0232 Advanced maternal age

Wang Liang's sharing that did not follow the process touched everyone present.

"Chinese Story Conference", the stories of these heroes and martyrs are the real Chinese stories, which can be sung and cried.

The host didn't expect that just one topic would lead to so many untold stories.

Perhaps, the media will still report on the incident at the time, and a few people will understand it and be moved.

But with the passage of time and the passing of time, that emotion faded.

Parents are here, and there is still a place to come in life; When your parents go, there is only one way back in life.

Those whose parents are military children, or whose children are military parents, are always on the lookout.

I'm afraid that one day, I will never see my father again, and I will never see my son again.

Not even a chance to say goodbye to their loved ones at the end.

They, their pain, are for a lifetime.

Onlookers can't understand that kind of pain, but that kind of pain, Wang Liang knows, is unforgettable.

I am talking about this so that everyone can share the pain and not let the widows of the martyrs suffer alone.

You ask what it's like to have a military father, can't answer.

Everyone has a different life experience, and birth, old age, sickness and death are inevitable.

It's just that some people, for the sake of others to live better, left us first......

We should remember, we should be grateful.

Before the host finished wiping away his tears, Wang Liang remembered something again, and he wanted to say it.

In his lifetime, while someone is willing to listen, he wants to say it to the fullest.

"On December 14, 2017, in a military hospital in Wushi City, a 48-year-old woman gave birth to a pair of dragon and phoenix fetuses by caesarean section." Wang Liang said.

What counts as advanced maternal age?

In this second child's age, I am afraid that this problem is not unfamiliar.

Primiparous mothers over the age of 35 are considered to be of advanced maternal age.

As women are on a downward trend after the age of 35, the incidence of fetal malformations increases, and the risk of complications such as heart disease, hypertension, and diabetes increases in advanced maternal age.

Wang Liang's opening greatly aroused the interest of the audience, of course, including the host who had just cried pear blossoms and rain, they all wanted to hear what kind of story this was.

Why did you have a relationship with an elderly woman who gave birth to a second child?

Some viewers were even a little disgusted when they heard it, and couldn't help but whisper to discuss it below.

"I'm forty-eight years old, and I still have children, which feels really awkward."

"I don't know why, as long as I hear people over the age of 45 say that I have a second child, I feel very uncomfortable, and even a little disgusting."

"Yes, such a high age, still alive, the age difference between the two children is so big, there is no emotion, not to mention. I don't think it's acceptable that a child is the same age as his grandchildren after he is born. ”

"I feel that the old chief may be talking about veterans, who have no chance to fight for the country when they are young, and will be old when they have time to raise children."

"That's understandable."

The audience at the scene discussed in a low voice, although Wang Liang couldn't hear it, he could guess the audience's thoughts.

It's time to tell the story.

Wang Liang said: "Speaking of this pair of dragon and phoenix fetuses, let me first introduce their brother. The elder brother Pang Jun was born in 1991, a full 26 years old difference between the brothers and sisters. ”

Speaking of this, I saw the audience shaking their heads again and again, feeling unacceptable.

That's a big difference.

"Pang Jun is a soldier, and when he went home from vacation in the first half of 2015, he got engaged to his girlfriend who had been in love for three years, and they agreed to hold the wedding after returning from the army in November in the second half of the year."

Hearing Wang Liang say this, the audience felt as if something was going to happen, and their hearts jumped suddenly.

There is a feeling of panic.

"If Pang Jun had come back in November 2015, there would have been no pair of dragons and phoenixes, but he didn't come back. The time goes back to 2015......," Wang Liang said.

On August 12, 2015, the Wednesday after Pang Jun returned from leave.

An international logistics company in Tianjin City had a big explosion, the fire at the scene was very large, and the Tianbao Avenue Squadron of the bonded detachment of the Tianjin Public Security Fire Brigade quickly pulled after receiving the fire.

Because a squad leader asked for leave, Pang Jun, who had just undergone surgery and was not on duty, took the initiative to ask for his life.

"At that time, Pang Jun had just undergone a minor operation and had not yet recovered, so he was not on duty, so he did not need to follow the police. But he went anyway. Wang Liang said.

is about to be discharged from the army in November, Pang Jun has already started to go through the process, and there is no need for him to fight anymore.

But for soldiers, if they don't take off their uniforms, they have to fight, fight to the end.

That explosion is no stranger.

Later, a total of 165 people were killed, including 24 active public security firefighters, 75 Jingang firefighters, and 11 public security policemen who participated in the rescue and disposal.

Pang Jun, who participated in the rescue, is missing.

His parents knew where Pang Jun was a soldier, and they were always worried after hearing about the explosion.

I couldn't get through to my son, but when I called the detachment, I learned that Pang Jun had been missing for two whole days.

The old couple traveled thousands of miles from Hubei Province to Jinshi.

In the early morning of August 16, 2015, 80 hours after losing contact, 24-year-old Pang Jun was confirmed dead.

Middle-aged loss of a child.

How hard has it been to parents, and how can they continue in the future? How do you spend your old age?

Overnight, half of the old couple's hair turned white.

The blow is heavy, but the thoughts are eternal.

The wife was not in good health and was worried that his wife would see things and think about people when she saw the photos, so the husband quietly deleted the photos of his son on his wife's mobile phone, packed up his son's clothes before his death, and hid them from his wife.

But all in vain.

The children, all conceived by the mother in October, are a piece of meat that fell from the mother's body.

Say no, it's gone, sad, how can it be temporary?

Wang Liang feels that it is very necessary to tell this feeling of losing a child in middle age.

Only then will it be profound.

Today's young people, when they look at the heroic deeds of the thirties and forties, sixties and seventies, it is difficult to have a spiritual shock because of the long time that comes.

Reconnaissance staff officer Fu Pingshan died.

His old mother had been kept in secret.

His son is gone, and for eight years, the old man hasn't noticed it at all?

What kind of mission is it, it's been eight years.

The old man didn't break it, and the kind old man knew that the children were afraid that they would be sad, so they would hide it.

In the dead of night, the old mother quietly wiped a few tears until she was blinded by crying.

At that time, I could only express my thoughts about my old son in this way.