… The queen returned to her seat. Through the bamboo curtain! , "I have heard from Changfang about the "People Who Are Drunk and Brave" you talked about, and I have also read his notes. However, what does the above talk about how to interact with people, and what does it have to do with things in the harem?

Sun Dan gave a salute, sat cross-legged on the wool mat, stroked the short beard on his lips, and said eloquently: "The so-called interpersonal relations are just a few principles that should be observed in interpersonal interactions. Although His Majesty is the Ninety-Five, he is also a human being, and he has all the seven emotions, six desires, joys, sorrows, and sorrows that people have, and he can also use this knowledge to set them. ”

Queen Chen behind the bamboo curtain muttered for a long time, and her figure flickered again: "Your Majesty is also a human being" He also has his likes and dislikes" However, he doesn't want to see me at all, every time he sees this palace, he doesn't want to say a word, his face is full of disgust. Mr. Sun, you say, what is the way to make Your Majesty "Even if you can let him talk to me more, it would be good" Empress Chen's voice was full of resentment.

Sun Dan was also a little helpless, and only said: "Queen Mother, the reason why Your Majesty is impatient to see you is probably because you are too anxious and make Your Majesty unhappy, right?"

Empress Chen said angrily: "What am I anxious about, why am I in a hurry in this palace?" ”

Sun Dan: "Look, look, Niangniang is not in a hurry now." Weichen has a sentence that I don't know whether to say or not

The queen also felt a little embarrassed and paused. Only then did he say with some negative anger: "This palace speaks in such a tone, and it is possible to be misunderstood by His Majesty." Sun Qingjia, you and I have something to say

Sun Dan still felt that it was inappropriate: "Don't talk about it, I'll just teach you about interpersonal relationships." ”

Empress Chen was greatly displeased, and snorted: "I have already read your course, although it is all reasonable, but let this palace do it to others, but I can't do it." What is the identity of this palace, and when he is out of His Majesty, why should he please others. ”

Sun Dan was speechless.

Empress Chen continued: "If you have something to say, just say it." Hongu also knows what you want to say. It's nothing more than why this palace is not favored by the Lord Banzai now, is there something wrong between our husband and wife. Don't slip your head if you Sun Dan, just say what you have to say, just say it straightforwardly, don't be afraid of offending the palace. What this palace needs is a counselor who can tell me the truth, not a little eunuch who only promises.

Sun Dan was speechless for a long time, and then he said stubbornly: "Since Niangniang said so, the minister said it bluntly, hoping that Niangniang will find a way to save His Majesty's heart." ”

He was suddenly a little embarrassed, he used to be notoriously thick-skinned in the office, but he had discussed marriage and family love with his female colleagues, and he was foaming at the mouth and his face was full of color. But the problem is that those female colleagues are all at the level of Mama Sang, and they have never seen any battles, even if they say the wrong thing, they will not take it to heart.

And this Queen Chen in front of her is an adult girl with the Internet, and when she talks about this, she always feels that the taste is a little wrong. Moreover, they are still queens" Sun Dan felt that the vest was a little hot, embarrassed and uneasy.

But I am already Empress Chen's staff, everyone is a non-manganese tied to a line, you can't run and you can't run me, if there is anything, you have to say

Swallowed a mouthful of saliva. Sun Dan had to say in a dull tone without any emotion: "As the minister just said, Your Majesty is also a man, although you are the honor of the Ninth Five-Year Plan, but there are characteristics and problems that a man should have. Men are people who have a good face and like pomp. This is especially true today. Niangniang, you quarrel with Your Majesty all day long, no wonder Your Majesty doesn't come to you

He continued: "Another characteristic of men is that they don't grow up. Your Majesty is only sixteen years old now, and even if he becomes an emperor, he still has a hint of childishness in his personality. Therefore, you have to understand him before you can coax him. If you want him to spoil you for the rest of your life, you have to make him happy. May I ask Niangniang, have you made Your Majesty happy? ”

Empress Chen, who was behind the bamboo curtain, was silent for a long time before she said hatefully: "Your Majesty treats me like this, why should I let him be pleased?" ”

Sun Dan smiled bitterly: "Niangniang, if you don't let Your Majesty agree, Your Majesty will naturally not let you agree, and then everyone is unhappy, why bother?"

Although Empress Chen felt that Sun Dan was reasonable, she refused to admit defeat verbally: "Sun Qingjia, you go on."

Sun Dan boldly said, "A man is like a book, you have to read him." First of all, Niangniang, you should understand that it is not easy for Your Majesty. Now, he has only been on the throne for only a few months, and he is pestered by ministers to talk about the imperial examination. Until the issue of the Great Gift is clarified, there is no possibility of fulfilling the ambition in his chest. Therefore, His Majesty's heart will definitely be very anxious at this moment, and his attitude towards the people around him will inevitably be colder. You should be able to understand this.

Empress Chen, behind the bamboo curtain, bowed her head thoughtfully. Sun Dan: "Secondly, men love face, especially Your Majesty." Nowadays, the ministers are entangled in the issue of the emperor's dependence, but in fact, they just want to gain power and divide the authority that Emperor Wuzong Shi Yijing grasped in his hands. The power of the monarch and the power of the prime minister have been constantly fighting since ancient times, and the power of the monarch is heavy, and the power of the monarch is light, and vice versa. The new monarch ascended the throne, and he was constantly adapting to the ministers, and each wanted to find a critical point that everyone could accept. Things in the court are already a mess, if you go back to the palace, Niangniang will still try to challenge Your Majesty's authority, think about it. Will Your Majesty also equate you with the group of ministers who are dedicated to making trouble for him? In that case, Your Majesty naturally doesn't want to look at you anymore. Respecting Your Majesty and giving Your Majesty enough face is what you should do at this moment. ”

"Ah, why didn't I expect this, Empress Chen screamed in surprise, then stood up, rolled up the bamboo curtain with her hand, and said softly: "In this case, today I will know everything and say everything." ”

Sun Dan smiled bitterly in his heart, and said secretly: You are a mother, others are slaves, they are afraid of you, who dares to say such things, if you are not careful, you will lose your head. My Sun Dan was also forced by you to have no choice today, so I turned my heart sideways and said anything.

