Chapter 362: Pray for Blessing and Ask for Son IV
The ant Lin Yuzhi took his wife back to his guest meditation room, and it was getting late, so he asked Eleven to get the meal as usual.
The two of them had dinner calmly, chatting about the scenery in the temple, the master Buddhism is profound, and he should often come to Yunyun in the future.
It was only at night that Lin Yuzhi was pressed into the quilt, and said the truth he saw in a very low voice.
As for Gu Jin, if it weren't for her husband covering her mouth, I'm afraid there would have been an exclamation in this silent night.
Lin Yuzhi was prescient, this matter is too dirty and dirty, it is strange that the little wife is not shocked when she hears it!
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"It's not easy, and you don't have to be too shocked. Regardless of whether this matter is manipulated by someone behind it, just say that the woman is in this situation today, why did she come to pray for a blessing and ask for a child? There was a hint of helplessness in Lin Yuzhi's voice.
"Why do you ask for a child? If the woman can't give birth to a child, I'm afraid there is a possibility of being abandoned. ”
Gu Jin panted roughly, unable to calm down for a long time, and couldn't understand her husband's words. Inheritance is the most important thing in the family, and it is also the foundation for a woman to gain a firm foothold in her husband's family.
Therefore, all the responsibility is on the woman, no matter what the cause of infertility, it is the woman's problem, the man is superior, and the woman is regarded as a tool for inheritance, which is the fundamental reason for the existence of such a thing.
The asymmetry of status, this kind of subordinate and subordinate relationship, makes these women cling to any way, even if they know that there is an abyss in front of them, they will only jump into it after hesitation.
There are also some women who live even if they live, they also live in guilt, and they are afraid every night, even if one day the matter will be revealed. This kind of guilt and torment in my heart is more cruel than killing them. ”
Gu Jin trembled when she heard her husband's somewhat cold voice, and in the face of these truths that her husband said, she understood them ignorantly, but they were very vague, and she couldn't understand them all.
"What is equality between men and women? Since ancient times, it has been a husband and a wife, so how can it be said that it is equal! It is a woman's duty to marry and follow her husband and pass on the lineage, isn't it human nature? ”
Gu Jin didn't understand some of her husband's statements, maybe she had thought about these questions in the dead of night, when she was lonely and helpless, but she just thought about it, what was the use? The world is like this, how much power can one person have? If you want to turn things around, it's not something that a weak woman like herself can think of.
"Yes! That's how people are now. Therefore, even if the woman went back and noticed something unusual, she would still moth to the fire, and then come to the Guanyin Temple to pray for blessings and children, hehehehe.
They are innocent, but that doesn't mean they don't have their own responsibilities. There are many people to sympathize with, but ...... If they find something strange and have to come back one after another, that is the most ridiculous result.
Do they know or not, you say? There are no fools in this world, and they will come again even if they know about it. Why? Because it is a good place for them to relieve their pain at this stage. Only when they can have a child can their suffering end. Therefore, the root of the problem is in the temple and not in the temple.
It is to close this Fahua Temple today, change the mountain tomorrow, build two small temples, or this set, it will still be prosperous. ”
Walking on the road, you will encounter many forks in the road, left or right? Lin Yuzhi would also be confused. When things that were originally very distant from themselves are spread out in front of them, there are blood and tears, or invisible blood and tears, and it is not just a sentence of how to do it to reach a conclusion.
It is true that this kind of thing is not something that a few people can bear, just like in ancient times, as long as the people's wisdom is not civilized, the women are ignorantly educated, and the people's minds are guided by the rulers to be trapped in this inherent mode of thinking, this problem will never be solved.
What can be done is to open up the wisdom of the people, open women's schools, and make them less ignorant. But this is obviously not in the interests of the feudal ruling class.
In today's social environment, the resources for cultural learning are in the hands of a few, and the ruling class sets all the rules to govern the people below through these means.
The people under their rule do not need to be very clever or creative, as long as they obediently obey, farm well, accept the leadership and oppression of the upper class, and do not resist or make trouble, they will achieve the goal of the ruling class.
Lin Yuzhi didn't want to, and wouldn't work hard to overthrow the ruling class, establish himself as the king, be responsible, and leave a name in history. I don't think I have this ability, and I don't have the courage, strategy, courage, and disposition that the superior needs.
How much ability, what a big career.
Based on current observations, the current emperor shows a positive side. Whether his performance is to leave a name in history or surpass his parents and grandparents, and achieve outstanding achievements, or to promote social progress, stability under governance, and the well-being of the people, what Lin Yuzhi wants to see now is just the result, what kind of result can he achieve? That's the most important thing.
Next year, after next year's spring, maybe you will be able to meet the legendary emperor, and the specific situation will be seen at that time!
Lin Yuzhi is silent, Gu Jin is also silent, and she is also a woman, so it is inevitable that she will feel sad about the death of a rabbit and a fox. Put yourself in your shoes, it is difficult for any woman to make a decisive choice. Thinking about the words of the husband, how can it not be the actual situation! This society has given women such a responsibility, which cannot be refuted.
"I have heard Granny Hua say before that there was a woman whose husband went to war as soon as she got married, and never came back. Fortunately, the woman had her husband's posthumous son, and the woman raised her with great difficulty, so that the children could study, and when her son was admitted to the Jinshi and became married, the old woman also came to the bitter end. The only drawback is that the daughter-in-law has never been pregnant. She didn't dare to force her daughter-in-law hard, so she secretly went to the temple to ask for a child. I don't know if it was a misunderstanding or what, the old woman thought that this secret method could also be replaced, so she went in. But when I go back, I should understand what happened. The old woman had no face for her son, and later died of hunger strike.
In the past, such a thing was just a story to hear, but I didn't expect such a cruel thing to happen in front of me. ”
"If such a child who seeks to have a child knows his own background in the future, how will he deal with himself? If the family finds out that the abnormality is found, it will be a catastrophe! These are innocent lives. And behind this innocence, there are also social problems reflected in it. And we can stop one case of such a thing, but we can't stop a thousand cases now. ”
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