Chapter 30 Infatuation

In less than two days, Li Shimin was overjoyed to win two dangerous hurdles one after another, gave Xia Xue a first-class credit, and rewarded a lot of money and goods, and his love and admiration for Xia Xue became stronger and stronger.

Most women don't know that in fact, what an excellent man pays most attention to is not beauty and love, but the fame, career, and ideals he is fighting for. Therefore, those women who help his fame, career, and ideals will be more favored, admired, valued, respected, and cherished more.

Every woman wants her Lang Jun to be a hero of the world. At the same time, they also hope that they are more important in Lang Jun's heart than everything about the other party! This is nothing more than a childish fantasy of women.

A man's love and passion for a woman with only a beautiful appearance is mostly short-lived, "Whoever does things with lust will love relaxation when lust decays, and love relaxation will be gracious." When a woman's short youth and beauty are over, men's love for them will basically disappear, and it is the nature of men to look for other younger and more beautiful women. This kind of woman, who has nothing but beauty and appearance, is just a vase and a plaything for men.

But if a woman not only has a beautiful appearance, but also has outstanding talents that can help her fame, career and ideals, then a man's love for this woman can basically be maintained for a lifetime, because his most valued fame, career and ideals cannot be separated from this woman.

A man's love for this kind of talented woman is not only a physical passion, but also a more permanent appreciation, admiration and dependence, when a man can not do without you in his career and life, then this kind of love is the safest, the longest, and the most stable. Therefore, those women who advocate being a "vase woman", "stupid woman", and "woman is virtuous if she is not talented" will only have a tragic fate in the end, such as Yang Guifei, who was finally killed by her favorite man Tang Xuanzong in Ma Weiyi; the kind and beautiful Wei Meiren who had her nose cut off in "The Legend of Zhen Huan"; Xiao Shufei, who was cut off her hands and feet, soaked in a wine vat, and finally tortured to death, etc., there are countless tragic beauties who can only please men with their postures and songs, so people lament that "since ancient times, there are many thin lives", these beauties have a thin life because they lack extraordinary wisdom and talent. And like Zhen Huan, Wu Zetian, Empress Xiaozhuang Wen, Empress Feng of Northern Wei Dynasty, Empress Dugu, Empress Changsun, etc., why these beauties turned out to be very good, because they not only have beautiful appearances, but also have extraordinary wisdom and talent.

In particular, Dugu Jialuo, the queen of Dugu, is very smart and talented, well-versed in book history, and very smart. In ordinary life, whenever she has spare time, she keeps her hands on the papers, and her knowledge is extraordinary. Therefore, Emperor Wen of Sui Emperor Yang Jian was both fond and convinced of this beloved wife, almost obedient to his words, and respected the emperor and queen as the "two saints" in the palace. In the political decisions made during the Kaihuang period, it is difficult to distinguish which ones were the ideas of Emperor Wen of Sui and which were the ideas of Empress Dugu. With the support and assistance of Dugu Jialuo, Emperor Wen of Sui Yang Jian ascended the throne and established the Sui Dynasty. Queen Dugu and her husband worked hard to govern the country. Sleep and live together every day, get up and sleep together, and go to court, inseparable, glad to take care of each other, accompanied by day and night, life and death, and deep love between husband and wife. In the turbulent years of Yang Jian's life, his beloved wife Dugu Jialuo has always been his closest lover, confidant, think tank and spiritual pillar.

With the active participation and assistance of Empress Dugu, Emperor Wen of Sui conquered the Turks in the north and Chen Dynasty in the south, unified China, made the society stable, the country rich and strong, and the north and south, which had been turbulent and divided for nearly 400 years, gradually integrated and developed in all aspects of politics, economy, culture and other aspects, thus opening the prosperous era of the Sui and Tang dynasties.

Emperor Wen of Sui favored Queen Dugu alone in his life, the six palaces were fictitious, and the five sons and five daughters were all born to Queen Dugu, and the love between husband and wife was sincere and unswerving. Almost during the lifetime of Queen Dugu, the two have been living in monogamy, which is rare among ancient emperors, and Emperor Wen of Sui and Queen Dugu can be said to have created a miracle of the harem life of ancient Chinese emperors.

After the death of Empress Dugu, Emperor Wen of Sui suddenly lost the focus of his life, and Emperor Wen of Sui, who was depressed and depressed, also fell ill and passed away in less than two years. Before dying, Emperor Wen of Sui asked the prince to bury him with Queen Dugu, hoping to reunite with his beloved wife in the eternal world underground.

Therefore, "a woman's lack of talent is virtue" is purely a lie, and I don't know how many stupid girls have been harmed. Women must be talented, and they must be wise and talented, so as to win the lifelong favor and fascination of men. "Ask what the world is like, and teach people to live and die." Men can't do without you, relying solely on empty feelings is not reliable, but more reliable is in the sincere feelings of life and death, sharing weal and woe, plus your talent, wisdom and spirit; You are not only a man's lover, but also his confidant, his brainchild, and his spiritual pillar, so that men will spoil you for life like Emperor Wen of Sui's love for Queen Dugu, because he can't do without you in career, spirit and emotion.

Simple women feel that love is permanent, but in fact, most men's love is always changing. Love and feelings are actually the most unstable and the least durable, and if you want to maintain a relationship with a man purely by love feelings, you can only be disappointed and heartbroken in the end. The ancient adage of "infatuated women with negative hearts" is not groundless.

A smart woman will not tie up a man with love, she will only make a man need herself. Let a man be inseparable from himself in other more important places, such as his career, his interests, his life, etc., in addition to his love feelings, so that the relationship is the most lasting and reliable. It's not love, it's the control of love. Wisdom is needed to love and to harness a man.

Li Jiancheng heard that this breakthrough of the steep and abnormal Jianmen Pass was mainly due to Xia Xueshen's rock climbing skills, and he couldn't help but be even more infatuated with this beautiful and magical girl, and he was almost crazy about it. Under the pretext of celebrating Xia Xue's achievements, he invited Xia Xue to his camp for a banquet, and secretly invited a painter to paint Xia Xue's portrait. In the future, he would secretly take out Xia Xue's portrait every night, pour out his love and lovesickness to the portrait for a long time, and even do dirty things to Xia Xue's beautiful portrait, he really became a deeply addicted nymphomaniac, and his desire to snatch Xia Xue from Li Shimin became stronger and stronger. "Little fairy, I love you! I've got to get you! No matter what the cost, I must get you! ……”