Chapter 1029: The Wizard Who Loudly Proclaims Gratitude (Part I)
Chapter 1029: The Wizard Who Loudly Proclaims Gratitude (Part I)
"It's only eight buckets high!" Cheng Xia replied proudly. If he succeeds in recognizing his ancestors and returning to his ancestors this time, he will also become a Jiangxia person, so Feng Jing's honor is also his pride.
Zhao Xing shook his head.
"Jun's grace? β¦β¦ Aware of accidents? β¦β¦ Noble support? β¦β¦ Wealthy? This sentence was said by a Xiucai standing behind him, and after the children's answer was negative, most of them were waiting for the teacher's answer, and at this time, the Xiucai couldn't help but interject.
"No, he can succeed because of his gratitude", Zhao Xing leisurely told the children about Feng Jing's anecdote.
Feng Jing was playful in his early years, and sometimes did not return late at night. Once detained by street guards who patrolled the night, Wang Su, the then guard of Wuchang County, tried his best to exonerate him and release him. Later, Feng Jing was sent to Guanzhong, and Wang Su was in Weidi to marshal the soldiers, and the two met and had a very happy banquet. Feng Jing wrote a poem for Wang Su, and there is a sentence: "Swallowing charcoal is unforgettable, and I am deeply ashamed to think about it." β
This means that even if I change my face and voice (alluding to the change of status), I will never forget the detention of the street guards; Even if I come out on top (implying that my status at this time surpasses that of Wang Su), I am ashamed that it is difficult to repay your great kindness.
When people are young, they are strong, informal, and tolerant of possibility. After you reach your ancestors, according to ordinary people, if you don't want to listen to your past mistakes, how can you take the initiative to talk about them to the old people and write them into your poems? Feng Jing was so unimpressed, and went around preaching his gratitude and gratitude, and then, what did he gain?
Everyone knows that he is a person who knows how to repay his kindness, then, when he can, no one will embarrass him, and he has more "benefactors" in officialdom than enemies - can such a person not be promoted step by step?
"This is great wisdom", Zhao Xing said with emotion: "Ordinary people will regret their youth and frivolity, and by the way, they will hide that ridiculous time, and they will not pretend not to see what they helped when they were young."
What's more, some people are promoted to the top of their former benefactors, so they are afraid that others will reciprocate the favor, so they preemptively attack and exclude those former bosses, thinking that by making these people obediently bow to them, they can control their subordinates, and then they will be promoted step by step, however, they are wrong......
A businessman can gain the respect of everyone in a discriminatory environment, and become the first businessman prime minister in ancient and modern times, Feng Jing relies on this great wisdom, while others, playing some cautious eyes to think that they are smart, but they don't know that they are all small wisdom, even stupid, and eventually become a speck of dust.
Children, you must remember that some people always think that the world is too realistic, and that there is no one to help you when you need it most. There are also people who think that the world is too hypocritical, and that when you need help the most, those who usually 'want' to help you have disappeared. But some people know how to keep those who 'want' to help them from turning away......
Success is actually as simple as that - be grateful, and let everyone know that you are grateful! β
How incisive!
After Zhao Xing's summary was finished, the children nodded in admiration, and several Xiucai standing behind them also praised from the bottom of their hearts: "In one word! Great wisdom! I originally thought that Feng Gong, who was the third yuan and the first, was able to rise step by step because of his talents, but it turned out that there was this reason, so wise, breathtaking......
Wait, Brother Tai can see through Feng Gong's wisdom, and he must be a wise person, where is Brother Tai? Who is the last name? I'm waiting for today's leisure, can I invite my brother to go to Mingyue Tower in the city. β
Zhao Xing shook his head, and Cheng Xia, who had always been calm, couldn't wait to announce: "We are from Qishui, and we are from the Cheng clan of Qishui." This is the deacon of my Qishui Cheng clan, and the family teacher is a deacon! β
The deacon of the Cheng clan who is not surnamed Cheng - Cheng Xia's words have pointed out Zhao Xing's Cheng identity, which implies that the teacher is the son-in-law of my Cheng clan. This is a common means used in the development of large families: to attract outstanding people with foreign surnames into the family and participate in the development decisions of the clan.
However, there is another meaning of this phrase that can also be seen as an insult. Because in the heyday of the gate valve, the identity of the "son-in-law" was very low, and he couldn't even keep his own surname. This system still existed in the Tang Dynasty, so there are still some differences of opinion in the tradition.
After the "Sanyuan" Feng Jing in front of him won the champion, he was directly tied up at home by a certain relative, and he must be his son-in-law, and lied to him that "this intention is also" Fortunately, Lord Feng was stable and became a son-in-law of Fubi wholeheartedly.
In ancient China, and only in the Song Dynasty, being a son-in-law was not only not a shame, but a great honor, and a label for a talent.
Only in the Song Dynasty, the treatment of sons-in-law deviated from the tradition, and they still had the right to retain their own names and surnames.
Zhao Xing had mistakenly used modern concepts to view the identity of his son-in-law, he didn't expect Su Shi to be willing to officiate for such a wedding. But then, after a little study of the history of the Song Dynasty, he realized that he was wrong.
However, even though he knew his mistake, he still insisted on leaving Cheng Jiaao and breaking into the world on his own.
Although there may be risks everywhere in the outside world, he still wants to take a look and see the greatest era of ancient China.
Behind him, those few talents were still whispering, and the faint words were mundane and utilitarian: Who is this? β¦β¦ This person is extraordinary, proficient in the mysteries of officialdom, and will definitely be able to occupy a high position in the future, so we must take advantage of his white body now and quickly communicate with him......
These vague words made Cheng Xia quite proudβwhat he said just now was to achieve the goal of eminent clan. Now he's satisfied.
Zhao Xing looked very indifferent, he raised his hand and saluted: "Brothers, we still have important things to do, I just sneaked out to hang out, and now it's getting late, I'm afraid I can't go to your appointment, bother!" Ladies and gentlemen, there will be a date later! β
Say goodbye and go.
In the ancestral hall of the Cheng family, Cheng Wei was respectfully offering incense to his ancestors in accordance with the clan rules, and the children of the Cheng clan were standing behind him, saluting according to Cheng's different movements...... None of this is Zhao Xing's business, he took a leisurely walk in the back garden of the Cheng family with his hands behind his back.
It must be said that Su Shi had a great influence on Jiangnan, and now many wealthy people in Jiangnan like to plant some pines and cypresses, plum blossoms, bamboos and other four gentlemen when they arrange their own courtyards. The same is true for this back garden, and the accumulation of the Jiangxia Cheng clan over hundreds of years has made them more cultural, making every detail in the courtyard extremely elegant.
Several sets of swing frames are still shaking - this is not because of the wind blowing, when Zhao Xing came in just now, he heard the laughter of a woman near the swing frame, and when he took a heavy step, the laughter disappeared. Judging from the swing now, people have not gone far, perhaps hiding in the flowers to peep.
Cheng Xia ran in panting all the way, and when he saw Zhao Xing, he hurriedly shouted: "Teacher, why are you here, let me find it easily...... Just now, Ah Weng said, I hope we move out of the mountain pass, or go back to Jiangxia, Ah Weng is willing to carve out a piece of land from the clan, Ah Da asked me to ask what you mean. β
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