If you want to pursue a girl, you must first have a good relationship with her friends.

That's true, but ...... How so......

Some things are not as straightforward as they seem.

It's like you have all kinds of plans before you go camping, but the reality is that there are always some unexpected things that you didn't plan, and your plans are good, but they don't come close to reality.

On the surface, there is nothing wrong with this strategy, starting from the people around the goddess little by little, and surrounding it layer by layer, so that the goddess has no way out.

However, it is important to know that girls are not the same as boys.

Generally speaking, boys have a wider heart and care more about face, and they are usually embarrassed to do anything when they are together.

And smart boys generally don't do things that hurt each other's feelings.

So, normally speaking, the boys in a dormitory have a good relationship, but the girls are different......

How to say it, in fact, Mo Ming is from a boy's point of view, and he can't understand the kind of attitude between girls......

Mo Ming remembered that when he was in college before, he had seen a few classmates in a girl's dormitory, they were working in pairs to do papers, obviously they had said that they would be together in the afternoon, but I don't know what happened, one of the girls suddenly left their roommates and joined other dormitory classmates......

It's embarrassing, it's frustrating, and it's ...... It's unpredictable......

There are many such things, he remembers that the girlfriend of a roommate in college also had a similar thing, obviously it was fine before, but suddenly they quarreled inexplicably......

Obviously, the two girls who had a good relationship before turned their faces really too fast......

What does that mean?

That is to say, in the eyes of boys, the goddess's roommate may have a good relationship with the goddess, but the truth is that the relationship between girls and girls is very delicate......

Girls' feelings are very delicate, but it is precisely because of this delicacy that it is easy for their emotions to fluctuate and it is easier to detect some external things.

It is precisely because of this that women usually have their own thoughts.

Don't think that this is just a scene in those TV series, in fact, there are really many such women in reality, and they are intrigued with everyone, and generally from the age of teenagers, many girls have gradually begun to have this kind of mentality.

Although it is not enough to really do those evil things, it is generally accepted superficially.

For example, if one of the five or six roommates in a dormitory suddenly buys something and is chattering in the dormitory, her roommates usually behave in three ways:

The first one is completely unfeeling, how others love to pretend to be forced, I don't move, under normal circumstances, girls will behave like this, which can only mean that the relationship with each other is not good.

The second is that when you listen to you on the surface, you either don't feel anything in your heart, or you just hehehe. This is generally to see the roommate very thoroughly, and the relationship with him is average, and it is not good to tear his face, but he is very disdainful of him in his heart.

The third type is the real stammer......

There can be these four kinds of people in a small dormitory, and there can be three manifestations of four or five people who are pretending to be coercives, so you can imagine how delicate the relationship between girls and girls is......

Got it?

If you mess with the relationship at this time, it's really easy to get blacklisted......

And, taking a step back, even if you find the roommate who has a good relationship with the goddess, it doesn't mean that you will be able to get closer, on the contrary, it may have the opposite effect.

For example, if a girl sees a boy who has a good relationship with her good friend, if this girl is a normal person, what do you think she thinks?

She's sure she'll stay away!

Why?

The reason is simple, she will definitely think that you are the boyfriend of her best friend, or that you are a good friend who wants to chase herself!

In this case, will a girl with the correct three views take the initiative to lean on?

Because she has to take care of her friendship with her best friend!

With this thought, the goddess will only treat you as an acquaintance, but she will only be an acquaintance, and no matter what the reason, she will never go further.

Even if you do take advantage of her roommate's relationship to participate in her life and hang out with her, she will keep her psychological distance from you.

It's a psychological rejection!

She has already drawn a white line in her heart, isolating you from the white line, and will never allow herself to cross the white line half a step.

Normally, if a boy chases a girl, if the girl has no feelings for the boy, then it's nothing, because feelings can be cultivated slowly.

But once this girl rejects you psychologically, then wait for the calf to finish!

And if you show a desire to go this further, then it's over, girls are not fools, you are a stranger who suddenly fights so hotly with your best friend, and then you stretch out your claws to her, what do you make her think?

Are you a scumbag? eating from the bowl and looking at the pot?

Moreover, it will make her think that you are a dangerous person and very scheming, and she will not get close to you!

Of course, this is just Mo Ming's words, and many people regard this kind of words that seem to make sense on the surface, but in fact no one practices them at all, as a wise saying, and uses it as a life strategy.

Even, there are a lot of so-called "emotionalists" now......

They wantonly set all kinds of rhythms, equate feelings with money and material things, distort human feelings, distort human hearts, and spread theories that have never been proven, or just a small number of people who meet dead rats, but have no actual basis at all.

Not only that, but these people also wantonly co-opt some believers and spread in public what seems to be plausible but is actually anti-human.

To put it bluntly, these people are no different from a bunch of crooks who are using theories that seem plausible on the surface, but in fact have no basis at all, to deceive people for their own benefit.

Mo Ming has always felt that the kind of people who give their lives complicated are stupid, life should be simple, and most of the problems in the world are found by human beings themselves.

For example, when it is clear that there is a black and white question, the answer is either right or wrong, but some people want to drag the incident into a gray area, giving people a mysterious answer that is neither right nor right.

People live in the world, it should be simple, just like cultivation, it should be down-to-earth, step by step, there is a reward for paying, be a good person, practice slowly, accumulate strength, and one day you will always reach the realm of your dreams.

(End of chapter)