Extra: Big talk about Pan Jinlian

For the role of Pan Jinlian, Shaochuan nagged a little more, but it only represents personal opinions, don't abuse those who disagree, they are all good young people in the new century, and there is no need to swear at every turn. It's still the same sentence.,If you like to read it, you can read it.,If you don't like it, return the novel to the mood to read.,There's no need to scold or make personal attacks.。 And sometimes, I hope you can think more about some things, some things are not as complicated as they seem. Okay, let's talk a lot about Pan Jinlian. Pan Jinlian, under the description of "Water Margin" and Lanling Xiaoxiaosheng's "**Mei", has become a demonic, prodigal, and vicious representative. And many readers also gave her a word, that is, swing. Shaochuan felt that it was a bit too much to evaluate Pan Jinlian so simply, of course, Shaochuan was not rehabilitating Pan Jinlian or anything, because Pan Jinlian's crime of murdering her husband could not be changed. Saying this, I just want everyone to give Pan Jinlian a relatively fair view. A woman who has been nailed to the pillar of shame by countless people is really unfair to her. To know Pan Jinlian, we have to start with her life experience. was born in a common people's family, and was later bought into a large family, if so, Pan Jinlian would have lived her life like an ordinary peasant girl. But on the contrary, when she grew up, Pan Jinlian was born like a flower and jade, her skin was better than snow, and she was charming and fragrant. It is naturally a good thing for a woman to be extremely beautiful, but for a farmer's daughter or a subordinate, it is a tragedy. Because of her beauty, she will always be coveted, and Pan Jinlian can't hide from it, and she is favored by his main family, Qinghe Zhang. Qinghe Zhang Dahu, who was definitely a wealthy and powerful figure at that time, for a weak woman, being able to follow such a man will definitely be worry-free in the second half of her life. If it is put on most women, it may be from Zhang Dahu. For now, if the president of a company falls in love with a small female employee, will the female employee resist or go along with it and get rich and promoted? Shaochuan may be a little ruthless when he speaks, but to be honest, he can't pick out ten out of a hundred people who can choose to refuse. In the last years of the Northern Song Dynasty, in that era, it was even more difficult to choose one of the thousands who could choose to resist, because the women of that era lacked the independent status of modern women. But Pan Jinlian resisted, or swore to resist, and finally told Zhang Dahu's wife about it. Everyone must know what this means for Pan Jinlian, which means that Zhang Dahu will retaliate and lose his existing life. Even if Zhang Dahu doesn't retaliate, will Zhang Dahu's wife still tolerate a woman like Pan Jinlian in the house? In short, there is only one ending to welcome Pan Jinlian, that is, to leave Zhang's Mansion and lose her job. What could be more frightening for a homeless woman? At that time, Pan Jinlian was not afraid, she swore to die, even if she lost this source of life. It can be seen that Pan Jinlian is not harmonious and rich, and has the simplicity and pride that most women did not have at that time. Not Murong Hua, not afraid of the powerful, this is too difficult for a little woman with no status, but Pan Jinlian did it. Later, in order to retaliate, Zhang Dahu forcibly promised Pan Jinlian to Wu Dalang. Who is Wu Dalang? Three inches of Dinggu bark, three points like a human and seven points like a ghost. And what about Pan Jinlian? Tall, versatile, and like a jade, do you expect Pan Jinlian to fall in love with Wu Dalang? How is this possible, this possibility is more difficult than a big star falling in love with a beggar. At that time, Pan Jinlian had the common character of all women in the Great Song Dynasty, that is, she was obedient, followed Wu Dalang, was harassed by scoundrels, and later had no choice but to move to Yanggu County, so that there was a matter of Ximen Qing later. Because of Ximenqing, Pan Jinlian is demonic, lewd, and vicious, and since then, this woman has been nailed to the pillar of shame in history. When we insult Pan Jinlian and spit on Pan Jinlian, have we ever thought about why? The feelings between men and women are nothing more than two kinds, spiritual love, ** joy. And a woman like Pan Jinlian will never fall in love with Wu Dalang, let alone spiritual love? And what about the pleasure? It's ridiculous to mention this, this Wu Dalang is short in stature, and now, less than five feet, that is, less than one meter five, and his face is full of potholes and spots. If that's just the case, Wu Dalang doesn't understand amorous customs, that is, he doesn't understand the affairs of men and women, and at worst, he doesn't understand sex. Pan Jinlian is a normal woman, she is still a very good woman, she also longs for happiness, if she didn't have a desire, she would not have rebelled against the rich and powerful Zhang Dahu at the beginning. But Wu Dalang couldn't give her spiritual comfort, not even ** comfort. That is to say, Pan Jinlian is in an extremely ** state from psychology to physiology, and she has to take care of housework every day, facing this husband who is not a husband, to say something ugly, it is not easy for Pan Jinlian to go out of the wall without red apricots in Qinghe County. In this case, it is too harsh to say that people are, if such Pan Jinlian is, how many innocent women are there in this world? Sometimes don't ask too much about how a person is, no one in this world is perfect, Pan Jinlian is not, neither are we, and no one can be perfect. At least Pan Jinlian restrained herself from not abiding by women's morals, and after coming to Yanggu County, she also helped Wu Dalang make cooking cakes every day, that is, steamed steamed buns. However, she had been longing for a little comfort, even a little bit of good. At this time, Wu Erlang appeared, and when Wu Erlang entered the house, what was Pan Jinlian's reaction? At this point, you can take a look at the Water Margin and ponder Pan Jinlian's psychological activities. The first thing she saw was tall, and then she was comparative, she felt that if she married Wu Erlang, then her life would be worth it. It can be seen from the rebellion against Zhang Dahu that Pan Jinlian is loyal and not harmonious and wealthy, that is to say, if she marries Wu Erlang, she will start from the beginning, regardless of whether she is rich or poor. There are