Chapter 107 The Generation Gap

On the newly built Minzhou port wharf, Xia Xue's thick black long hair fluttered gently with the gentle sea breeze, she stared at the place where the sea and the sky interacted and thought about something, standing silently behind her were the Ouyang brothers and sisters and a hundred black-clothed guards.

Now it has entered 621 A.D., the world is still full of swords and wars, and Xia Xue has been in Jiangnan Bafu for more than four years. When he was 16 years old, he accidentally traveled to the Sui Dynasty in 616 AD, and it has been more than five years now, and Xia Xue, who is already 21 years old, has become more mature and calm, but due to the slow down of human aging in the future era, Xia Xue's appearance still looks like a beautiful girl about 15 years old, but now this girl queen has more of a majestic and grand kingly spirit.

In the future era, human women will generally reach more than 160 years old because of their average life expectancy, and they will even reach about 200 years old if they are gifted and maintained, and they will be regarded as girls before the age of 31, and 32 years old is equivalent to 17 years old before human beings, and they can be regarded as entering the youth age. Therefore, human women in the future era basically do not talk about love before the age of 31, and they are not very interested in the love between men and women, and there are really people who start falling in love before the age of 31, which will be regarded as early love and ridiculed.

Human women in the future era are more intelligent, and they basically understand that if a person's happiness is 100 points: 40% comes from childhood; 40% comes from self-actualization; And the remaining 20% comes from successful sweet love.

They also know that if they want to get a good love, they must increase their "gold content", because the appearance of women in the future era is basically not ugly, so they will pay more attention to increasing their knowledge, wisdom and ability and other inner charm, they know that the "vase-style" woman in the future era of human society is not really liked by men, let alone love.

From a very young age, they think about big themes like life and value. They know that human needs are divided into multiple levels and levels from the lowest physiological needs to the highest level of self-realization, from low to high, for each realization of one, you will get a little happiness, and when you realize all of them, especially the highest "self-realization" needs, you will enjoy the greatest and most irreplaceable happiness.

Therefore, they all understand that as a girl, first of all, as a person, when they come into this world, they must achieve self-realization in order to achieve maximum happiness.

Therefore, for women in the future era, the first thing they desire when they grow up is to have a job and career that suits them and what they like; You must be able to support yourself, because if you are not financially independent, how can you talk about personality independence; Be strong, be brave, and not only take care of yourself, but also help others, and even, the world!

When girls in the future era understand what self-realization is, they will naturally have requirements for themselves, and when they grow up, they will not only be beautiful on the outside, but also grand and rich in their hearts, and they will be closer to happiness.

They often wonder why human women in the past valued love with only 20% of the share, why they were often trapped by love, and why they were often hurt by love. When you fall out of love, you feel like the sky is falling, and you even commit suicide and self-harm.

After research, women in the future era found that many women in the previous era did not do a good job in the second step, that is, the self-realization that accounted for 40% opened the skylight, so they had to pin their hopes on love, subconsciously exaggerating the role of love on happiness, and treating only 20% of love as 30% and 40%...... Even 100%.

When their lovers are kind to them, they are so happy, and when they speak to them in a slightly less gentle tone, they feel like hell.

On the other hand, in the previous era, human men, because of self-realization, could find their own social value, and love was really only 20% of their happiness. A man's life has a career, a job, a hobby, football, games, buddies, and then love.

Joe Byron once said, "Love is nothing but something outside the body for a man, but it is the whole life for a woman!" This is a true portrayal of ancient and modern women's view of love, how can a woman with such a view of love not be tragic?

Women use all their happiness to beat 20% of men, just like Faye Wong sings in her song: the more careful you are to appease, you can't even keep a kiss...... This is the reason why in the relationship between men and women, women in previous times were often passive and desperate; This is also the reason why women in ancient and modern times often cry: "Infatuated women are thin and lovely".

Women in the future era know: this is the truth of life, not so dreamy.

Only when a girl's eyes come out of narrow love, look at the vastness of the world, and see so many things worth pursuing, will she be happier, and at that time, true love will come.

Therefore, women in the future era rarely fall in love before the age of 31, thinking that it is a pure waste of time, and they pay more attention to continuing to learn and improve themselves before the age of 31, and find a job and career they like.

Xia Xue is a genius girl in the future era, talent and talent are rare in the future era of human beings, of course, before the age of 31, there is no interest in love, her feelings for Li Shimin are actually just the feelings of confidants and friends, just the feelings of comrades and comrades-in-arms, although there is also a trace of goodwill, but there is no love at all.

She just doesn't like the current era of war and cruelty, and hopes that it will end as soon as possible, and that the whole world will become stable, orderly, warm and harmonious. It was as if she had been forcibly sent to a messy, dirty, stinking, dark and cold room, and her hope was to change the status quo of the room as soon as possible, to make it clean, fresh, bright and warm.

In the strong desire for change, she is of course welcome and happy to have a like-minded, capable and trustworthy friend to help her change, and Li Shimin is the friend who can help her change the cruel status quo.

However, when Xia Xue arrived in Jiangnan, everything went very smoothly, exceeding her expectations, and she also had more confidence in herself, she understood that no matter what she did, she was the most reliable on her own.

Although Li Shimin is very good, the butterfly effect she brought has brought uncertainty and variables to the development of history, so now Xia Xue is ready for both:

First, relying on Li Shimin to quell the war in the north as soon as possible, and to quell the war in the south as soon as possible, and to start work in the south at the same time, so that the speed of pacifying the world will certainly be accelerated, and this is the most ideal situation.

Second, due to the butterfly effect, Li Shimin had an accident and did not complete the mission of quelling the war in the north, so he could only rely entirely on himself, first pacifying the south, then carrying out the northern expedition, pacifying the north, and finally unifying the whole country. The process is certainly a long one. This is certainly not the best situation.

In order to ensure the realization of the best situation, it is necessary to ensure Li Shimin's safety, so Xia Xue will send personnel to the north to secretly inquire about Li Shimin's news while starting the work of quelling chaos and reunification in the south.

Emotionally, Li Shimin is now 23 years old, and he is already a young man in the human race before the future era, it is the period of luxe, passion, and thirst for love.

However, Xia Xue is currently more interested in the pacification and reunification of Jiangnan, and has devoted all her time, energy and feelings to this great and sacred cause, and is so busy that she almost forgets about Li Shimin. If Li Shimin knew this, he would probably be heartbroken. This is the generation gap and the difference between the two versions of humanity.

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Since Xia Xue has two hands to prepare, she has to continue to accumulate and strengthen her strength. In fact, the competition of national strength is also a competition of comprehensive capabilities, such as economic capacity, scientific and technological ability, industrial capacity, agricultural capacity, production capacity, military ability, political ability, and governance ability. Therefore, after careful consideration, Xia Xue decided not to rush to expand the territory, but to stabilize the position first, digest it slowly, and develop these comprehensive national forces steadily and steadily, and when these comprehensive capabilities far exceed those of other hostile countries and separatist forces, unifying them is as simple as taking something in the pocket.

In troubled times, a powerful force is like a magnet, which will attract the surrounding resources to move closer to him, so improving and strengthening his strength first is the most important thing for Xia Xue at present. She rejected the advice of many ministers to take advantage of the victory to pursue and attack Emperor Xiao Mo of Liang and Emperor Lin Shihong of Chu, and decided to strengthen her "internal strength" first.