Chapter 383: Liu Yanlai's marriage
After Li Ziyuan finished saying all his thoughts, Ma Yongcheng thought about it carefully, nodded and agreed: "Yes, I will come up with a work plan when I go back." However, in terms of military training, Lao Zhang seems to be a little worse alone, and we are now looking forward to the two of you being discharged from the hospital as soon as possible. ”
"No matter what your idea is now, it can only be realized after returning to the army, right? So if you and Lao He are discharged from the hospital early, the pressure on me and Lao Zhang can also be reduced. It turns out that you didn't pay attention when you were in the army, and your brother is not here, and our pressure is still quite high. ”
"Especially in military training, Lao Zhang always feels that something is a little bit worse. He's a sleek guy, but I always feel he's a little less rigid. In addition, his time in the army is still short, and among the cadres and soldiers below, he does not have as much prestige as you, and he is always a little constrained in his work. ”
"Still, your brother needs to restrain the feathers on your body. I came to see you today, but when I saw the nurses in the hospital, I looked at your brother differently. I heard that your brother's name is now a legend among the female comrades of the entire hospital and even the entire military district. ”
"The hospital department itself is the place where female soldiers are most concentrated, except for the art troupe and drama club. There are not many female doctors, but there are many female nurses. At present, you kid is a famous name again, and almost everyone in the entire military region, from the heads of all levels to the military district headquarters, down to the various combat units, knows about it. Don't be here, you kid, to make a problem with your style of life. ”
"I think what Lao Liu said is very reasonable, you better get married as soon as possible and don't cause some messy things, and it also saves you from being dazzled by the left and right choices. It's still good for you to settle down early. Dude, this is what I, as a political commissar, told you from my heart. ”
"By the way, Lao Liu is getting married. Originally, he was going to come this time, but there was always someone in Hubei to preside over the work, so he asked Comrade Chang Juan and me to represent him. He asked me to bring you a letter to tell you not to be blinded by the flowers and plants in this hospital. I was discharged from the hospital early when I was almost in good health, so that I could officiate their wedding. ”
"As for the bride he is going to marry, he is also an acquaintance with you. It was the woman you rescued and protected when you broke through the Cross Ridge, and she was also the widow of the martyr. After her husband died, she had to take care of her children and work alone, and her mother's life was very difficult. ”
She was reluctant to foster her child to her fellow villagers, and she had been carrying it by herself. The secretary of our Ludong prefectural party committee used to be the matchmaker for her and her ex-husband, and he is very familiar with her. This time, the political commissar went to the Northern Bureau for a meeting, and when he saw that her life was a little difficult, he asked the orphans and widows to come to Ludong. ”
I talked to Lao Liu, who had also reached the standard, and wanted to promote the matter of the two people. After all, Lao Liu is also his old subordinate, and he still understands Lao Liu's personality. When he mentioned this, Lao Liu learned that he was the widow of the martyr, and the child was the orphan of the martyr, so he didn't say anything and agreed. ”
"Don't look at Lao Liu's usual giggling, but at a critical moment, he really has that much energy. He and the female cadre had only met twice during this time, when they went to a meeting. agreed to marry someone, and it is estimated that the main reason is to take care of the survivors of the martyrs. ”
Hearing Ma Yongcheng mention Liu Yanlai's marriage, Li Ziyuan really admired it. Liu Yanlai knew that he had never been married in his hometown before joining the revolution, and he was a young man with yellow flowers. Although he is not a serious college student, he can be regarded as an intellectual.
After participating in the revolution, although he worked in the local area, his style of life has always been quite rigorous, and he has never provoked flowers and plants, so it can be said that he is definitely a righteous gentleman and a model party member. For Liu Yanlai, Li Ziyuan has always been ruthless. But for his personality, Li Ziyuan still admires him a little in his heart.
Originally, I thought that Liu Yanlai's temper was a bit intellectual, and he looked down on those rural girls, and wanted to find a family member like a college student. But he didn't expect that Liu Yanlai was still so noble in this matter, far more noble than he imagined.
However, although he admired Liu Yanlai a little, Li Ziyuan did not agree with his approach in his heart. It is necessary to take care of the bereaved families of the martyrs, can you find a way to give some help? But that doesn't mean you have to marry home? Even if you really want to marry home, the two of you have to go everywhere to see if there is fate, right?
The two people who have not crossed paths before, and have even only seen two faces. At this time, he was going to form a family, which made Li Ziyuan very unacceptable. Once married, it means that two people will go through the rest of their lives together. Li Ziyuan has always believed that people must be cautious in their choice of marriage.
This Liu Yanlai and the two agreed to get married after only seeing each other twice, even if the instant love after decades was not so fast. Even now, most of the regions are still stuck in the situation of the words of the parents and the matchmaker. But after all, in the army, there is still no such thing.
