But if it is judged that Wei Bin will blindly obey his wife's words, it is not right.

When he was in the third grade of elementary school, he encountered a big problem: several fourth-grade children in the same school targeted his pocket money, and they violently snatched his money from him, and threatened him not to tell his parents and teachers.

Suddenly, his nose and face were swollen from the beating, and he carried the schoolbag with the broken strap and went home crying.

When Lin Lan saw her son's appearance, she was immediately furious! She decided to go to the school in person, especially to find the class teacher of the group of bad children, and must force the group of children to return the money and then apologize solemnly.

The mother and son were having a hard time Chapter 3 was going out, and Wei Bin, who went to the kindergarten to pick up his daughter, happened to come back, and he asked why. told Lin Lan that there was no need to go to the school for this matter.

"What?! Not looking for a school?! Lin Lan thought she had misheard, "Suddenly it's been beaten like this, do you want us to watch?!" ”

"It's not like you can go to the school and get it solved." Wei Bin took off his daughter's small backpack and looked at his wife again, "Lin Lan, don't be so excited, the more excited you are, the harder it is to make a decision." ”

Lin Lan didn't speak, but she was still angry.

"Go to the school now, of course it will be dealt with, and no school will ignore it," Wei Bin walked up to his son, he squatted down and wiped the blood from the corner of his mouth with his hand, "But if you really do that, what if you suddenly go back?" ”

"Backwards?" Lin Lan didn't understand for a while.

Then his classmates would know, and as soon as he was beaten, he would go home to his mother, including the older children who had been punished, and they might not dare to bully him anymore, and maybe they would find someone else to bully him. Because everyone will think that this kid is useless anyway - who will be able to afford to look down on him if he goes on like this? ”

Lin Fanwai's Xin Suddenly Chapter 3 Lan didn't expect this at all, and was stunned when her husband said this.

"So, you're a feminine mind. It's all said that it will be yours and mine. Wei Bin laughed, "You don't care about this matter, I'll deal with it." ”

"But we can't let others bully our children......" Lin Lan muttered.

"Of course not." Wei Bin said firmly, "Leave it to me." ”

That night, Wei Bin took Suddenly to the lighting stadium in the community. He asked his son to describe in detail how he was bullied, including who did it first, how he used it, and whether he used other tools. and the actions of several other accomplices, and so on.

That night was the first "military lesson" Xin Jingran took in his life: about how to face a fierce enemy.

Wei Bin taught him to analyze the opponent's situation, calmly face the enemy, teach him how to face the opponent with his bare hands, how to meet the battle when he holds a weapon, teach him to capture the thief and capture the king first, to judge who is the leader with the fastest speed, and to find a way to subdue the opponent......

He taught him to fight like he used to teach him basketball, and he even taught him how to punch and how to hit the opponent most effectively.

After teaching all this, he said to Suddenly, "Boy, you have to fight the enemy yourself, understand?" It's not okay to rely on mom and dad because mom and dad can't be by your side 24 hours a day. Give them a hard lesson, and after that, those guys will know you're good! ”

My father's words were like a brand. It was deeply seared in the heart of Ran.

A few days later, in the evening, Xin suddenly returned home with a swollen lip and a swollen face.

“…… Didn't let them snatch it. Suddenly took out his wallet and showed it to his father, "The leader was beaten by me and begged for mercy." ”

His eyes were blue, one eye became a panda, he still felt that his arm hurt badly, and the smell of blood at the corner of his mouth lingered for a long time. But Xin suddenly felt that he was no longer afraid, and the great fear before the battle was swept away, and he used his own strength to defeat the invaders and defend his safety, which made him completely understand a truth: no matter how weak he looks, he is still very strong!

Wei Bin picked him up and kissed him again and again.

"Son, you're amazing!" He said at the time. "I'm so proud of you!"

At that moment, his father's proud, glorious and joyful expression made Xin suddenly unforgettable in this life.

Later, he heard his mother Lin Lan joke that Wei Bin's use of "that set of theories" to teach his son was simply overkill. But Wei Bin disagreed, saying that "that set of theories" was summed up from street fights, and he himself played them since he was a child, "I really thought that when I was a child, I sat in the garden and embroidered flowers all day long." ”

The so-called "that set" didn't understand what it meant until Xin suddenly became an adult.

