Chapter 409: It's no longer appropriate to pretend to be tender
"You, what kind of expression are you?"
As a person who came over, Mo Shaofen knew that she had a lot of feelings for "that little man" as soon as she saw Li Xiaowei's current expression.
Because only a woman in love will have this kind of shy and faint expression of happiness.
"I, I just have feelings for him, he doesn't know yet."
Li Xiaowei explained: "I, I may like his talent even more."
"Talent! What the hell is this? There used to be a lot of talented men pursuing you, why didn't you get tempted?"
Mo Shaofen showed an incredulous expression: "Could it be that Xiaoru, what did you get from him?"
"Oh, don't talk nonsense, you think I'm this kind of woman, just give myself away. ”
Li Xiaowei blushed and said: "Okay, I haven't done it with him yet, don't ask so much about other things first, you can help me analyze and plan first! The main problem in front of me now is the age gap, and then I don't know what kind of woman he likes."
"Oh, I see, because you're older than him, you want to look younger and more youthful, right?"
Mo Shaofen's brain is also running rapidly now.
"Well, I do want to dress younger, I think he's going to like that type"
Although Li Xiaowei felt shy, she still said her thoughts.
"Oh, Li Xiaowei, you're such a fool!"
Mo Shaofen immediately pouted. And then such a sentence was said.
"Eh, why am I stupid?" asked Li Xiaowei puzzled.
"Say you're a rookie in the love field, you really don't understand anything! If you pretend to be tender and pretend to be an innocent girl, then you will die a miserable death. Mo Shaofen reminded her.
"Oh?
Li Xiaowei hurriedly asked shamelessly. Mo Shaofen, her best friend, is a love expert in her eyes, before she got married, she had talked about no less than ten loves, and accumulated quite a wealth of theoretical and practical experience.
"I'll just tell you. It's no longer appropriate for you to pretend to be tender now. ”
Mo Shaofen said to Li Xiaowei seriously.
"It's not appropriate? Tell me about it, why is it inappropriate?"
Li Xiaowei immediately felt a little unconvinced.
In addition, you are a doctor and not a nurse, so your character is inevitably a little rigid and not so lively, even if you pretend to be tender, you are not pretending to be like it, since you don't pretend to be like it, why do you need to pretend to be? When the time comes, it is easy to be self-defeating.
Also, those young men don't necessarily like young girls, according to my experience, many young boys, in fact, will prefer mature, career, elegant and quiet outside, know how to treat people, but can let go of women when they come home
In short, you can earn enough face for him outside, you can be gentle when you come home, and you can be coquettish a thousand times, but don't be coquettish outside, and then be coquettish when you get home
And Xiaowei, your advantage is that you are very beautiful, and you are smart and capable, and you have a temperament, and you have a good career, you don't need to rely on men to support you. Why don't you use these advantages to choose your own weaknesses?"
Mo Shaofen was straightforward, and listed Li Xiaowei's strengths and weaknesses in detail one by one.
"What you say makes sense, what should I do?"
Li Xiaowei also felt that what Mo Shaofen said was very pertinent, so she asked her like this.
"Well, let me build you up today! The style you have to walk in is a light and familiar style! Remember, you have to be in front of him, you have to hold it when you should be gentle, you have to be gentle when you should be gentle, and you have to be empathetic when you should be empathetic. You have to master these essentials."
Mo Shaofen's words made Li Xiaowei nod again and again, and while she listened, she said: "Okay! Then I'll do what you say!"
So the two of them left the British-style fashion store and went to another shop that sold light and sophisticated styles to choose clothes.
In fact, the "little man" that Li Xiaowei has never said to Mo Shaofen is Zhou You!
The reason why Li Xiaowei suddenly went on a date with Zhou You is more complicated, but the main reason is related to what a Mr. Xiangmei she met 1o years ago!
The thing is retrospective, at least when Li Xiaowei was almost 17 years old, she was studying in a medical school abroad, and when she went home for the New Year, a special guest came to her house one day.
This guest is a very famous calligraphy and painting master in the capital, and he is a good friend of Li Xiaowei's grandfather.
Because Li Xiaowei's grandfather was also an accomplished calligrapher.
After the guest came, he saw Li Xiaowei, so after looking at her carefully, he proposed to show Li Xiaowei the palm.
Li Xiaowei didn't believe this, but her grandfather told him that in addition to being a famous calligrapher and painter, this guest was also a physiognomist who was particularly good at reading physiognomy, but because his calligraphy and painting works were more famous, it covered up his talent for physiognomy.
After hearing her grandfather say this, Li Xiaowei agreed, because she knew that her grandfather never spoke.
So the guest asked Li Xiaowei to spread out her right hand to show him, and then it was revealed that there was a little sesame-sized cinnabar red mole on the palm of her right hand!
The guest laughed immediately, and then said meaningfully, "Wonderful!"
Li Xiaowei and her grandfather hurriedly asked him what he meant, so the guest said that the cinnabar red mole in the palm of Li Xiaowei's right hand is called "Tianyuan Mole", also known as "Hehe Mole".
Legend has it that a person with a red mole in his palm is because of a special agreement, which should be said to be an agreement between a past life and a present life. In his previous life, he was in love with his lover, but he didn't have a good relationship, so he made a covenant to continue his relationship in this life.
In order to be able to find each other, use the mole on each other's palms as a sign of acquaintance, when the mole on the palm of one person's right hand and the mole on the palm of the other's left hand look almost identical, that person is the person you are waiting for in your life!
There is also a particularly romantic saying, whether it is a man or a woman, if there is a cinnabar red mole on the palm, it is called "lover's tears", because it is the illusion of the tears of lovers in your previous life, and you promise not to forget each other in your life
This lover's tears, the promise of this life. This is a memorial left on the Nai He Bridge by people who loved each other in the past life in order to meet in this life.