After all, since joining the revolution, the vast majority of people have basically cut off contact with their families. No matter how filial a son is, if he wants to listen to his parents in this kind of matter, he can't find it or can't contact him, right? It is now the decision of the organization to take on the work of the parents.
It's just that Li Ziyuan thinks about the people around him or he knows, aren't those married superiors like this? Organization matchmaking, as long as there is no opposition from both parties, of course, the main thing is that the man has no objections, and it is common for them to get married after meeting a few times. Even men and women who have not met before are not absent.
People in the war years, so much time to spend the moon and fall in love? In addition, the cultural foundation of military cadres, especially military cadres, is generally low. If you want to find a wife with a higher level of education, it is basically impossible except to do work in the organization.
There are not many people who know the words, except for a small number of intellectual cadres, for the majority of cadres, it is basically impossible. As for being able to speak and coax girls to be happy, there is no one at all. Therefore, forming a family for these older men who have been fighting for more than ten years has become an important task for political departments at all levels.
In the past, it was arranged by parents at home, and when it came to the team, it was organized and arranged. Except that the formalities are more cumbersome and the examination of the woman is stricter, there is no other big difference. I remember that I had read a book in later life, and it was even more exaggerated. After the female soldiers who join the army have been assessed by the organization department or studied some majors, they have a certain intention when they are assigned to various departments and troops.
Those assigned to combat units below the division level are basically given wives to cadres at all levels who meet the standards but have not yet started a family. When I read this book at the time, I said that it was purely made up. But his classmates, who were descendants of the founding generals, directly told him that this was the real situation at that time. And his own great-grandfather and great-grandmother are combined in this way.
His grandfather was a regiment commander of a field army in Northeast China at the time, and one day he received a call from his superiors saying that a female soldier would come to marry him the next day. As a result, the next day, after a handsome little female soldier, who was his grandmother, came to report, the two got married that night.
The two of them didn't know each other before, they hadn't even met in person, and they were all organized by the organization. When her great-grandmother was alive, she often joked about her great-grandfather that she was assigned to him at that time. Although the marriage between the two old men was arranged by the organization, the two old men lived a very happy life.
This view would be considered extremely absurd by those who undoubtedly did not experience that period in their own time. Li Ziyuan still remembers that when he heard these things, his jaw fell to the ground, isn't this just the distribution of wives?
Even if the army was engaged in wartime communism at that time, it could not be done like this, which is a bit ridiculous. He also joked at the time that if the country still had this policy, there would not be so many leftover men. It's just that he thought it was ridiculous at the time, but when he really returned to this era, Li Ziyuan found out that this was really the truth.
Male cadres who meet the marriage standard are all middle and high-level cadres. Except for some college students who joined the army after the Anti-Japanese War, most of them were ordinary soldiers, little by little. After many years of war experience, most of these middle and high-ranking cadres were covered in wounds. Plus most of them, that bit of culture is only learned after the army.
And the current era is not the peaceful era ten years later. The wives of high-ranking cadres basically have no privileges, but the danger is quite high. The husband and wife don't even have an independent house, so what treatment they enjoy is still what kind of treatment. It is not too easy to have a small stove with her husband.
At this time, the position of the wife of a senior cadre was not as popular as it was a few years later. In addition, most of these women who joined the army belong to the career type. Don't look at your position is very high, but if you pursue others, they may not agree to you. Because if I promise you, it means that I will most likely give up my job.
Therefore, in addition to eliminating the factor of admiration for heroes, it is not easy for the cadres of the army themselves to find a target. And the most important thing is that the other half is very demanding for the other half, and the review is quite strict. If the woman's identity is suspicious, it will not be approved at all.
This is also a helpless choice to ensure the stability of the troops and not to be infiltrated by various forces in the outside world. After all, in the current China, among the armies of the two countries and the three parties, the Eighth Route Army is the poorest. Not only is there no military salary, but the conditions in all aspects are quite poor. Although the revolutionary will of the overwhelming majority of the people is firm, it is impossible to completely avoid internal problems in a tight organization.
Therefore, when the man basically has no problem and has a certain rank and status, the review is often a unilateral review of the woman. Of course, as long as it passes the review, unless the background is too complicated, it will generally be approved. Even if the woman does not agree, the organization will help to do the work.
Just like Li Ziyun and Wang Cheng, don't look at Wang Cheng as just a regiment leader. But if it weren't for the Jin-Cha-Ji Military Region sending people to the underground party in Beiping, they transferred Li Ziyun's materials to prove Li Ziyun's innocence. Even if Li Ziyun is Li Ziyuan's own sister, even if Wang Cheng is reluctant, it is useless.
Because Li Ziyun was not transferred to the base area through the underground party, she did not have any organizational relationship, and her background was not something she could just talk about. When Li Ziyun's true identity was not clarified, it was absolutely impossible for the superiors to approve the marriage of the two people. Even if Wang Cheng is only a regiment-level cadre, he will definitely not approve it.