Sun Dan continued: "Secondly, you should worship Your Majesty. ”

"Just because he's the Son of Heaven?"

"No, no, the Son of Heaven is certainly used for worship. But don't forget, if you are just ordinary people, then Your Majesty is your husband, and you are his wife. You should look at him as an ordinary man, an ordinary husband. Only in this way can your worship make His Majesty feel good. If you worship him as the Son of Heaven, Your Majesty is not uncommon. Sun Dan shook his head.

"This" is so complicated, Hongu doesn't quite understand it. Empress Chen supported her chin with her hand, and stared at Sun Dan with a pair of wonderful eyes: "Forget it, this palace is too lazy to bother, Sun Qing, you just say what I should do." ”

Sun Dan: "It's not easy to worship him, praise him." Sincerely appreciate and like him. For example, Your Majesty likes to cultivate the Tao, and you praise him for his profound cultivation, a fairy-like figure, and a half-immortal body. For example, after His Majesty took the pill, his body was hot and dry, and he only wore this single coat on a cold day. What do you say as usual? ”

Empress Chen pursed her lips: "It's a medicine that is poisonous, Your Majesty takes medicine indiscriminately, and there will be problems with your body." In such a situation, I will directly admonish, please Your Majesty stop taking medicine and wear more clothes. ”

Sun Dan shook his head: "No, you can't do this." You should pretend to be very surprised, and say to Your Majesty, Your Majesty, your cultivation has risen greatly, on such a cold day, the concubines have been frozen to shrink their hands and feet, but Your Majesty is wearing a wide robe, and there is a breeze coming slowly, it is really a land fairy! ”

Empress Chen was a little surprised: "This is okay?" ”

Sun Dan: "Yes." ”

"Isn't this a deception?"

"It's not." Sun Dan said with certainty: "You are making Your Majesty happy." White-intentioned deception is still okay. For example, if a person is terminally ill and you tell the truth that he will die soon, doesn't that make him die sooner? When people encounter this situation, they will comfort the patient and say that your illness is just a minor illness and will be cured for a few days. Do not worry. In this way, the patient is in a better mood and may be able to live a few more days. ”

"Well, that's right." Empress Chen removed her hand from her chin and nodded: "Sun Xiaoqing's family, you go on, this palace listens." ”

Sun Dan: "Niangniang's biggest problem now is that Your Majesty refuses to talk to you, if you want Your Majesty to continue to favor you, you have to find a way to lead him to speak." ”

"So," what should I say to him? ”

"Quoting Your Majesty to say that he is most proud of the thing, the minister wants to ask Niangniang, what is the most proud thing of Your Majesty?"

Empress Chen: "What else can I be proud of, the most proud thing for Your Majesty is to wear less clothes in winter, and the most proud thing is to practice." ”

"Then you can talk to him about the cultivation."

"But ...... It's a law. "By the way, there's another thing to be particular about." Sun Dan said.

Empress Chen: "What's the point?" ”

Sun Dan: "As long as you can get Your Majesty to speak, don't say anything more, just listen quietly to the side, and be a good listener, right?" One of the most important things about interpersonal relations is to learn to listen, even if you are not interested in what the conversation is saying, you have to pretend to be interested.

"Really."

"Yes." Sun Dan nodded affirmatively: "As long as you can be a good listener, the minister can guarantee that His Majesty's heart will definitely return to Niangniang's side." Remember, be a good listener. ”

"Really?"

Sun Dan smiled: "The topic returns to Concubine Zhang Guifei's pregnancy." ”

As soon as she mentioned Concubine Zhang Guifei's pregnancy, Empress Chen's face became gloomy.

Sun Dan suddenly laughed: "Don't worry about Niangniang, Concubine Zhang Guifei is pregnant with Liujia, naturally she can't serve the emperor, if Niangniang makes a move at this time, it is a good opportunity!" The minister is also a man, and a man's mind is the most clear. ”

Sun Dan's words may not be ridiculous, and in his heart he didn't really regard Queen Chen as the queen of the world, just after talking for a long time, he seemed to have returned to the office of modern society in a trance, and was talking meat jokes with female colleagues. For a moment, his mouth slipped and he actually said these words.

Sun Dan was shocked in his heart, embarrassed to get up, and his vest suddenly sweated profusely.

Empress Chen also heard that the taste was wrong, her face was flushed, and her eyes were full of rippling waves.

Sun Dan's heart moved, this kind of pocket little beauty is really cute!

The atmosphere in the room was a little wrong, and after a long time, Empress Chen regained her composure and gave a deep salute: "Today, with Mr. Sun from the side, this palace knows that I have been a fool for so long before." ”

Sun Dan hurriedly replied: "It's still the same sentence, the matter of eating the king, the matter of loyalty to the king, Sun Dan is just fulfilling the duty of a courtier." ”

Just then, the door was slammed open.

Empress Chen was furious, turned her head and was about to scold, but it was her personal little palace maid who came in.

The little palace maid: "Congratulations to Niangniang, congratulations to Niangniang, the slave maid network got the news that Zhang Guifei had a miscarriage."

Sun Dan stood up suddenly, screaming in his heart that it was not good, Chen Hong was going to be bad.

It must have been him, he had to do it.