and queen mother."

Nangong Qi's choked language, although he stammered, but it could obviously give people a sense of aggrieved sadness.

Feng Beiying slowly sat down on Nangong Qi's soft resistance by the window, and then sat on the side, picked up Feng Beiying's own handkerchief, and wiped it on Nangong Qi's crying face like a little flower cat.

The movements were very gentle, unhurried, and provoked Nangong Qi for a while, but I don't know if I felt that Nangong Qi had a little more warm comfort in his heart again.

"Qi'er, don't cry, let the princess sister think about why they did this."

When Feng Beiying pulled his thoughts back to the twenty-first century, he remembered a text he learned when he was a child, called "One Step, One More Step", which is a text in which a father taught his child, in the text, a child was taken by his father every day to go through those hardships and obstacles, until one day, the child encountered a very steep bump, at that time, the child was very scared, so he wanted to think about his father to help him bypass the bump, but the child thought so mentally but did not really do it, the child knew his father's temperEven if he did, his father would not pay attention to him, until his father seemed to see the child's psychological thoughts, so he only said to his child, "One step, one more step", and the child, who had been thinking for a long time, finally walked through this hurdle when it was dark. But, even so, his father had a serious expression, as if he had not thought of complimenting him at all.

It wasn't until later that the kid grew up to become a world-famous figure.

Obviously, this is also a way for a father to teach his children.

There are many ways for parents to teach their children, but in the end, it is also up to the parents to decide which one to choose?

Subsequently, Feng Beiying remembered the emperor Concubine Rong of the Great Yan Kingdom, and the reason why they chose to educate Nangong Qi like this may also be the performance of their desire for their daughter to become a phoenix.

"Qi'er, even if your father and queen mother have not praised you, it doesn't mean that they don't love you, this may just be a way for them to hope to raise you into a useful person."

After Feng Beiying gave Nangong Qi a cup of tea, he comforted Nangong Qi again, but Feng Beiying was not only comforting, but also had a general truth.

Nangong Qi, who was still crying just now, stopped crying and was surprised when he saw Feng Yanyi say this: "Really? ”

Nangong Qi had a pair of red and swollen tears, and there were some tear stains on his long eyelashes.

"Of course, Sister Princess doesn't deceive."

Feng Beiying saw that Nangong Qi was no longer crying, and he felt better, so he laughed himself.

However, he can't accept this kind of education and give up, let alone accept the education method in Fang Cai's Chinese textbooks, Feng Beiying feels that it is better to praise more on the way to growth, otherwise, this parent has left a bad impression in the hearts of children since childhood.

Then, Nangong Qi suddenly laughed happily again: "Qi'er knows, the father and the queen mother love Qi'er, and they don't dislike Qi'er." ”

Suddenly, Nangong Qi jumped off and resisted to the ground, and his excitement once again provoked Feng Beiying and Ming Yao Yan Zi to be strange.

A child is a child, what is happy, what is unhappy, as long as it goes through tears, it is nothing.

"Qi'er, why are you so happy."

Feng Yanyi, who was really passing by at the door, listened to Nangong Qi's excited laughter in the house, and thought that he had got some treasure, so he stopped, pushed open the door of Feng Beiying's room and asked Nangong Qi, who was jumping around.

"Brother Jiu, you came just in time, Qi'er wants to ask Brother Jiu a question."

Nangong Qi saw Feng Yan, and after coming in, he took Feng Yanyi's hand and walked towards the soft resistance next to Feng Beiying.

"Oh? Qi'er can ask whatever she wants. ”

Feng Yanyi glanced at Feng Beiying, and was pulled by Nangong Qi to sit on the soft resistance.

"Brother Jiu, why haven't I seen Brother Jiu praise Qi'er all this time?"

Nangong Qi asked at Feng Yanyi in a small voice, obviously, Nangong Qi is also a child who is not afraid of heaven and earth, ask whatever you want, cry and laugh if you want to cry, and definitely will not disturb Nangong Qi because of anyone.

Feng Yanyi was surprised by Nangong Qi's question, and he had to look at Feng Beiying on the opposite side with a puzzled look, as if he was asking Feng Beiying if it was related to her.

Feng Beiying ignored Feng Yanyi, and just gave Feng Yanyi a faint look. It means that he has nothing to do with it.

Nangong Qi seemed to see the gaze of the two, so he smiled and said to Feng Yanyi: "Brother Jiu, don't worry, this has nothing to do with the princess's sister, it is Qi'er's own thoughts." ”

After listening to Nangong Qi's words, Feng Yanyi was obviously a little at a loss, and his father told the people in the palace early that he couldn't easily praise the princes and princesses in the palace, including himself, who had never been praised by anyone.

Therefore, I don't know why, so I can't say why I came for a long time.

Nangong Qi asked again at Feng Yanyi with a smile: "Ninth brother, do you love Qi'er?" ”

Such a simple question should not be difficult for Feng Yanyi.

"Qi'er, Brother Jiu doesn't love you, who loves you."

After listening to Nangong Qi's childish words, Feng Yanyi was naturally a little crying and laughing, do you still need to ask such an obvious question?

"That's right, since Brother Jiu doesn't know why he didn't praise Qi'er, Qi'er knows."