After that, in addition to the "gift of beauty", you also have to "tell your parents"; When it came to Xia Shang, there was a ritual festival of "welcoming the court" and "welcoming the hall".

The Zhou Dynasty was the era of the collection of etiquette, when a complete set of marriage etiquette was gradually formed, and there were detailed regulations in the "Etiquette", and the whole set of ceremonies was combined into the "Six Rites", which was collectively called the "Three Books and Six Rites" together with the three books (that is, the letter of appointment, the letter of rites and the letter of welcome).

Since then, the six-ceremony wedding system has been passed down as a template for traditional Chinese weddings, and most of the marriage systems of later dynasties have been changed on this basis.

The six rites refer to Nacai, asking for names, Najib, Nazheng, inviting dates, and greetings. Nacai is to propose, ask the name of the woman (the same surname is not married), Najib is suitable for divination and birthdate, Naji is to pay the bride price, the date of the invitation is to determine the date of the wedding, and the kiss is to welcome the bride. Zhou Li also stipulates that the woman should live in the man's house.

Before the Northern and Southern Dynasties, both men and women did not congratulate each other. It's just that "the curtain is the house, inside and outside the door, it is called the green house, and worship with this". In the twilight, the bridegroom is dressed in a knight's suit, and his entourage is all dressed in black, and the carriage for the wedding is also painted black. No drums, no congratulations from friends and family.

Emperor Xuan of the Han Dynasty once issued an edict announcing the legality of marrying and jule.

The ancients believed that dusk was an auspicious time, so they would marry a wife at dusk, hence the name. Because of the five elements of yin and yang, and the concept of Shintoism, women belong to yin, and dusk is "yang goes and yin comes", and everything in the wedding is in line with the meaning of welcoming yin into the home. The Dum Rite is one of the five rites and is the second milestone in life after the crown ceremony for men or the Prayer for women.

Wedding dresses play an important role in weddings. In the Tang and Song dynasties, men were married with crowns and above the fourth rank, and the men were married with knights and above, and the people were married with the princesses. The woman is married in a ceremonial dress or a dress. Weddings of the Northern Dynasty and the Sui and Tang Dynasties

The Tang people inherited the wedding tradition of the ancients and held weddings in the evening. On the other hand, the nomadic customs of the Northern Dynasties still remain, such as urging women to get on the car, brides riding in the saddle, playing new sons-in-law, wedding music, etc.

Weddings in the Sui and Tang dynasties began to be hung with colorful lanterns and beaming with joy.

The wedding dresses of the Southern Song Dynasty and the Ming Dynasty formed a phoenix crown and xia drape.

Due to the entry of the Manchu Qing Dynasty into the customs, the Han people were shaved and dressed, and at the same time, they also accepted the "ten non-obedience" suggestions of Jin Zhijun, a relict minister of the Ming Dynasty, one of which was "the eunuch did not obey the marriage", that is, the marriage custom followed the Han tradition. Therefore, the Han wedding dress system in the Qing Dynasty was still the same as that in the Ming Dynasty.

Since we talk about weddings, the wedding customs of the Zhurong tribe naturally have their own unique characteristics.

Zhu Rong is the patriarch, and her wedding is also very grand, three days later, this day is the wedding day of Fu Lin and Zhu Rong, Zhu Ruhu.

Fu Lin and others have been living in the Zhurong tribe for a few days, today is Fu Lin's wedding day, early this morning, Fu Lin and the others got up early.

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As soon as Fu Lin got up, he heard that as soon as the door rang, Sister Zhurong walked in from outside with toiletries.

I saw that Zhu Rong came to Fu Lin and said gently: "Brother Lin, you are up, today is our big day, our sisters have come to serve the husband and get up!" ”

Although Fu Lin is a general of chariots and horses, he is a man of two lives after all, so whenever he goes out on an expedition, Fu Lin generally takes care of himself.