Indeed, if you use the art of war to defeat the Huns to guide children to fight in groups, it sounds a bit like killing chickens with a knife, but to nine-year-old Xin Xuan, the psychological threat brought to him by those bad boys. It was not even inferior to the great fear that the Huns brought to the Han Empire.

Therefore, he is deeply grateful to his father, who trained him to be a warrior in this way.

It was he who taught himself not to be afraid, not to be inferior. Even if you are covered in blood, you must hold your head high, like a nobleman.

At this point, Xin Ran finally understood that no matter how dark the place is in the future, as long as you don't stop fighting, there will always be a glimmer of life in life.

However, there are always things in life that cannot be solved by just fighting.

In the second year of the fight, Xin suddenly learned his life story conclusively under a very coincidental circumstance.

That year, my sister Shanshan went to school, and she was also in the elementary school where she was suddenly in the fourth grade. Shanshan was promoted to the first grade. Because the brother and sister are in the same school, their parents instructed them to take their sister to and from school every day. The school is not far from home, and the two children walked home in less than half an hour.

Suddenly entering the fourth grade, homework is much more nervous than in the lower grades, sometimes there are no classes in the lower grades in the afternoon, you can leave school early, they can't do it in the upper grades, when you encounter this kind of time, my sister Shanshan will do her homework in her own class, while waiting for her brother to get out of school.

Suddenly he got out of school later than his sister that day, and as soon as the bell rang for the end of class, he grabbed his schoolbag and ran downstairs, his sister had been waiting for him for a class, so be quicker.

When I arrived at my sister's classroom, I helped my sister pack her schoolbag and took her hand out.

He heard his own name.

It seemed that the teachers in her sister's class were chatting, and Xin suddenly heard someone mention her name.

“…… Huo Shan's brother? Oh, that boy in fourth grade 1 Little says α

, I heard, he was an illegitimate child. ”

Xin was stunned for a moment.

Bastard?

His brain, boom!

Sister Huo Shan saw her brother stunned, she shook her hand: "Brother, what is an illegitimate child?" ”

“…… Don't ask, go back. After saying that, he took his sister's hand and rushed to the staircase.

When I got home that day, I suddenly took my schoolbag to the table and took out a notebook and pen, but I couldn't write a word.

Those three words kept ringing in his ears: bastard, bastard, illegitimate child......

Although a long time ago, there was some strange doubt in the boy's heart, it was an indescribable, inexplicable confusion, he always felt. The people around you, especially those who are not familiar with you, always have a strange look in their eyes when they look at themselves. Of course, he couldn't say what that weirdness meant, but he could feel the unfriendliness and discrimination in it, as if he was different from other children...... Bastard!

His brain is a thrill!

Xin suddenly jumped to his feet, quickly pulled out the brick-like "Modern Chinese Dictionary" from the book, he knelt in his chair, and began to search for the meaning of the word "illegitimate child", although he had heard this expression before, he had never confirmed its exact meaning from the dictionary.

"A child born to a man and a woman who are not in a conjugal relationship", this is the dictionary definition.

…… Not a couple?

What is a "non-conjugal relationship"? Suddenly, he couldn't figure it out, he knew that his father and mother were husband and wife, not husband and wife...... In other words, it's not like dad and mom.

What does that mean exactly? Could it be ......

A voice sounded coldly in his head: Fool, that is, you are not Daddy's child!

Yes.

He is different from Shanshan, different from Murong Xuan, and different from Li Xiaomo. Although they don't have the same surname as their father, they are all father's children.

However, I am not.

Throughout the afternoon and evening, he sat in his room in a daze, refusing even to ask his sister to watch cartoons, so he sat on the bed in a daze. He felt like his brain was numb.

It's as if the whole universe suddenly became a black hole, it has no light, no sound, just keeps devouring, devouring everything, suddenly feeling that the surrounding air is swallowed by this black hole, and the space has become extremely narrow and embarrassing. And he, Xin Ran, was like a wooden wedge that happened to fall into the crack, stuck there and couldn't move, the more he struggled, the more painful it became, and the gradually shrinking space squeezed him to the point where he was almost out of breath......

