Section 207 My heart is very comforted
The third volume sailed in the Ming Dynasty
"I don't know if it's good or bad, it's mainly to compare you with Lu Du. Pen "Fun" Pavilion www.biquge.info
One is introverted, the other is sharp. One is gentle, the other is ruthless. One is upright, the other is cunning.
Which one is you? ”
Qi Gang smiled a little ill-intentionedly, and deliberately seemed vague to ridicule Qin Haoming.
"They're not wrong, it's me who is ruthless.
In this troubled world, we must be ruthless not only to the enemy, but also to ourselves. Otherwise, it will be difficult for the company to survive. ”
Qin Haoming nodded generously, admitting that he was indeed ruthless.
This is a troubled time, but it is a life-and-death duel between two peoples, how can you do it if you are not ruthless?
"Don't be cruel to Wan'er, there will only be one daughter."
Qi Gang loves his daughter very much, and never forgets to maintain his daughter's happiness.
"Father-in-law, when will you arrange for Wan'er to meet me, the ugly daughter-in-law always has to see her in-laws, and it is not a long-term solution to hide it all the time?"
Qin Haoming's grinning face brought up the old matter again.
In fact, there is a little lament in my heart, I can't talk about love before marriage like in later generations, the key is that Yan is concubine has no way to know, and it is really anxious.
But the times and customs are like this, in vain!
"The three books and six rituals have not been completed, and they are inconsistent with the rituals, and I am afraid that they will be criticized."
Qi Gang had a bitter face, did this kid really don't understand or pretended to be stupid, didn't he know such a simple etiquette?
But then I thought about it, he lost his childhood and lived a difficult life, so he really didn't understand. In addition, the nature of the teenager is that he cares about good looks, so he is rude.
"In this way, tomorrow the son-in-law will invite a matchmaker to come to the door to say yes, and all etiquette will be done according to the standard."
Qin Haoming groaned slightly, and then said generously.
Since you have come to this era, let's blend in.
Besides, Qin Haoming also likes traditional Chinese etiquette, which is one of the customs and culture that has been inherited in China for thousands of years.
The three books refer to the letter of appointment, the letter of honor and the letter of welcome. The six rites refer to the six rituals in the process of marriage, such as Nacai, Naji, Naji, Nazheng, Invitation, and Greeting.
In the Ming Dynasty, if a man and a woman do not complete the process of the Three Books and Six Rites, the marriage will not be recognized as a Ming marriage and will not have legal effect.
After the Qi family is the gate, they naturally pay attention to etiquette, which is what it should mean.
As for Liu Ruyi, who is in Linpu, the same will be true in the future, and she will definitely not be able to favor one over the other and let her suffer the slightest grievance.
"So good! On the other day, the old man asked Wan'er to cook a table of good dishes, and the two of us had two drinks. ”
Qi Gang smiled after hearing this, patted Governor Qin's shoulder cordially, and said angrily.
He was really happy in his heart, but fortunately, he was quick and accurate enough to find a wishful golden beetle son-in-law for his daughter.
More importantly, officials with official titles and titles in the Ming Dynasty had their own regulations on marrying wives and concubines, and people with a bit of culture and status could marry a concubine, that is, "one wife and one concubine".
Ordinary people are not allowed to marry a young wife, and "one husband and one wife", as in modern times, is monogamy.
As a young governor, Qin Haoming's identity is naturally not lacking.
But her own Wan'er has already booked the position of his wife, and the other Qi Gang doesn't matter, after all, the concubine has no status in Daming.
Old man? The two of you?
Qin Haoming is really not used to being only thirty or forty years old, and it is Qi Gang, who is in the prime of life, who calls himself an old man.
However, the Ming man got married early, and now he is the son-in-law of the adult family, even if he is uncomfortable, he has to endure it, who calls someone a respected elder?
After that, Qin Haoming acted quickly, and on the same day, he entrusted Yang Tinglin to find a professional matchmaker to handle this matter on his behalf.
The high-ranking and powerful young governor wants to marry, and you can imagine how many people want to take this opportunity to tie the knot, and even with the identity of Qi Gang in Xuanfu Town, the tide is rising.
Although marriage is not a formal marriage, there are very few people who are good at seizing opportunities, especially businessmen.
"Governor Qin, I have received dozens of greetings today, officials and businessmen, and a few well-informed people have come from other places to ask for a meeting, you see?"
Yan Yingyuan, who was temporarily pulled by Qin Haoming to act as a staff member, held a bunch of sorted out worship posts in his hand, from top to bottom according to his status.
It's just that there is a deep worry in his eyes, is it really appropriate for Qin Du to do this?
"The old rule is that things are accepted, and people are received at the banquet. Don't those five guys yet? ”
Qin Haoming didn't even look at the post, and wrote strange symbols that Yan Yingyuan couldn't understand, and said in a comfortable mood.
"Xu hasn't gotten the news yet, and there are no five Jin merchants you said at the moment."
Yan Yingyuan was a little puzzled, did Qin Du have a holiday with Jin Shang, why did he keep staring at them?
"Yuan Heng underestimated them, and they were better informed than anyone else. The guts are very fat, could it be that the business can't be done if you don't want to? ”
Qin Haoming stood up, stretched his waist, and said to Yan Yingyuan with a smile.
It feels so good to hold the hilt of the knife, and there are ways to deal with them.
It should be that the imperial court's move to deal with the three Jin merchants this time frightened them, and they are studying how to please themselves.
Qin Haoming's smile, which he thought was very easy-going, looked a little dark in Yan Yingyuan's eyes, especially when he said that Jin Shang was very bold.
Could it be that these five Jin merchants also fornicated with each other?
"Governor Qin, do you want to meet Deputy General Wang, this time his congratulatory gift has 8,000 silver tickets and 10 gold bars."
It should be said that Wang Pu's congratulatory gift is quite expensive, after all, it is just a marriage, and it is not a real wedding. But I don't know if Qin Du is really married, so how much should he give?
Yan Yingyuan's family is poor, and when he first entered the officialdom, he really had never seen such a big hand, so he proposed carefully.
"Too little, let it dry first!
The Wang family has been a general for generations, and he has the skill to collect wealth, which is not inferior to the big businessmen of Xuanfu and Datong. A few thousand floating fortunes are just a drop in the bucket for him. ”
Qin Haoming, who came to Wang Pu Chongli, knew that he only had one battle against Koubian this time, and it was a big defeat.
Therefore, when the court held him accountable, he was demoted from the chief soldier to the deputy chief soldier.
Moreover, the other generals in Xuanfu Town had a lot of friendships with him, and he broke away from the Tianxiong army because of Lu Xiangsheng's adversity and ran to Chen Xinjia's army.
At this time, he must be nervous in his heart, I don't know if he will give him small shoes to wear, his relationship with Lu Xiangsheng, how many people in the Ming officialdom don't know now?
Too little?
Yan Yingyuan was a little dizzy, how big was Qin Du's heart?
All the businessmen, big and small generals, sent congratulatory gifts, but he did not refuse to come, and he received himself with trembling hearts and a little afraid.
Where is this marriage, Qin Du is clearly collecting money nakedly! This is not good for his official reputation, his foundation is still too shallow, and he needs to be cautious!
Helplessly, he made many suggestions, he just smiled and said: "It's okay, I'm very relieved, continue!" ”
"Qin Du, there are quite a few, there are already ......"
Yan Yingyuan unconsciously looked around, lowered his voice and stretched out two fingers and shook them.