Chapter 86 Serving people privately for life
After listening to Li Chengqian's words, Li Wujie was noncommittal, but he smiled in an instant, and asked: "I am a layman in these aspects, but I have seen it in education, are you sure that your brainwashing and temptation say that the church is effective?" I always think that they should be made to understand the disadvantages of not reading and not being educated, so that they can learn spontaneously, not tempt them. ”
After hearing this, Li Chengqian stood up, proudly raised his head, walked two steps around the table, and said confidently: "There should be no problem in this regard, I think I have been in officialdom, business and various platforms for many years, and I should have these grasps." As for the contrastive persuasion you mentioned, the effect is actually the worst. ”
Li Chengqian thought for a while, and then said: "First of all, the family, we are all from the past, we all know that when [educating] children, the usual teaching method is to rely on [comparative incentives], I hope that under the comparison, children will reflect, change and then work hard. You and I should have tried to tell our children: [Look at Xiao Ming in the house next door, people work hard, and people go home to review their homework as soon as they get out of school, that's like you, when you go home, you will only play games....].
Or in the company, I have also tried, my own subordinate performance is not good, I will tell him: [You look at the Ming people, the appearance is not as good-looking as you, Mandarin is not as fluent as you, the education is not as high as you, and you are also dumbfounded when doing things, why can people achieve such results, but you can't do it? 】
But what about the end result? Will this approach work? In fact, whether it is in the family, in the company, or even in society as a whole, this method can only have the opposite effect, that is, to ensure that a person does not seek improvement and change, but can continue to encourage him with "contrastive incentives". ”
Li Wujie was thoughtful, his eyebrows were full of spring, revealing a hint of longing: "Then how to do it, I will also learn." ”
Li Chengqian looked at this pretty face, his heart was hot, but his mouth was gushing: "Of course you can, in fact, it is very simple, that is, to become the idol of the target audience, and then give them a long-term dream or hope, and give them a short-term interest goal and motivation." Then there will be no disadvantage. ”
Looking at Li Wujie's blank expression, Li Chengqian had no choice but to stop, scratch his head, and then said, "Let's give a simple example, otherwise, it's difficult to understand." For example, the first leader of the republic you know, with the status of an idol of all people, from time to time to give people a hope, just like the great smelting of steel, the elimination of the four evils, etc., which time is not the unity of the people, which time is not the prohibition of the order. It should be easy to understand, but to put it simply, you have to be an idol first, have a certain amount of charisma, and then if you have a certain amount of power, then whatever you ask of your fans, they will do it. ”
Li Wujie was dumbfounded when he heard this, can he still do this? She didn't believe it at all, but looking at Li Chengqian's bland expression and thinking about the example given by the prince, she couldn't help but feel a burst of fear in her heart.
Li Chengqian looked at her eyebrows with some pity and sighed: "Think about it carefully, when you first met me, even if you didn't have your current identity, weren't you still committed to taking refuge?" Although life comes first, the impact of power and charm on everyone is the most crucial, to put it bluntly, these are actually the eternal desires in everyone's heart. Therefore, for those who have nothing, one should first cultivate to become a spiritual leader, and then to become a political leader. People who already have resources and status need to cultivate both, so that they are invincible in the world. As for preaching and truth, it is even simpler, in this world, as long as the charismatic power is available, whoever speaks well will grasp the truth.
For yourself, after you came to Chang'an, since you entered the Prince's Mansion, isn't it the best verification in people's hearts? These facts fully show that you have achieved success in cultivation through study and study, you are already the leader of the clothing industry, the idol of all women who love beauty, you are also the spokesperson of strong women, the leader of the feminist movement, the general manager of the company, and the spiritual leader of all female students. And the quality of women affects the next three generations of the entire nation, you see, now you are actually the best spiritual leader and national idol. If....... ”
Li Wujie was a little unable to turn at first, and listened stupidly with a red face, but the more he listened, the more wrong he became, he pinched Li Chengqian's ears violently, and gritted his teeth: "It's been a long time, you don't dare to calculate Dai Wenxi, you are calculating on my head, and you want to use my reputation to serve you?" It's a good idea, but in Minghui's opinion, it's not that it can't be done, but I have a request. ”
"Indecent, indecent" Li Chengqian shouted, Fuquan hurriedly ran in, and saw that the two of them were hugging each other, flirting and scolding, and complaining in their hearts, is it okay for the two of you to live in peace? It must be that psychosis that provoked Minghui Niangzi, good prince, you don't like women, you have to look at that psychopath, what's so good about men. Alas, I still have to be persuaded to fight.
Fu Quan thought in his heart, but his mouth was not slow to react: "What does Your Highness command?" ”
When the two heard this, they hurriedly separated, Li Chengqian's face was pale, and he said, "It's nothing, the two of us still have some things to discuss, you go and prepare some snacks." Seeing Fuquan retire, Li Chengqian hurriedly changed his smile and asked, "You don't lack anything now, what else do you want?" ”
Li Minghui blushed and glanced at him: "Actually, I don't dare to ask His Highness for anything, but people have left their names and geese have left their voices, I have two small requests, and it is better to say them." ”
Li Chengqian said in his heart, they are all a family, you are still hypocritical, but your mouth is very casual: "The lady's request, it is naturally not a problem, let alone two, even if there are more, it doesn't matter." ”
"The first requirement is that after the coming-of-age ceremony, you will officially marry me and give me an official status. And before that, to solve my household registration problem, of course, it is almost the same, and it can match your identity of household registration. As for the second one, I won't talk about it for the time being, and I'll keep it in the future. If you say yes, I'll help you out. Li Wujie said a little shyly.
"Ah, really? Have you figured it out? Do you want to make a private deal with me for life? Oh, no, it's Ming Media who is marrying. Although the relationship between the two is just a layer of window paper, Li Chengqian is still a little excited, and for a while, he is incoherent.
"Fool, every time I change my clothes, I am seen by you, who will I marry if I don't marry you, besides, others have to have the guts if they want to, do you want to eat and wipe clean, and then kick me out?" Li Wujie touched the ear he had pinched just now in disgust.