In our world, unless it is a fool who has no thinking, for normal people, who does not want to be happy. But if happiness is a gift, should it be a novelty given by the times?

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For daily leisure, the word puzzle that reminds me the most is "two people work together to break through the sky, and ten women only plough half of the field". But what is the riddle? Readers may already know that the word "husband and wife" can also be.

However, when it comes to "husband and wife", I should think of another word "happiness", but if it is connected to it, then "husband and wife happiness", who does not hope and wish and think about it. But in daily life, is there really such a good thing? In my opinion, it is neither at all. Only by focusing on the reality of each couple can we understand each other, and then we can deconstruct it clearly.

My colleagues in the unit often advertise me as an expert in love. Why is that? Because although I like to say, "How about the big girl getting on the sedan chair?" But what is even more special is that although she is not a professional matchmaker, she is famous and cannot be underestimated. I don't know, the couple I introduced to the matchmaker and presided over the marriage, although they are not all happy, but at least they are relatively happy! There are even some successful people such as big bosses, as well as civil servants, salesmen or other professionals, the quality of happiness is very high, and the divorce rate has not been zero. The young boys and girls who are in love with me, the parents and friends who are eager to love me, and the happy neighbors and villagers are constantly looking for me to make jokes, longing for me to be introduced to their marriage, so that they can achieve a hundred years of goodness. But I also enjoy it, after all, "I wish people a long time, thousands of miles together", and "entrusted by people, end people's things", "do good deeds and be blessed" ancient admonitions, have deeply injected into my heart, but also achieved my matchmaker and witness life journey.

I once wrote a poem called "Aria of Marriage and Love", which has these few lines, which should be offered to readers and friends: "I hope that people will last a long time/A thousand miles together/Looking back suddenly/Marriage and love go hand in hand." can be written, and there are several couples who can reach this realm, and can sing the main chord of happiness in the marriage siege of pots and pans and oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea.

Send you a flower of happiness, happiness will accompany thousands of families for a long time; If the husband and wife are happy, the world will be one family. The bitterness of the words, the bits and pieces of writing, should be my blessing here, and sing the praises of happiness with chic and pure affection.

Not long ago, I saw an article whose title seemed to be arranged and expanded around the word "power", and its readable content made me constantly fall into a contemplative reverie.

The article begins with the author's words: Is the power of two people greater, or is the power of one person greater? Surely quite a few people will answer: yes, two. After all, the husband and wife who "two people work together to break through the sky, and ten women only plough half of the field" can break gold and silver together. This makes quite a few people think of working together, thinking of working hard in only one direction, and naturally, the answer is the strength of the two. But what I didn't expect was that there was another situation, which could also be a sharp turn, and if the two of them each used force in opposite directions, then how should the force be judged? So, there are two sides to everything, not absolutely. Therefore, in this case, if the two people use opposite forces, they will decide to resist each other, or even lose their strength. This is the strength of the two people, when deciding whether to use force in the same direction or in the opposite direction, this is the key to answering the question. The author even said that he was driving with a boss, and the boss was in a bad mood, and talked to him about his unhappy marriage, and let the husband and wife never walk on the same road, you want to go east, she goes west, and they have to quarrel with each other, and the kind of noise is simply three days of annoyance, not to mention happy and happy, and even noisy so that the child suffers from it, and suffers from severe depression. Even if you have money, what do you think? But while chatting, the boss suddenly stopped the car silently, and one of his eyes seemed to be nailed by something, and he was firmly fixed in one place. The author was surprised to look at the boss's eyes, only to see a middle-aged couple, the man was struggling to ride a tricycle full of fruits, while the woman was pushing hard behind the car, although the pace was slow, but their eyes were clearly full of solemn looks, as well as the charm of harmony and harmony, which simply constituted a gorgeous and brilliant ink painting and landscape in the world! Let the author see that the stunned boss, in just a moment, let the tears fill the boss's eyes, so moist that they have flowed out of the corners of his eyes, and watched the couple turn into one street after another, until they were out of sight. At this time, the boss wiped his tears and said to the author, it really makes you laugh, think about them, although the family background is not very good, but at least they are happier than me! And me? Even though he has a lot of wealth, a very high status, and a good reputation, his happiness seems to have left me, and it has long disappeared, and it is difficult to return. Therefore, in the world, it is better to be happy! Therefore, it can be said that we should have nothing to do with happiness, money should definitely have nothing to do with it, maybe only one of the factors, but the decisive factor is the concerted efforts of the husband and wife, is to feel the individual experience of both parties, and its superior kung fu is the love flower at any time watering, pregnant at any time, and cultivated at any time!

Someone may have said that poor couples mourn for a hundred days, and rich and noble mandarin ducks are winged. But I often don't look at it that way, and I have to scan it from life to know the real thing.

One day, my wife asked a colleague, I see that you two are really happy! It's like: "Work and business are not wrong, and life is quiet and talking; Shopping hand in hand with laughter, happy couples are enviable." When my colleague heard this, he leaned back and laughed, really? In my opinion, you two are happy as a couple! So, for happiness, you are observing the happiness of others, and others may be observing your happiness. So, who is happier? I think perhaps this should be inspired by the blind man touching the elephant, touching the head and touching the feet, or touching the other, friend, tell me, will the feeling be the same? Will there be any such opinions?

