1047. in the first place to bring a grandson to the mother
After staying in Changsha Hospital for a few days, Sangou had to change the child's diaper and feed the child every other hour every night.
Originally, they could have paid for a nurse in a hospital or a nanny who was waiting outside for confinement to do these things, but now they can afford to hire them.
But Sangou felt that he had been away from Yang Muhua for too long, and she had not been by her side since she was pregnant, and she always felt that she was lacking a lot, so she wanted to make up for it herself.
But it didn't last for a few days, Sangou was a little unbearable, mainly because he was a big man, doing these things, just if he wanted to do it again, he still didn't know much about it, and he often either made a mistake about this or messed up that.
In the end, you still have to invite someone to do it, invite others, it is better to invite your own people, in fact, there is no need to invite, Yang Muhua's mother had already left Kunming before Xiaohu was born, but the road was delayed, and it was not until a few days after Xiaohu was born.
Sangou returned to the military station after Yang Muhua was discharged from the hospital, Yang Muhua continued to be confined, Xiaohu's grandmother came to take care of the two of them, and Sangou was finally able to get out.
When I had free time in the evening, I discussed with Yang Muhua, who would take the child, Yang Muhua wanted to bring it by herself at first, but for the reason of work, it was impossible, and soon after her maternity leave ended, she would have to report to the field hospital.
It doesn't seem to be good to bring Xiaohu's grandmother, because Yang Muhua's parents are both university professors, and they are very busy on weekdays, and there are many students and few teachers in Southwest Associated University, and the class affairs are very tense.
And it seems that life in Kunming is very tense, they are not willing to stay in the Japanese-occupied area to be a wealthy traitor professor, now in Kunming, although you are a professor, the salary is very low, and you can't even eat enough, and you also jokingly say: "Professor, professor, the more you teach, the thinner you get."
Although Sangou and Yang Muhua often sent money to subsidize their families, they were all helped by them to help those students and colleagues who were about to starve to death.
There is no way, if this little tiger is brought over, first of all, it will have to pay an extra amount of money financially, and in terms of life, it will cause them a lot of trouble when they are busy with work.
In the end, I decided to send it to Sangou's hometown, Sangou's younger brothers and sisters are in their teens, Sangou's parents are in their forties, and they have a little farm work at home, so it should be said that they have time and energy to take care of their grandchildren.
Besides, in the countryside, multiple children, just more pairs of chopsticks, living expenses are almost negligible, Sangou's mother often mentioned a few years ago, wanting to hold her grandson, just fulfilled her wishes, all happy.
Yang Muhua, as a mother who gave birth to a child for the first time, is still very reluctant to leave her child in her heart, which is also the psychology of mothers all over the world.
But at present, whether it is for her mother to take to Kunming, or to Sangou's hometown, or to stay in Changsha, she herself is going to work in the field hospital, which is also invisible.
During the war years, it was very normal for a family of two soldiers to sacrifice this little bit of life, and Yang Muhua wanted to quit his job several times to take care of his children.
But this is impossible, first of all, the military doctor in the military hospital, the identity is a soldier, in the war years, such talents are very scarce, not to mention resignation, even if you take maternity leave, you will feel that there is a shortage of manpower.
Yang Muhua has been working with a big belly before, especially this counterattack on Nanchang Gao'an, she and the division field hospital have been staying in Shanggao.
She was operating on a seriously injured person with a big belly, and she couldn't hold on for hours at a time, so she called a nurse to support her waist in the back.
Every time I am tired and about to collapse, but life is magical, human potential is infinite, Yang Muhua's physical strength is getting better and better, and like rural women, the day before giving birth, they have to work in the field.
As a result, when it was time to give birth, because the body was very good and the production went smoothly, the fat boy Xiaohu was born after a while, and there was not much pain.
As a soldier, a soldier during the war years, and a high-tech talent, resignation is a very difficult thing, don't even think about it, it is certain that the hospital will not approve it.
If you don't get approval and leave your post without authorization, you are a deserter, and now the military law is getting stricter and stricter, and if a deserter is caught, he will be shot.
Therefore, Yang Muhua himself knows that the road of resignation will not work, and besides, if he resigns to take care of his children, Sangou's salary may not be enough.
This person is very strange, before he was pregnant with a child, Yang Muhua didn't even want to have a child so early, and wanted to have another child after this battle.
But at present, it seems that I don't know when this battle will be finished, and if it can't be finished, don't you want children? It's impossible.
Later, when I was pregnant with a child, I almost wanted to beat it off, but at the insistence of Sangou, after ten months of pregnancy, I felt the changes and growth of the child day by day, and completely fell in love with the baby who brought so much joy and hope.
It is indeed very inhuman to be separated from him now, but after thinking about it, Yang Muhua thought that since he couldn't take care of the children by himself, he could only hand them over to his parents.
After comparing the parents on these two sides, they finally felt that it was the most reasonable to give the mother of the three dogs to bring.
Although she grew up in the city, there will be a trace of resistance in her heart, and the rural health and material conditions are not good enough, for fear that her children will suffer there.
But this can't be said, Sangou himself grew up there, and he doesn't look very good, as for knowledge, when the child grows up, he can solve it when he comes out to study and work.
So when Xiaohu's grandmother was waiting for Yang Muhua's confinement, everyone left Changsha together, and Xiaohu's grandmother returned to Kunming Southwest Associated University.
It's already September, and the new students have been in school for a few days, and Xiaohu's grandmother is also anxious and anxious to go back.
sent away Xiaohu's grandmother, Sangou monk and a guard, took Yang Muhua and Xiaohu, and took a ride to the 51st Division and Field Hospital of Shanggao in Jiangxi.
The old brothers of the third battalion came to visit Xiaohu one after another, and the chubby tiger-headed little tiger made everyone happy to die, and they all said that the old seventh company has a queen, don't worry.
Within two days, Sangou called the monk and the guard Xiao Gao, and the three of them took Xiaohu together and went back to Guangfeng, which is also Shangrao, Jiangxi.
Yang Muhua is going crazy, holding the little tiger and reluctant to let go, this is really sad, the three dogs have no choice, born in troubled times, the national disaster is at the head, and the warmth of the small family naturally can't be saved.
This road is quite smooth, during this time, in the northwest of Nanchang in the Fengxin area, the Japanese army has moved, but it is not big, on the Zhejiang-Jiangxi line, it is safe.
Everyone took a ride all the way, and soon arrived at the hometown of Shangrao Guangfeng Sangou, although the mother of Sangou already knew the birth of her eldest grandson in the letter, but when she saw the real person, she still couldn't help but be happy, hugged Xiaohu, and smiled from ear to ear.
What is filial piety? Maybe it's not about staying with your parents all day long and doing little things to be filial, but following your parents' wishes and trying your best to meet their wishes, which is the real filial piety.
Sangou understands that loyalty and filial piety cannot be both, so he can only understand and comfort himself in this way, parents in the world, who do not want to enjoy the joy of family and family together.