There is nothing wrong with children being curious and imitating adults. Opposite! It also proves that this child is very smart and talented. But! There are many parents, adults, and elders who do not understand, and often embarrass or even embarrass them because of their children's curiosity and imitation. Thus! Punish the child severely. Outcome! In addition to erasing the child's self-motivation, it also left a psychological shadow on the child. What was supposed to be a good thing turned out to be a bad thing.

This is the result of the wrong approach to education!

Originally, this little child may have been a genius, but it turned out to be a mediocre talent.

Faced with his eight-year-old daughter's question, Bai Gui thought about it for a long time, and finally decided to know everything and tell her everything he could tell his daughter. And! It also satisfies all the curiosities of her daughter.

Want to see it? Look! Want to touch it? Feel it!

And then tell her! It's okay for kids! You can't grow up! It's okay with my father, but not with anyone else. This can be the case between mom and dad! Fathers and daughters, mothers and sons, brothers and sisters, no one in a family can do this. The same is true for close relatives in the family, if the blood inheritance is too close, it is not allowed to be like this.

"That? Why? Isn't my mother also a member of the family? Bai Yun asked a little puzzled.

Oh, yes? Isn't my mother also a member of the family?

Since the mother is a member of the family, why can't the daughter be with the father......

"My mother was not our family before, her blood inheritance is the same as that of her uncle, and her mother and uncle are a family. Afterward! My grandfather married your mother to me, and we formed a family. And then! gave birth to you and your brother.

Do you think so? Future! When you grow up, you're going to get married. It's like your mother, married to someone. That man! It's like your dad and me. And then! They also have their own babies, and you have your own family.

Just as my grandfather gave birth to your mother and your uncle, just as I gave birth to you and your brother. Isn't it? ”

Bai Yun turned his mind for a long time, and his head hurt before he thought about this problem clearly. Before! She couldn't turn her head for a while, thinking that her mother was also a family.

Not to mention the eight-year-old Bai Yun, there is a true story in the world before Bai Gui crossed over.

A rich second generation, with well-developed limbs and some problems in his mind, he didn't figure out this problem. He has a younger sister in his family, who is very beautiful. He really wanted to be with his sister that, but! For various reasons, it did not work.

My sister didn't pay much attention to her brother's sometimes excesses. Because! Family! Isn't it? What does this mean? It shows that the brother loves himself. Not only did she not think of incest, but she also thought that her brother's love for her was the affection between family members and brother and sister.

Afterward! The second generation of the stupid rich is getting older year by year, and he refuses to fall in love, and even refuses to get married. Because he is a rich second generation, there is money in the family, and there are still women who are greedy for money and parents who are greedy for money who are willing to marry their daughters to him.

When his sister fell in love and got married, he told the secret in his heart: he liked his own sister.

"Nima is more foolish than you?" When the father learned of this situation, he was furious and scolded: "My sister is a member of the family!" Are you a pig? You're a brute! ”

"Where's Mom? Isn't mom also a member of the family? ”

When the father heard his son say such things, he was so angry that he vomited blood on the spot. Only by this time did I know that this son was really a fool.

A child's mindset is like this: simple and superficial. They don't think logically. So! To educate them, be patient and explain them in detail.

After Bai Gui's explanation, eight-year-old Bai Yun finally understood. If the curiosity is satisfied, there will be no curiosity in this aspect. Opposite! I still feel ashamed.

After understanding this, Bai Yun quickly got up and went to put on his pajamas. I don't learn from my mother anymore, and I lie there without clothes.

Originally! Mom is the one with Daddy! It's their happiness and their secrets. When I grow up, I will have such happiness and secrets. My children, like me and my brother, are curious about what happens between their parents and imitate what they see......

A family can't be like that! It is not permissible to be like that between father and daughter, not like that between mother and son, and not like that between brother and sister. A family, a family member, can't be like that.

Nor can you be like the spouse of someone else in the same family! Because! This is immoral! Doing so will destroy the unity and friendship of the family and hurt the feelings of the loved ones.

Love your family, including your spouse and children. It is also wrong to love only one's own family and not their spouse and children. If you don't love them, you don't respect your family and loved ones.

"Daddy! Woooooo ……”

Putting on his pajamas, Bai Yun fell into his father's arms and cried profusely. No! She was ashamed of what she had done.

"Between families, you can hug each other! When I was a child, I could kiss my little mouth. When you grow up, you can't kiss your little mouth! You know what? Children don't understand anything, and it's not shameful to ask their parents these words! You know what? If you ask outsiders, it's a shame. No! It's stupid! Idiot! You know what? ”

"Hmmm! Woooooo Bai Yun agreed, and began to cry again.

Bai Gui hugged Bai Yun and let her cry. After all! Bai Yun is only eight years old, and he is usually educated by the Jiang family. He rarely reunites with his family and doesn't know how Jiang was educated.

Originally! The education of girls in this area should be carried out by mothers. His father didn't have a good grasp of his education. But! As long as you grasp it well, the effect is even better!

If you don't grasp it well, it is easy to cause incestuous thinking and confusion about yourself and your children's concepts.

"Don't cry! Go to bed! Oh! No shame! Kids! Quite normal! Dad was the same when he was a child, he didn't understand anything! Curious about everything! I want to see everything, I want to ask everything. But! Adults just won't tell me! White clouds! You are so happy! ”

"Daddy! Woooooo Father! Thinking of those shameful things, Bai Yun felt a little speechless. But! I still couldn't help but say it.

"When the guards and uncles released the water, I followed them to see, and they all said that I was shameless. Can me? I don't know what shamelessness means at all! Still? Still? Also ......"

"What else?"

"Be sure to see it! ……”

"Did you see that?"

"Woooooo Bai Yun was so ashamed that he couldn't speak, but he still told the truth: "I saw it!" ”

"Do you want to see it in the future?"

"Daddy! Woooooo Bai Yun said as he pounded his father's chest.

Bai Gui hugged his daughter and persuaded: "It's normal to watch it when I was a child. I still want to see it when I grow up, and it's normal. If you really look at it, it's not normal. When you get married, you get married, everything is no longer a secret! You know what? ”

"Daddy! Woooooo ”

(End of chapter)