Section 229 Family Feast

The third volume sailed in the Ming Dynasty

Qin Haoming's words, Qi Gang only listened to the second half, and his face was already slightly red. Pen "Fun" Pavilion www.biquge.info

On weekdays, he sees more of Qin Haoming's decisive character, and he never wants to talk about love.

Sure enough, this wind and snow, Qingqing and I are really good at literati.

However, it can be seen that both parties are satisfied with each other, and he is relieved.

This is a family banquet in the true sense of the word, the Qi family has deep roots and many children. But as Qi Shaobao fought everywhere that year, the clansmen also blossomed everywhere.

Qi Gang's ancestors chose to take root in Xuanfu and passed it on to his generation, but the heirs were not prosperous, which made him quite distressed. Therefore, he is basically in Xuanfu and rarely goes back to his hometown in Jiangsu and Zhejiang.

There are six people, two men, four women, and there are not enough people at one table, which seems a little incongruous. That's it, including Wan'er and Qi Gang's two concubines.

Originally, it was inconvenient for them to serve at the table, but if there were only three people eating, it would be a bit bleak.

Therefore, under Qin Haoming's strong advice, Qi Gang finally agreed to sit together.

"The mother-in-law feels sorry for her son-in-law, this table is full of dishes, color, flavor, and flavor.

It's not that the family doesn't enter the door, it's better for everyone to drink a little wine, Wan'er and the two aunts accompany each other, what does the father-in-law think? ”

The first time they met, everyone was a little restrained after all, Qi Wanru adhered to everyone's beautiful style, and she didn't say anything. Qi Gang's two concubines basically didn't dare to speak because of their status.

In this way, only Qi Gang and Qin Haoming, as well as Mrs. Qi, occasionally interjected a sentence or two, and the atmosphere seemed a little dull.

As a modern person, Qin Haoming naturally has the feudal thoughts of a man of the times, and he does not have the submissiveness of his father-in-law and mother-in-law when he first meets him.

And when he said this, he instructed his servants to fetch the glasses.

"It's okay, just according to the words of the captive."

Qi Gang nodded, and he was as good as a stream.

Of course, Qin Haoming's identity is also there, so it is not an arrogance.

Wine is the best lubricant, and it's true. As you toast a toast and I toast a toast, the atmosphere gradually becomes harmonious, and the original rustiness is gone.

Everyone laughed and laughed, and gradually felt like a family.

"My uncle has a special identity and is busy with affairs, so you have to choose the auspicious day of marriage."

Mrs. Qi glanced at Qi Gang and said with a smile.

The Qi family had already selected a few auspicious days of the zodiac, waiting for Qin Haoming to finalize them. Such an excellent uncle, the entire Qi family attaches great importance to it from top to bottom, and it is not an exaggeration to say that it is Gao Pan.

"Actually, it's okay, it's up to the elders to decide, and it's very convenient to be alone."

Qin Haoming replied with a smile.

Speaking of this, Qi Wanru's face turned crimson, and she told her in her heart that she wanted to leave here, but she was extremely reluctant, and she just twisted the corner of her clothes without saying a word.

"It's okay, and there is no need to discuss marriage, small gifts, etc., so cumbersome, just prepare it all by the Qi family, as long as my uncle sends the marriage certificate, what do you think?"

Before the marriage, the relatives are discussed, and the relatives are discussed at the beginning of the small ceremony, in the ordinary people of the Ming Dynasty, marriage needs to be bargained.

Generally, four magenta or six magenta, that is, four to six pieces of satin clothing, gold rings, gold earrings, and so on.

The dowry is 36 small gifts, 64 middle gifts, and 100 large gifts.

After the marriage, the man carried the above-mentioned gifts to the woman in a bar box. The woman's return gifts are mostly gold groups, oil bags and embroidery made by the girl.

With Qin Haoming's current status, where would the Qi family care about this?

However, this certificate of marriage in the mouth of Mrs. Qi is what the entire Qi family cares about the most.

The man gave a book, commonly known as red and green book paper, with two layers of paper, red on the outside and green on the inside. The woman sent back the post for approval, commonly known as Wending.

In this way, when it is recorded by the government, it is recognized and protected by the government. At the same time, it also means that the identity of the wife is determined, and no one shakes it.

Therefore, nowadays husband and wife quarrel, and my wife often says that I have red and green books and paper, so as to remind her husband that she is a wife.

Following Wending, choosing auspicious to marry is the proper meaning.

"Everything depends on my mother-in-law's wishes, but ......"

Before he finished speaking, as soon as he spoke, the eyes of the five people all converged on him, and the following words stopped.

"Virtuous son-in-law, don't worry, everyone Liu has a concubine for you, Wan'er and they already know."

Qi Gang waved his hand and said indifferently.

With Qin Haoming's current status, let alone three wives and four concubines or something, you can do as much as you want.

If you don't, in officialdom and even within the clan, people will look down on you and think that you are not capable enough.

Marrying more women is for the sake of family reproduction, and only when a family is prosperous can there be more talents and remain strong.

In Daming, it's not that you're strong personally, others are afraid of you, and you don't have the support of a clan, no matter how strong you are, it's hard to get ahead?

As long as her daughter has the status of a wife, she has nothing to fear.

"I wish to win the heart of one person, and the white head will not be separated.

In fact, Po Lu is not a person who loves rotten, and he walked with Liu and everyone by coincidence. In this case, it is the responsibility and obligation to make his woman happy.

Therefore, the son-in-law hopes that the interior of the house will ......"

Qin Haoming said this in front of Qi Wanru, of course, he still didn't finish speaking, but the meaning was very obvious.

To understand it, Qi Wanru can be a wife externally, and the internal hope is equal.

The atmosphere at the scene sank suddenly, Qi Gang's face was uncertain, the current law is like this, he doesn't understand why Qin Haoming wants to be a maverick?

"Qin Lang, please rest assured, Wan'er is not a jealous person, compared to Sister Liu, Wan'er doesn't know how lucky?

Being able to get Qin Lang as her husband is Wan'er's blessing, so you don't have to be demanding! ”

Qi Wanru spit out her mouth lightly, her voice is tactful and melodious, like water and song, and her unique Jiangsu and Zhejiang accents have the softness and warmth of Wu language, such as the hollow valley orchid, which is soft and soft, making people feel comfortable and relaxed.

What's more important is that she has no contention or demand, which is what Qin Haoming values the most.

Of course, it can also explain Qi Wanru's cleverness.

Qin Lang's status is destined to be impossible to be monogamous like ordinary people.

If she really only marries herself, she will also be forced to die by the world.

There are seven sayings in the Ming Dynasty, if the husband does not take concubines, the wife will be called a jealous woman, and the three obedience and four virtues will be corrupted.

Besides, Qin Lang is alone and has no brothers and sisters, it is precisely because he has to have more children that he can spread out his branches, and she knows her father's distress.

In this case, why not be kind to others, keep the family peaceful, and think that you can get Qin Lang's respect and favor even more!

"Wan'er!"

Looking at Qi Wanru, who had the appearance of a sinking fish and a wild goose, and the appearance of a shy flower in the closed moon, Qin Haoming sighed in his heart, if he has a wife like this, what more can a husband ask for?

"Virtuous son-in-law, it's rare for Wan'er to be so generous, don't let it down in the future!"

His daughter said so, Qi Gang could only sigh and say to Qin Haoming in a serious tone.

"Please rest assured, the son-in-law will live up to Wan'er in this life, and she will be happy for the rest of her life."

Qin Haoming responded loudly and unequivocally, which is both a promise and a heartfelt voice.