After eating, Shen Chi did not leave, but followed him to his office.

In this regard, Han Li reluctantly made a cup of tea for this guy, and then sat down with his teacup and said to him: "Say, what else is there, I still want to rest for a while at noon." ”

"What are you resting on, please help me with something." Shen Chi said a little eagerly.

Looking at Shen Chi's eager appearance, Han Li was curious: "What's the matter, look at your anxious appearance." ”

"Uh... How to say it, this thing, that ......" Shen Chi said in that branch.

Han Li was not angry about this and said: "Say something quickly, if you don't say it, go out from here, I still want to squint for a while." ”

"Don't, something's wrong, something's wrong!" Shen Chi hurriedly said.

Han Li looked at Shen Chi with a panicked face, lit a cigarette and said to him, "Then let's say it." ”

Shen Chi hesitated for a while, and finally said to him: "Then, I recently met a girl, well, the person is very good, I want to ......"

"You want to chase her?" Han Li interrupted Shen Chi's words.

Forehead...... Hearing Han Li's words, Shen Chi's old face turned red, but in the end he nodded and said, "I have a good impression of her." ”

"Well, then, what do you ask me for?" Han Li looked at Shen Chi and said with a smile.

Shen Chi was a little annoyed when he saw his smile and said angrily: "What do you say, naturally you are asking how to chase girls." Your kid fell in love in his freshman year, and he must have a lot of experience. You say, don't you help. ”

Seeing that Shen Chi was anxious, Han Li hurriedly said: "Help, you must help, this is a major event in your life, how can I stand by and watch." But you'll have to tell me about that girl and how you met. ”

Han Li's words made Shen Chi's face soothe, and then he lit a cigarette and said to him: "That I am also in my thirties, so my family is very anxious about my life events.

I was introduced to a lot of people before, but I was poor at the time, so I didn't make it. And my parents were not less angry because of this, so they didn't bother to care about me anymore.

No, the efficiency of our company has improved, and my income has increased, so my parents' minds are active again.

You know this, I'm not in a hurry, I originally wanted to wait for two years of stable career before solving personal problems. But I couldn't ignore my parents' strong will.

Even because of this, I had a very stiff quarrel with my family for a while.

In the end, it can't be helped, parents are still parents, you can't always break their hearts, especially when it comes to the things that parents care about the most.

So I relented and agreed to my parents to go on a blind date. ”

After hearing Shen Chi's words, Han Li nodded and said, "This matter really can't be hidden, I can understand it, and then." ”

"And then?"

Shen Chi smiled bitterly and said, "I have money, a house, and a car."

Although I don't want to say such a materialistic thing, there are these things, and the blind date is not bad, and there are quite a few good girls. But I never had that feeling, just the feeling of meeting people.

I know that getting married and living a life is not the same as falling in love, what you need is plain, stable and harmonious. But I have never been able to convince myself that if the daughter-in-law I am looking for is not my heart, I dare not guarantee that I will live my life after marriage.

There is another point, although I don't want to be critical. But I met a lot of girls, how to put it, they were more materialistic. Of course, from a girl's point of view, this seems fine.

But I can't, I can't have a good impression of these girls who come up and ask about their family situation, income and garage, and I still have some rejection.

There's even a sense that these girls are doing it for my money, or for me as a person. ”

Hearing Shen Chi's story, Han Li threw him a cigarette, then lit one himself: "This matter is very sensitive, and it is difficult to explain. However, from a brother's point of view, I would suggest that you think carefully about who you marry.

I don't want one more person to embarrass you on the board of directors in the future, and I don't want our company's shares to be lost like this. ”

Of course, Han Li knows that the new marriage law will be implemented this year, that is, in 11 years. At that time, there will be a new judicial interpretation on the division of marital property, which can be regarded as making the marriage more pure.

But no matter what he said, he was also worried about Shen Chi. If you really meet a girl with such ulterior motives, then it is useless to get a property gift or equity transfer after marriage.

These girls with ulterior motives are not stupid, and people will definitely think of other ways. For such a thing, Han Li also saw a lot from news reports in his previous life, and even happened around him. So when he heard Shen Chi say this, he couldn't help but remind him.

"I know, that's where I get a headache too."

Shen Chi smiled bitterly and said: "I finally know why the old ancestor said it right, the family is right, and I still have to find someone with similar family backgrounds and conditions, so as to avoid these problems."

But my parents don't know about it. They think they just need to find someone they think is good, responsible, able to live, and whatever can give birth to a boy. ”

"Hehe, our young people and old people have different cognitive views, so there must be differences in this regard. But the old man is also for your good, and this aspect still needs to be understood. Han Li said with a smile.

That's right, the old man must do this for the good of the child, or he thinks it is for the good of the child. You can't say that you don't have the intention to harm your own children, but it's a very few.

It's just that there are some inappropriate or incomplete cognitions and methods in terms of methods, which leads to unsatisfactory things and even causes children to misunderstand.

This is Shen Chi's family matter, and for Han Li, he can't say that his parents are doing something wrong, so he can only persuade him to do it.

"I know, so I don't have a grudge against them about this."

Shen Chi nodded and said, "And I met this girl this time, and I also met it on a blind date." ”

"Well, it's your blind date? Then that's easy, as long as you don't perform too badly, there will be no problem. Han Li said to Shen Chi.

Shen Chi shook his head, a little embarrassed: "I met on a blind date, but I wasn't the one I went on a blind date." ”

"Well, how do you say that?" Han Li was curious, no, it should be said that it was gossip.

"Well, how do you say that?"

Shen Chi sorted out his thoughts for a moment, and then danced at Han Li: "What about this girl I like, the girl who came to accompany my blind date came to go on a blind date, can you understand what I mean?"

It's this girl, who accompanied another girl to go on a blind date with me. The girl on the blind date fell in love with me, but I didn't mean much to her, but I fell in love with the girl who came with her.

Well, in that case, it's ......"