too many people in this world, but there are too few people who can share hardships, and it just so happens that Pan Jinlian is a woman who can share hardships, because for a little woman living in the lower classes, there is no hardship that is more difficult than resisting Zhang Dahu? From the description of the first meeting, you can see how easy Pan Jinlian is to be a satisfied woman, her heart is not big, and she is not wild. Don't say that she is a swing, if she marries Wu Erlang, don't say that one Ximen Qing is a hundred Ximen Qing, do you think she will take a look? If she married Wu Erlang, then Ximen Qing dared to come, and with her fierceness to dare to resist Zhang Dahu, she would have been beaten out with a few sticks. Therefore, to evaluate Pan Jinlian, we must look at Pan Jinlian's living environment and what happened to her. Shaochuan said that Pan Jinlian's heart is not big, and it is easy to be satisfied, which is also described in Water Margin. At that time, Pan Jinlian and Wu Song drank and confided in their hearts, and she said at the time that if Wu Da knew these things, then she would not be in vain. What do these things refer to? refers to the affairs of men and women, it can be seen that she does not ask for much, as long as Wu Da can give her a little happiness like a normal man, she will be satisfied, but Wu Dalang can't give it. Therefore, when she saw Wu Erlang, she didn't care about shame and ethics. The sister-in-law fell in love with the little brother-in-law, which was not recognized by the world, but Pan Jinlian at that time was already fascinated by her own heart, or rather, she only had Wu Erlang left in her eyes, and she couldn't care about the rest anymore. She loves Wu Erlang, and even abandons all her self-esteem, she gives all the good to Wu Erlang, but what is ushering? It is Wu Erlang's sentence "Hugh is shameless", and all her love and happiness turned out to be a kind of cheapness in Wu Song's eyes. Put yourself in their shoes, if we replace Pan Jinlian with ourselves, how will we react? If you love a man or a woman deeply, and you have done a lot of things for him or her without regrets, and you know that when you say the word love, you will usher in a "cheap", how will you feel? Many people are cheering for Wu Song, but has anyone cheered for Pan Jinlian? When Pan Jinlian rebelled against Zhang Dahu, no one applauded or helped, and when Pan Jinlian followed Wu Dalang and guarded herself like a jade, there was no praise. But Wu Erlang's few unkind words of righteousness were praised. No one understands Pan Jinlian, not even Wu Song, he knows very well in his heart how good Pan Jinlian is and how down-and-out Wu Dalang is, but he never thought about Pan Jinlian's past and Pan Jinlian's misfortune. You know, this is your sister-in-law, even if she doesn't have this relationship, she is a person who has no family affection, when he or she pays a lot for love, even if she can't accept it, you can't return the word "cheap". What does it mean to be shameless, to love you, is it shameless? When things came to this, it can be said that all Pan Jinlian's dreams were about to be shattered, even if Wu Erlang said such heavy words, but later, she still did not forget Jì Wu Erlang. When Wu Erlang came to the martial arts family before the business trip, what did Pan Jinlian do? Dressed up and dressed, greeted each other happily, as if she had forgotten Wu Erlang's humiliation of her. During the banquet, how did Wu Erlang do it? The fence dog is inaccessible, and there is a bit of ridicule. What is called the inaccessibility of the fence dogs, that is, Pan Jinlian is good, and she can't attract wolf dogs, and more importantly, she is a little ridiculed. How cruel is that for Pan Jinlian? Did she really care about those words? Wrong, but Takejiro's ridicule, that was a mockery of love, a mockery of all that she had before. "You are smart and clever, but you don't say, 'The eldest sister-in-law is a mother'! When I first married Wuda, I didn't hear that there was an uncle, and I could walk there! 'If you are a pro or not, you have to be the father-in-law of Qiao'. Since the old lady is unlucky, the bird hits many things! What can we sense from these words? That is a deep grievance, and what is hidden in it is even deeper, and now Wu Erlang said this, justified and well-founded, and looked high. Then why didn't he learn how she married Wuhan University in the first place, how she kept herself like a jade over the years, and how she managed the housework? Over the years, she has suffered hardships, suffered too many grievances and injustices, and now a Wu Erlang suddenly appeared, her mind is a little alive, but she can pay all her efforts, in exchange for cold ridicule and shamelessness. The fence dog is not entered, the fence is really not strong, and the wolf dog entered Qinghe County. From these words, it is not difficult to see that Pan Jinlian is not angry that Wu Erlang does not accept her love, but that she defiles this love, hates her mockery of the past, and is sad that Wu Erlang can't understand her. After that, things are simple, a woman who pays for love and has never been fair, when her love is named "shameless", it also becomes the last straw that breaks the camel's back. It can be said that this meal broke all of Pan Jinlian's persistence, she felt that all the efforts were meaningless, and all the so-called resistance and chastity in the past were ridiculous. When everything that is insisted on becomes wrong, then why insist on it anymore? Pan Jinlian is like this, and so is you and me, of course, what Pan Jinlian did after that also had some revenge on Wu Song. Didn't you say that my fence was not strong? Then I don't put up a fence, don't I say that I don't know shame, then I want to show you shamelessly. A woman who has lost all hope does things that are often pathetic. Therefore, Pan Jinlian has changed from a femme fatale slut who adheres to women's morality and is not harmonious and wealthy. Looking back now, if Wu Song had given Pan Jinlian a comfort, sympathy, understanding, and love. Of course, this kind of love is family love, not the love between men and women, so will the recognized Pan Jinlian do this? What's the scariest thing in the world? The most terrible thing is that your inner world completely collapses, and that is to mourn more than die in your heart. And Wu Erlang used his indifference and condescension, and his awe-inspiring justice, to push down Pan Jinlian's entire inner world, including the unrecognized love, and Pan Jinlian's correct insistence in the past.