Send you a happy flower, this flower is very bright, its envy can be like a drop of water, rolling among the stamens, almost the purpose of human pursuit. However, in my life, because there is no shortage of intimate contact with many bosses, I have the body smell of observation, and six or seven out of ten bosses are irritable and have a big temper? But their anger can only be solved with the word "scolding", scolding employees, scolding customers, scolding the people around them, and even scolding the government and society. Because, they are also mixed with quite a lot of swearing, nonsense, angry talk and, which is simply ugly and abnormal, and almost enough to scold other people's ancestors for eight generations. For this reason, I often wonder if the boss is already like this, and it is difficult to become an entrepreneur. But China is also really, there are very few real entrepreneurs, and they are very thin. For example, what we are talking about now is that when we go to the toilet, we have to meet college students, and the toilet will always meet the boss, but if we meet a real entrepreneur, I think, it will be more difficult for a year, and if you meet one or two, you should shout "Ula".

However, the happy flowers given to us by God have their own interpretations, just like the hanging gardens of the city, whether to plant big trees or flowers and plants, it will be cultivated by the homeowner. Therefore, the rich have the concept of happiness of the rich, and the poor also have the concept of happiness of the poor; Great people have the happiness concept of great people, and ordinary people also have the happiness concept of ordinary people. If the world is a concept of happiness, that kind of cruelty is not foreseeable when we dare not. Just like an amateur writer friend I know, the two of us have a very good relationship, and we must be very hard buddies. But every time he sees me, he always takes the trouble to recommend the boss theory to me, to put it bluntly, he hopes that I can also be the boss and enjoy the unique style of the boss, so that we can all take care of each other, hello, hello, hello, everyone, equal boss. But I always say that I am not the material to be the boss, if I can be the boss, I can only be a fool, and it is like Zhou Enlai and *, can they be interchanged? If everyone is the boss, who will be the worker? Who will give selflessly? Therefore, if the world is really a mold, all are great people, all bosses, and all entrepreneurs, then the world is really the only horror to get in touch with us, and it will continue to overflow for us.

The United States and Al Qaeda have formed a huge terrorist group, and Bush and Bush are both "terrorist tycoons" who call each other insults. They're all racing, they're all making blood. Bush has a modern arsenal of modern believers, and there are devout believers, and the two camps are deceitful and deceitful, and they have long interpreted the world into a field of blood and tears of madness and madness, as if in response to the fact that "immortals fight, mortals suffer," and it is not ordinary people who suffer and suffer. In my opinion, it is they who are each advocating for their own concept of happiness, and if, like us in China, we always practice the kung fu of following the light and cultivating obscurity, so that the theme of peace and development can continue to be sung, and we will not cause trouble everywhere, as long as it is beneficial to China's development and does not go against the interests of the country, we can do it. Even if there are even shorts dressed in fashion, coupled with the Ruan Xiaoer style, who does not eat viagra's wonderful works, it should be better than the compromise between Boda and the revolution mentioned by Lenin, and continue to carry forward the national light of the five principles of peaceful coexistence, then, regardless of whether it is majestic or not, as long as it will make a lot of money, it will always sing the loud ballad of "development is the last word", if it is the same as the last word in developing syphilis, it will decide to be stronger than the state of war and the state of preparation for war in the United States.

Happiness is a thing, I don't dare to seek too far, nor do I dare to ask for extravagance, just in the virtual network, reading books, and looking for real reality, looking for night after night, thinking about it year after year, lingering one after another, but in the end I still failed to wake up, I can only regret it, or quiet and elegant, but I can only consider it by myself.

Mr. Li Ka-shing, the richest man in Asia, has an article "Being a Boss or a Leader", I almost admired it after reading it, but China's bosses, how many people are willing to learn from Li Ka-shing as a business leader, and more are sinking in being a boss, and what is surrounded by it is only the boss complex, not the quality of the leader, so I can't complain about Li Ka-shing or the bosses. This may be the reason why the happiness of leaders and bosses is constantly dancing for it!

Heaven raises happy birds, and hell imps are also difficult; Entwined for why? Happiness is normal. People themselves are tired enough, not only to endure the torture of life, old age, sickness and death given by God, but also to endure the interplay of work, study and life, but also to constantly pursue and struggle, this market competition mechanism, is not an ongoing deduction. Therefore, if people want to escape from it, they must choose to escape calmly, and with a quiet heart and a tranquil and elegant mind, they will play the factor of happiness for the etiquette and music of life.

If people want to be happy, they must empathize, consider their own state with the state of mind of others, and think about whether they can get along with others and have close contact. As I often say to the workshop manager, "Less in the office, more in the workshop". The workshop personnel are directly serving the production staff, and they are the task of the unit into the passion of the operating members, and finally the product goes to the market and enters the piety of thousands of households to achieve the development goals of the enterprise. Therefore, for "shopping", that is, we should try to sit in the office as little as possible, just in addition to the information sorting; And "Akira"? It is very broad, not only to reassure the leader, the boss to worry, the employee happy, almost dyed with joy extraordinary, cadres and people with one heart and one mind, the enterprise can develop and prosper!

In fact, when we walk in the world, can we really find happiness in everyone's search? Didn't you find it? Everyone is a law. However, the spirit of sending you a flower of happiness has continued to continue, and at an extraordinary speed, we human beings continue to move forward on the road of happiness.

"The time of the year is in the spring, and the time of the day is in the morning." The passage of time is in a hurry to destroy people in the old and fast. Think about it, how many springs there are in life, how many 365 days, if we think about it, we will also regret the rapid disappearance of time. For this reason, at this time of spring, I should write this text, that is, I hope that our friends all over the world can dare to take a holiday for their souls, learn to sort out their past time, learn to choose happiness to give up and treasure, and learn to look forward to the future of their own efforts to fight the direction, then, our anchor rudder, in order to send you a happy flower of the journey, and continue to move forward, and finally shine a dazzling halo.