Chapter 254: The Return of a Son

What was originally a crusade conference instantly turned into a preaching conference.

This made Cha Wu and the others stunned, this is really amazing.

But then again, it's not magical, it's really a relationship between supply and demand.

In the final analysis, the etiquette of the Tang Dynasty was still not sound, that is to say, there was no complete imprisonment of women's thoughts, especially these noble children, they were full of poetry and books, and many women's talents were no less than men's.

Like Fang Xuanling's wife, Lu Shi, Fang Xuanling is not allowed to take concubines, this is the idea of monogamy, which is very advanced.

In addition, there is also the famous Queen Dugu, Emperor Wen of Sui, as an emperor, is also a Ming monarch, and he is not even allowed to have a concubine, but is this a bad thing?

No, Emperor Wen of Sui created a great dynasty, although it was very short, but it is undeniable that it is great, and Queen Dugu is also indispensable.

And as a wife, her husband is not allowed to take concubines, which cannot be said to be jealous, but can only be said to be open-minded. In Chinese history, the word "freedom" came from the mouth of Emperor Wen of Sui, who said that I am the Son of Heaven and cannot be free. It is said that Queen Dugu does not allow him to take concubines.

Whether it is the Lu family or the Dugu family, they have a common characteristic, that is, they are from famous families, and even Wu Zetian, Shangguan Wan'er, and Li Qingzhao are all from famous families.

History books also record that aristocratic women in the Tang Dynasty liked to go out in men's clothes, which shows that aristocratic women are thoughtful.

But this is the result of a very big contradiction.

It's the relationship between husband and wife.

In a society where men are inferior to women, women's thinking is too developed, and men want to maintain the idea of male superiority and inferiority, family disputes will definitely break out.

It is unlikely to happen in the Ming and Qing dynasties, because at that time, the pursuit of women was virtue if they were not talented, and what men said. The woman has to listen that the wife is only her husband's personal property.

Now it is different, in the aristocratic society, they are all married, and the wives are also from the nobility, and their knowledge and talents are cultivated from childhood. is the same as men, so they may not necessarily be subordinate to men, why in the Sui and Tang dynasties, there were many tigresses, it is because of this that there were many family disputes in aristocratic society.

But knowledge has not kept up, although the sage has also mentioned the way of getting along with husband and wife, but it is also very rare, and it is still from the perspective of a man. If you want to talk about it, it must be the woman's fault, but now that the aristocratic woman is strong, it's hard to say.

Many family disputes have reached a dead end, especially these young sons, who got married too early and are not yet mature in their thinking, and do not know how to solve them. The husband did not dare to beat and scold his wife at will, after all, everyone was a nobleman. The wife's family is also very powerful, but she can't leave it, and in the end, she can only be a husband and wife.

At this time, Han Yi appeared, although he was unmarried. But after all, he is also half a psychologist, and he is also familiar with Pete Zhu, and it is more than enough to fool these sons and brothers, and his words seem to have paved a clear path for these sons and brothers. Many problems have been solved, so they very much hope that Han Yi will say more about how to get along with husband and wife, because there is a lack of theories in this area.

As he spoke, there were more and more people, almost all of whom came to crusade against Han Yi, but soon became a quiet audience.

Everyone wanted Han Yi to ask about this husband and wife.

Han Yi is also eloquent, knows everything, says everything, and is really helping them, and at the same time helping himself.

After all, Han Yi did not say that he wanted to be the same as later generations, it was still based on three obedience and four virtues, and he did not deny the etiquette, nor did the etiquette say that women were not allowed to go on the street, and the etiquette did not say that women must cover their faces when they go out.

In fact, about the three obedience and four virtues, Han Yi once discussed with Pete Zhu for a night.

As a foreigner, Pite Zhu even felt that China's three obedience and four virtues were the highest quality in an ideal, and it was not wrong, and the truth was very desirable, but there was one mistake that was unforgivable, that is, only women were bound, not men.

This is very unfair, based on this alone, the three from the four virtues will be eliminated, because you are unfair, not equal, women must not accept it, respect is mutual, anything, once the balance is lost, it will deteriorate, why many people in later generations criticize the three from the four virtues, it is because it is unfair, if men and women are like this, it can only be said that the thinking is backward, ancient thought is certainly not as good as the modern, this is normal, you can never criticize the primitive people for not wearing clothes, it is hooliganism.