However, how could Fu Lin refuse to love his woman and serve him, but Fu Lin's mouth is good.

After the second daughter came in, when she began to serve Fu Lin to wash, Fu Lin said, "Thank you sisters. ”

"Brother Lin, what do you say, our sisters are your women, it is natural to serve you, our sisters not only have to serve you to wash, from today on, our sisters will also serve Brother Lin You go to bed. I only hope that Brother Lin will be content with our sisters in his heart. Zhu Rong and Zhu Ruhuo sisters said while serving Fu Lin.

The three of them were talking about love, and they were flirtatious, and the atmosphere was also happy and very ambiguous.

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At this time, the three of them heard a sound of footsteps from outside Fu Lin's room, and in a short time, they saw a few elders and female soldiers of the Zhurong tribe, and after asking for instructions, they walked in from outside.

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I saw that several elders of the Zhurong tribe, after coming in, saluted to the three people: "Subordinate, see the patriarch, the princess and the county master." ”

The Zhurong tribe is equivalent to the princes and nobles, and their patriarch is equivalent to the prince and princess, so Fu Lin is the man of their patriarch, and that is the county horse.

And Fu Lin is Liu Ying, the man of the princess of the Han Dynasty, so Fu Lin is also the master of the Han Dynasty, and at this time, Fu Lin has just married the Zhurong tribe, so at this time, he is not good to say anything else.

I saw that Zhu Rong's face changed, and he changed his serious face and said, "A few elders, came to me so early, did something happen?" ”

"Patriarch Qiqi, we are here to discuss the marriage of the patriarch and the princess, there is nothing to do, the etiquette of the patriarch's wedding and other things are ready, now please ask the patriarch, the princess and the princess to change their wedding clothes!" But...... But ......" And the great elder who spoke, after talking about Zhurong's wedding, was hesitant, and he had something to say at a glance.

And Zhu Rong, don't look at her being very gentle with Fu Lin, she is even more obedient, that's because Zhu Rong has Fu Lin in her heart, in addition, their sisters are still Fu Lin's women, in this era of respect for men, it is very normal for women to obey their husbands and respect their men, of course, we won't talk about special circumstances, such as a man is a rice bucket, not a thing.

I saw that after Zhu Rong saw the Great Elder and the others, the dark color was abnormal, she cleared her throat, and then asked, "Great Elder, is there something going on, just say what you have to say!" ”

The Great Elder was originally afraid that if he said the matter, it would affect the mood of his own patriarch, and thus affect the marriage between the patriarch and the county master.

However, now that Patriarch Zhurong asked, the Great Elder would naturally tell the truth, so the Great Elder saluted and said, "Patriarch Qiyu, the marriage of the patriarch has been prepared, there is nothing wrong with these things, what if all the elders are watching?"

However, this morning, the female soldiers came to report that last night, Liu Bei, Meng Shu and Zhuge Liang quietly left, and when they left, they also killed the female soldiers we were guarding, which is completely hateful, but even if we want to find them to vent their anger, now they have long since disappeared. ”

It turned out that Liu Bei and others ran away last night, but you can go, and the female soldiers didn't provoke you, if Liu Bei is afraid, the female soldiers will reveal your whereabouts, and you will not be over tying up the female soldiers, why do you have to kill them.

And the reason why Zhu Rong has such a high status and prestige in the Zhurong tribe is not only because of her high qualifications, but also because Zhu Rong is very good to her subordinates and female soldiers, which also makes Zhu Rong gain people's hearts.

However, today is the wedding day of Fu Lin and the second daughter, so everything must be put back, in addition, Liu Bei and they will run away, even if they don't leave, Zhu Rong is not good, blatantly kill them, as for the death of a few female soldiers, it can only be regarded as their bad luck.

Zhu Rong asked the elders to deal with the aftermath and family affairs of these dead and wounded female soldiers, and then it was the tense moment for Fu Lin and the second daughter.