Tonight, Xiaolan didn't know how many times she flipped through her phone, and almost every time she looked at her phone with a face full of expectations, she was still disappointed in the end. Finally, at the moment when Xiaolan put down her phone for the last time.

I asked Xiaolan, "What's wrong, is there something wrong?" ”

Xiaolan shook her head with a disappointed face and said, "No ......"

I continued: "Don't pretend, we've known each other for so long, do you still think I can't see it? ”

Xiaolan smiled weakly, and then told me the whole thing one by one, it turned out that she liked a boy some time ago.

It's not so much that she likes this boy, it's better to say that this boy flirts with Xiaolan first.

The boy first added Xiaolan WeChat from a friend, and after adding, he began to start sweet words about Xiaolan.

"Have you eaten?"

"How can you not eat it, if you don't eat it, I will be worried."

"Do you know what I'm thinking, I'm thinking about you."

"Didn't you ask what type of girl I liked last time, actually, you're the type I like."

When I heard this, I felt miserable, Xiaolan must have fallen in love.

Sure enough, when Xiaolan has all these troubles today, it means that she has fallen in love.

In love, it is inevitable that it will be like this, boys are just bored to tease you, or they may flirt with several girls at the same time. However, the girl was easily distracted, but she didn't know that the other party was just trying to get rid of the kidney.

-02-

Later, we all knew that the boy gradually began to play the old routine of disappearance.

Messages don't reply, phone calls don't answer, go out to play, the reason is always unavailable.

However, Xiaolan still thinks that the boy may really be unavailable and really busy? So, she kept sending messages to boys.

It's just that we can almost see from Xiaolan's eyes that this boy didn't pay attention to Xiaolan.

I asked Xiaolan, "Do you like this boy?" ”

Xiaolan said: "This boy doesn't meet the standards of the opposite sex that I like at all. I will like him, I will be obsessed with him, but the sweet words he spoke at the time were very nice, and his attitude was very gentle and considerate. ”

Xiaolan's idea is the same as that of many girls. Sometimes, it's not that they don't understand that the boy doesn't like them anymore, they know better than anyone else, they understand it better than anyone else. However, they have become accustomed to this boy, and they have become fond of this boy. Even, in this love, they have already entered the drama and have already begun to pay for this relationship.

When a girl has already paid to that boy, how can you expect that girl to let go easily and leave easily?

You should know better than anyone else that both men and women cannot get out of a relationship very quickly, let alone transfer that emotion to other members of the opposite sex very quickly. After all, how can someone who has loved so deeply give up casually? How can you just not love?

So, for them, the best antidote is time. Time can let go of everything, time, and start a new life.

-03-

Shakespeare said, "The path of love is not smooth." ”

No matter who it is, it is difficult to meet the opposite sex on the road of love, and the first person you meet is the right person, that is, the person who will go forever. However, I can't say that there is no such possibility. This possibility still exists, after all, there are many people who fall in love at first sight, and they are each other's first love, but those people belong to the minority.

In other words, more people have to go around and around for a while to meet the right person. The road called love will not be smooth.

Some people, they appear in your world, although they hurt you deeply, but they are not superfluous, those people, although they can't accompany you to old age, but they can make you grow on the road of love and make you better.

So, you really don't have to be obsessed with those people, and even, punish yourself with the mistakes of others. You know better than everyone that he can make you cry, can make you suspicious and turn into a psychopath, then he is not the right person for you.

Just like Xiaolan, she understands better than anyone that this boy is not worthy of her liking, and she understands better than anyone else that she doesn't need to deceive herself anymore. Although she is currently unable to get out of this relationship, she can't forget the giving, the love. It's just that I believe that time can take her out, and it can also make her more mature and confident through this relationship.

You really don't have to be obsessed with this guy, and you don't have to complain about why he ignores you and doesn't stay with you, and you don't have to ask him why he ignores you. You should know better than anyone else that if he ignores you, he just doesn't like you, and he just doesn't want to be with you.

When the time is ripe, when you become excellent, when you become gentle and virtuous, there will be a person of the opposite sex who is worthy enough.

At that time, as long as you smile at each other and look at each other, you know that it is the person who will be with you for the rest of your life.