There are many people who criticize Wu Zetian for favoring the male pet, being immoral, and being an evil lewdness. Women, they don't want to think about it, Wu Zetian learned from whom, not from men, if the previous emperor didn't engage in these things, she couldn't create them, you men regard women as a symbol of power, then I am the emperor now, then I must do the same, otherwise, I can't show that I am the emperor.

In this human world, the easiest to climb high point is the moral high ground, whether it is a hooligan or even a gangjian, anyway, any birdman can go up and say a few words. Those historians who criticize Wu Zetian don't want to have a few concubines and lovers around them.

The same is true of the law, if any dynasty can really do the Son of Heaven break the law and sin the same crime as the common people, then this dynasty must be very strong, if this is the case, then it is not a feudal society.

Han Yi very much agrees with Pete Zhu's concept, and he doesn't dare to talk nonsense, emphasizing only mutual progress, mutual understanding, and mutual respect, not that women can wear bikinis on the street.

This education conference was really early in the morning until noon, and it wasn't until the drama was about to start that these sons and brothers went back. Han Yi's throat was about to smoke, because there were too many people and too many questions, and he didn't even have time to drink a cup of tea.

“MD! This is not good, if you do it every day, then sooner or later I will become dumb, even if it is free publicity today, it will start charging tomorrow, and it will have to be charged by the hour. ”

Han Yi was chattering, and thought in his heart, yes, there is no psychologist now, I am unique, and this Nima is not used to make money. It's really unreasonable.

Suddenly, I heard a person say, "Talking fee? Let's go, then. ”

Han Yi turned his head to look, and saw Zheng Shanxing and Wang Xuandao standing in the corner, looking at him with a smile. couldn't help but say, "Gongzi Zheng, Gongzi Wang, when did you come?" ”

Zheng Shanxing smiled: "It's been here a long time ago." ”

"Wait a minute."

Han Yi drank several cups of tea in a row and sighed softly. Then he smiled and said: "Zheng Gongzi, if you want to charge this conversation fee, it will be tomorrow's business, and you won't charge it today, hey, what conflict do you have with your wife, let's hear it." ”

When he spoke, that expression was really harmless to humans and animals.

Zheng Shanxing could not be fooled, and said, "You should pay attention to what you say." My wife is his cousin. ”

"Really?"

Han Yi was taken aback.

Wang Xuandao said lightly: "What's so strange about this? ”

Yes, their families are intermarried. Han Yi was slightly disappointed, and said with a smile: "Of course it's best if you don't, the family is harmonious, how good!" ”

"I hope that's what you think." Zheng Shanxing smiled and said, "Although your words have benefited both me and Xuandao, we won't praise you. After all, it's not fun to boast too much. ”

"And it also seems to be raw."

Han Yi added that he didn't care about any of this. And he said, "Sit, sit, sit." ”

The two sat down.

Zheng Shanxing said with a smile: "No matter what, I have to congratulate you, fame and fortune." ”

Wang Xuandao said with a smile: "Friends of women, it really deserves its reputation. ”

Han Yi said: "Look at what you said, what kind of fame and fortune, I just want to help people." I didn't think about this at all, you see my poverty alleviation plan, it's really selling at a loss. ”

Zheng Shanxing said: "But your most expensive loom, you can earn it back by selling one." ”

"It's not such an exaggeration!"

"You are really cunning, you deliberately asked me to settle it that day. In fact, it was to gag my mouth first. Zheng Shanxing said slightly dissatisfied.

I knew you were going to say this. Han Yi sighed and said, "Gongzi Zheng, what you said is really unreasonable, I invited you to cooperate at the beginning, but I refused." ”

Zheng Shanxing nodded and said, "So I said you were cunning, and now no matter what I say, it's my fault." ”

It's good that you know! Han Yi sighed: "If you think so, I think that best friend rabbit can still be sold by myself, lest you say that I lied to you again." ”

"Don't."

Zheng Shanxing smiled: "I'm just talking casually, don't take it seriously." ”

Wang Xuandao smiled and said secretly, this is really flying a kite, loose and tight, just right.