In this world, everyone has a complex world, and everyone has two sides, yin and yang. Everyone is shining with the weaknesses and strengths of human nature, weaknesses do not mean shortcomings, and strengths do not mean good.

Pan Jinlian is the tragedy of that era, a woman who is too good, persecuted by the times, all her good is ignored by others, and the only thing that is wrong is infinitely magnified. Wu Song is like this, and so are we, when we only see a person's badness and abandon her good, so if we suppress it for too long, even she herself will abandon the good, because she feels that the good has become bad. Even now, the same is true, to give others more recognition, more sympathy, and more understanding. Because in that era, who of us could do better than Pan Jinlian? Isn't that the case in companies today? Unscrupulous means for the superior, selling oneself for wealth, too much has become a habit, no matter men or women, how many are comparable to Pan Jinlian in terms of ethics? The funny thing is that many of us today still stand on the moral high ground, waving the banner and criticizing Pan Jinlian. This is called standing and talking without backache, and eating rice without knowing hunger. There is no perfection in the world, and there is no perfection in the world, take Lin Chong as an example, there are always people who say that he is cowardly and timid, but he is in order to survive in order to keep his job. Isn't that the case now? As long as they can live well and don't touch the last trace of the bottom line, who would be willing to sacrifice their current life?

Don't criticize a woman too much, Pan Jinlian has achieved Wu Song's wisdom, Chen Yuanyuan has achieved Wu Sangui, and the princes of Bao Feng Huo Opera have ruined the world. It seems that everyone will say, but do you know the injustice in this? Without Chen Yuanyuan, Wu Sangui would still throw himself into the Manchu Qing Dynasty, and he would still enter the customs, without Bao Xi, and there would be other women, King Zhou You would still lose the world, and without Pan Jinlian, Wu Song would still go to Liangshan. Because the environment of that era was like that, you can't blame all the blame on one woman. Real men will face their own shortcomings and will never use women as reasons.

About Pan Jinlian, borrow Bao Pengshan's comments:

In this world, there will always be some love that we can't accept, but there is no love that we can't understand. There will always be some love, we can't repay love, but there is no love, we can't repay warmth. There will always be some love that we must refuse, but there is no love that we can mock.

Finally, a little more verbose is idle: all the sins in this world are ugly, but it does not mean that all sinners are bad. There are some things that always need to be refused, but they should not be ruthless. Pan Jinlian, in short, Shaochuan thinks she is a very good woman, she doesn't want much, and it is easy to be satisfied. If you marry a wife like this, what more can a husband ask for? We are always criticizing her, saying how she is, but when we think about it, what did those people give her, except for indifference, but a little warmth? When evaluating a person, no matter who it is, we should not feel superior, because we are all ordinary people and eat whole grains.

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