Why am I so caught up in family affection that I can't extricate myself?

Zhuangzi thought about it and came and went, finally! The conclusion is that society does not give us a sense of security!

If it weren't for this troubled era, if the society was very stable, it would be as stable as the early Zhou Dynasty, the people lived and worked in peace and contentment, and there was no war?

Zhuangzi thought: family affection should be more indifferent.

Because! Our parents, elders, brothers and sisters, spouses, children and descendants, they are all safe, they don't need us to take care of them, they don't need us to care, they can live well, and there will be less excessive love between us. Nature! Family affection is a little indifferent.

But in troubled times, since we have children, can we not care about our children? Since we are born as human sons, how can we not care about our parents and elders? We are all brothers and sisters born from the same father and mother, can we not care about them? Our elders have taken care of our parents, can we watch them suffer?

Since we have agreed to form a family with our spouses and have children together, can we live alone without regard for our spouses?

Now that we have children, can we watch them suffer?

As elders, can we, as elders, watch our offspring suffer?

It is precisely because of the troubled times that it was born, so! We are more indulged in family affection.

Because we have limited ability, we can't save the world, we only have this ability, do our best to protect our loved ones.

Furthermore! The family is the most natural unit in society, and society is composed of countless families, and the family is also composed of individual people.

The family, on the other hand, is the largest combination of individuals in society. This combination is more reliable than a team, group, organization, and country formed with strangers.

Because! Family members are the people we trust the most, and they are all our loved ones.

The composition of the family members is as follows: one! Daddy, siblings, daddy's daddy. Two! Parents, spouses, children and descendants. Three! Father's mother's father's mother, father's mother, self and spouse, and children born to themselves and their spouse.

Parents! It should be our most trustworthy person. In this world, it can be said that there is no one who loves us more than them except our parents. Of course! Except for a few parents. Except for my father and mother who have water in my head, except for my father and mother who are too selfish.

Daddy's parents, our grandparents and grandmothers, also loved us equally. Because! We are their descendants. But! Because they have so many children and offspring who need their love, so! If you can care for us, there will be less portion. Even! I can't take care of it. It's not that they don't care about us, it's that they have limited abilities.

Brothers and sisters, and the most trustworthy people for us. We grew up together and shared the love of our parents and elders. Afterward! We each started a family and had children. When we were young, we shared the love of our fathers and mothers, and when our parents were old, we served them together.

If the siblings are not united, the family built by the father and mother will be scattered. So! We need to unite with them and treat them as the people we trust most.

Spouse! Needless to say, spouses are one of the people we trust the most. If we don't believe in each other, we don't want to start this family, there is no need to start a family.

Children and grandchildren! Naturally, we are the people we believe in the most! If we don't believe them, something is wrong with our education. If they don't believe in us, either they're too selfish or we're too selfish.

As a father and mother, since I have decided to have children, I have decided to raise them to grow up, hoping that they will live well. If you don't think like this, you are not a good parent, and it is normal for your children and future generations to treat you badly in the future.

Our children and grandchildren have the same relationship with us as we do with our parents.

If we don't even trust our families anymore, we can say it! There is no one in this world who can be trusted.

So! Any member of a team, a member of any group, a member of any organization, an official of any state agency, they are not as reliable and trustworthy as our family members.

It is precisely because the family is the largest organization and team in society that so! We need family affection even more.

It is precisely because of those organizations, teams, and groups in society that they are not worthy of our trust, so! We believe in our family more and pay more attention to family affection.

So! We indulge in family affection.

Think about it! Zhuangzi finally found a reason for himself: why am I indulging in family affection!

It's because! Born in troubled times, life is in danger! If we can't even take care of our own families, do we still admire our fathers and mothers? Do we still wear wives and husbands? Do we still wear to be sons of man?

What is the level of love and affection that is not indulgence?

Zhuangzi felt that since he had decided to have children, he should ensure the safety of his children before they became adults. In the same way, you have to do everything in your power to ensure that your offspring are adults. Otherwise! Don't be easy to have children.

As for the grandchildren, it's not for you to worry about. Because! They have mom and dad. Since their father and mother have decided to give birth, they should be responsible.

Of course! It's not the kind of callous and uncaring kind of thing. But! If you can help, you can help. If your children are in trouble, can you still watch your grandchildren suffer? Your grandchildren are not your children, but they are your descendants after all. Isn't it?

Second! As a father and mother, don't think that you are waiting to receive interest after giving birth to children. If this is the case, it is wrong, and it is causing trouble and burdening future generations. So! As a parent, try to take care of yourself as much as possible, and don't let your children and future generations worry or worry about you.

If we do this, we can not worry about the support of our parents and elders, and we can alleviate the concerns of our children and future generations. Isn't that the truth? We are all self-reliant, there is no dependence, we only have family affection and love left, do we still have worries about our lives?

Because people in the world are troubled by the problem of survival in troubled times, and troubled by various desires in peaceful and prosperous times. So! They are not happy in life.

So! As a father and mother, life is not happy. In troubled times, they are forever troubled by the survival problems of themselves and their children and descendants, and they live unhappily. In the peaceful and prosperous times, they are troubled by the various desires of their children and descendants, and in order to satisfy all kinds of desires, they live unhappy.

And I'm Zhuang Zhou! Just as unhappy! Because! I have desires too! I was so addicted to family affection that I couldn't extricate myself. I had a desire to find those two sons.

Looking at the red sun in the east, Zhuangzi burst into tears.