Zheng Shanxing glanced at Wang Xuandao, a little embarrassed, but he was not afraid of this, and said to Han Yi: "This girlfriend rabbit must be the surprise you said that day." ”

Han Yi accepted it when he saw it, and said: "For the requirements for clothes, women are much higher than men, and women's clothes have a wide range of styles, so women are our most reliable customers, and I plan to use this girlfriend rabbit to create a women's market first." ”

Zheng Shanxing said: "I think the same way, but I don't know when you plan to start." ”

"Now!"

Han Yi said: "I have a few courtesans here, who are good at embroidery, and I also know how to be this best friend rabbit, I will send her over later, take those women to do it together, make a hundred first, and we will open it when it is done." ”

Zheng Shanxing said happily: "A word is a certainty. ”

Han Yi said: "But I said in advance, although they are from courtesans, I gave them a promise that we are equal to each other, and they have turned good, you don't want to treat them as subordinates, after all, they are my people from Fengfeilou, not yours." ”

Zheng Shanxing said: "What kind of person I, Zheng Shanxing, don't you know. ”

Han Yi smiled: "Of course I believe in you, Gongzi Zheng, but the problem is, it's not you who takes care of the garment workshop!" ”

Zheng Shanxing was slightly stunned and said, "I will instruct them." ”

"There is labor, there is labor."

Han Yi arched his hand.

At this moment, an entourage walked in and whispered a few words in Zheng Shanxing's ear.

Zheng Shanxing said happily: "Really? ”

"My son-in-law has gone."

Wang Xuandao was stunned for a moment, and suddenly said, "Damn, I almost forgot." ”

Han Yi was curious: "What's the matter?" ”

"Oh, we're in a bit of a hurry, so we'll take our leave."

As he spoke, the two left in a hurry.

Han Yi shook his head with a smile, but he didn't think much about it, sat down, and suddenly laughed, "It's really funny, I'm an unmarried person, and I actually teach people how to get along with husband and wife." ”

But thinking about it, I couldn't help but think of Xiao Yunlai again, recalling the time when he and Xiao Yun were in Yangzhou, and remembering what he said just now, I couldn't help laughing at myself: "Han Yi, Han Yi, you will also persuade others, if you use this mind to Xiao Yun, then you will not end up alone now, and you really deserve it!" ”

Thinking of this, he couldn't help but lose his mind

The southern suburbs of Chang'an City.

But I saw a man in his twenties, dressed in a gray robe, with a thin figure and a wisp of goatee, leading an old horse and slowly walking towards Chang'an City.

There was also a little girl of four or five years old and a young woman in her early twenties, who wore two pigtails and a pair of bright black eyes, and was very clever and lovely, and the young woman was pretty, but there was a trace of uneasiness in her eyes.

"Daddy, how long do you have to walk to Chang'an City?"

The little girl threw herself on the horse's neck, and with a pair of small hands, she held her pink chin and pouted to the man.

The man smiled, "It's coming soon, you have to be patient for a while." ”

The young woman suddenly said, "Senior brother, I always feel a little uneasy. ”

The man waved his hand and said, "Don't be afraid, with me, no one can hurt you." If we can't be accommodated, we just leave, but if we don't come, then it's our fault. ”

The little girl was curious: "Daddy, why can't you tolerate us?" ”

The young woman said, "What do children do you do with so many questions?" ”

The man smiled and said, "It's okay, it's okay." Then he said to the little girl: "Because Daddy was not a very well-behaved child when he was a child, the uncles and uncles in Chang'an City didn't like Daddy, and if you want to drive Daddy away, you have to be well-behaved." ”

The little girl pursed her mouth and said, "Daddy, let's not go to Chang'an." ”

The man said, "Why? ”

The little girl said: "Mother always says that Lian'er is not a good child, and Lian'er is afraid that those uncles and uncles will also drive Lian'er away." ”

The man laughed.

The young woman smiled and said, "What did my mother say, you were already naughty and tight." ”

The little girl glanced back at her mother and said, "Lian'er didn't say that it was her mother's fault, Lian'er knew that she was not well-behaved, so she didn't go to Chang'an." ”

The man laughed, "Your naughty ones are really not worth mentioning compared to Daddy." ”

At this moment, I suddenly heard a roar from the front, "Shi Hexagram, Shi Hexagram." ”

I saw five horses galloping over.

"It's Yuan Gongzi and them."

The young woman looked up and said with joy.

The man smiled and beckoned.

This man is none other than Lu Shigua, one of the seven sons of Chang'an.

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