The little girl who followed Shen Yun home was naturally extremely happy.

accompanied Shen Yun to visit the vegetable market, and took the initiative to help Shen Yun carry two small tomatoes, and the small mouth was as sweet as honey along the way.

Back home, Han's mother looked at Shen Yun, who was holding the child in one hand and carrying meat and vegetables in the other, and shook her head helplessly.

"Shen Yun, you said that you finally went to the kindergarten once, and you made such a big incident. I just called your dad when a couple of old ladies knocked on the door. Hey, you can see, the compound is going to be lively tonight. ”

It's really a good thing not to go out, but a bad thing to spread thousands of miles.

Coaxing the little girl to get off herself, Shen Yun sighed: "Mom, you don't know, Yixin is so young, and they tell that kind of war story in kindergarten." ”

"We must pay attention to ways and means in everything we do, and it is not too late to carry out this kind of patriotic education in the third or fourth grade. Like our generation, which one didn't have ideological and moral education in the fourth grade, but it was still not far behind. ”

The more he has been in contact with the younger generation, the more aware Shen Yun is of the role of this type of education.

Why do so many young generations at present have no position to join the ranks of the elite and rice, is it because they have received less patriotic education since childhood?

I'm afraid it's not.

In the home field of China, there are all kinds of patriotic education methods, but they are still not worth those simple online propaganda.

Is this to blame for the open nature of the web? Apparently not.

If the effect is not good, then you have to find the reason why you are not competitive.

In this regard, Shen Yun is very rational, how can he completely transform his thoughts if the few warriors he met before who were out of his mind were blindly ruthless.

Of course, Mother Han knew that Shen Yun's mouth was powerful.

Seeing that Shen Yun still had a tendency to continue, he hurriedly took the vegetables: "Okay, okay, you set, wait for them to talk about it when they look for you tonight." At this time, take care of me, and I'll go cook. Your dad and Yuhua will be back later. ”

Shen Yun didn't know that the compound had such a tradition.

"Mom, what's the matter, the compound still has a tradition of pulling people out to criticize and fight?"

"Nonsense, it's just that the first few parents don't agree with each other, I think that posture will definitely let you go out and make it clear, so I'll give you a reminder in advance."

Now Shen Yun was relieved.

Since these old people are not oppressive with seniority and military rank, then he can speak freely.

After playing with the little girl for a while, Shen Yun heard a voice at the door. Immediately after the sound of the door opening, Han Yuhua's figure appeared in front of Shen Yun.

Needless to say, in addition to holding the little girl's crooked head, I can't find a second posture to open correctly.

It wasn't until Han Fuhu arrived that the family began to eat and chat at the dinner table.

As a listener, Han Fuhu did not express any opinion on Shen Yun's troubles in the kindergarten. is also a soldier, he doesn't think there is anything wrong with what Shen Yun said.

Patriotism also requires ways and means, and it does not mean that if you are patriotic in your head, you are really patriotic.

Like this kindergarten to tell the stories of the Anti-Japanese War, Han Fuhu's evaluation of two words - nonsense.

In his words, children under the age of three understand something.

Halfway through the meal, the phone rang at home. Han's mother glanced at Shen Yun and didn't take the initiative to answer the phone as usual.

Of course, Shen Yun knew what his mother-in-law meant, so he put down the bowl very consciously and stood up, walked to the phone and picked it up:

"Hello, this is Han Fuhu's house. Looking for Shen Yun, ah, I am Shen Yun. Okay, okay, I'll be there, okay, okay. ”

Turning around, he smiled bitterly: "Look for me." ”

Then Shen Yun saw his mother-in-law showing an expression that was really like this.

In the end, it was still the old man who was righteous, Han Fuhu hurriedly took a few mouthfuls of rice and put down the bowl, and said very generously in Han Yuhua's slightly worried eyes:

"Let's go, I'll accompany you to have a look. I don't believe it, and I will be scolded for telling the truth in this world. ”

Picking up the little girl who had already eaten well and was struggling to get out in his arms, Han Fuhu took Shen Yun to the pavilion in the compound mentioned on the phone.

Shen Yun didn't know much about these people, but Han Fuhu saw that there were really a lot of acquaintances here.

There are also fifty or sixty people, and there are fifty or sixty people, and a gazebo cannot accommodate it at all. Fortunately, the weather has warmed up, and the big guys are all sitting on the lawn.

Seeing Han Fuhu coming over with his son-in-law and granddaughter, these people said hello, and then began to look at Shen Yun.

The one who called Shen Yun just now was a major general like Han Fuhu, and these people were headed by him, and he looked at Shen Yun with a serious expression at this time.

"Xiao Shen, we also learned about your information before. I have to say, you are a good soldier. But your performance in kindergarten today makes us wonder what made you make such a statement. ”

It seemed that there was a questioning tone, and after a few seconds of saying this, he added another sentence.

"I'm a cadre of the political work, so I want to hear what you think, what is wrong with the patriotic education in kindergarten."

Shen Yun looked at his father-in-law, and saw that he was holding the child and nodding at himself, and he also had a bottom in his heart.

"Hello chiefs, I don't say this because I'm not thinking wrong. If the chiefs have any doubts about this, they can review me. ”

"To put it seriously, some people in the kindergarten say that your unit's ideological work is not doing well, but that is all a woman's opinion. You just say what you think, we don't have a small belly. ”

The major general was obviously appeasing Shen Yun, and directly judged the criticism that Shen Yun received in the kindergarten in the afternoon as a woman's opinion.

With such a foundation, Shen Yun is completely let go.

"If we called the kindergarten teacher and asked, she would tell us that children of my family's age are generally in a cognitive stage called the pre-arithmetic stage."

This is a theory called "stages of cognitive development" proposed by a foreign psychologist.

According to this theory, the cognitive development of children and adolescents is divided into four stages: perceptual-motor stage (0-2 years old), pre-operational stage (3-7 years old), concrete operation stage (7-12 years old), and formal operation stage (12-15 years old).

In the pre-arithmetic stage described by Shen Yun, children's thinking is in a self-centered cognitive stage, and they do not perceive things from the perspective of objectivity and others.

This is destined to cause a deep-seated sense of alienation as they grow older at this stage, once they develop a dislike of something.

If the remarks in the kindergarten were arbitrary, when he arrived at this place, Shen Yun was completely using science to persuade these parents.

The gushing narration made everyone sitting here begin to re-acquaint themselves with Shen Yun.

No one thought that Shen Yun was actually half an expert in child psychology.