He had absolutely no idea what to do.

The sudden strangeness was soon noticed by the parents. And her sister Shanshan also told Lin Lan what she heard in the afternoon, she said that the teacher said that her brother was an "illegitimate child".

"Mom, what do you mean by being an illegitimate child? Is this a bad thing? ”

She wanted to continue, but when she saw that her mother's face was already a little ugly, she kept her mouth shut.

"Shanshan, don't ask too much." Lin Lan said, "Those are not good words, don't learn to speak." ”

After she finished speaking, she was silent for a moment: "I expected such a thing, I'll go talk to Suddenly Ran." ”

Wei Bin stopped her: "Don't go, you don't have to defend anything." ”

Then, Shanshan saw her mother's eyes. It dimmed a little.

"I'll go talk to him." After Wei Bin finished speaking, he opened the door and entered the room.

When Wei Bin went in, he didn't notice that his son was in bed for a while, the room was too dim, and suddenly the light was not turned on, he stared for a moment before he saw the little boy lying on the bed, and he didn't even notice that his father came in.

Wei Bin walked to his son's bed, and he sat down next to him.

I felt the vibration of the bed, and suddenly I turned over. He saw his father, and he sat up!

He wanted to say something, but he couldn't say anything.

It was Wei Bin who opened his mouth first.

"Do you remember the last time we fought?"

was suddenly mentioned as irrelevant, and was stunned.

"Of course I do."

Wei Bin laughed: "Didn't I tell your mother at the time, saying that when I was a child, I also fought in a fight, do you remember?" ”

Suddenly nodded: "Remember." ”

"Do you know why I kept fighting with people at that time?" Wei Bin asked.

"Why?"

"Because there are always people who look down on me." Wei Bin continued, "There are always people who say that I am an illegitimate child. ”

Suddenly, the eyes were round!

He looked at his father in astonishment!

"Although my family is not poor, I am always looked down upon because I have no father." Wei Bin smiled, "Those bad boys say I'm an illegitimate child, and my relatives always look at me strangely. ”

Suddenly, there was a boom in my ears!

He didn't expect that everything he had felt had been felt by his own father!

"Although they treat me well on the surface, I can see it." Wei Bin snorted, "Do they adults think children are fools?" I thought I just didn't say it in front of my child. Do children really know nothing? ”

Suddenly, he stammered a little: "But Dad, what about your dad?" He...... Is it dead? ”

Wei Bin shook his head: "No." He just wouldn't marry my mom. ”

"Won't get married?" Suddenly confused, "Why?" ”

"I don't know." Wei Bin smiled, "How do I know about adults?" ”

Suddenly, I didn't know what to say.

"But I know he's here, he just won't be my father, and in this case, I can't do anything about him."

"How so?" Suddenly muttered, "But...... You can go to court and sue him! ”

Wei Bin laughed!

"Really!" Suddenly said quite seriously. "In our class, Xiaoya's father refused to give her money to support her. Her mom went to court and sued her dad! ”

"Well, you can sue, but my mom doesn't want to sue." Wei Bin said, "She thinks that since the other party refuses to admit it, then forget it." ”

Wei Bin said it was too complicated, and he suddenly couldn't understand it, but he suddenly thought of a serious problem.

The boy said worriedly, "But Daddy ......"

"What?"

"That'...... What about my ...... Daddy, that's ...... That person, he also refused to marry his mother? ”

"Uh......"

"That's why you married her because he won't marry her, right?" Suddenly whispered, "So Shanshan is not an illegitimate child." ”

Wei Bin frowned a little embarrassed. It was too complicated for him to explain.

"No, it's not like that." He pondered and said, "Suddenly, that person, your biological father, it's not that he refuses to marry his mother. It's something difficult. ”

"Something embarrassing?"

"Well, they can't get married, they both want to marry each other, but they can't."

"Why can't you get married?" Suddenly asked, "I think it seems easy to get married?" On Saturdays and Sundays, I always see people getting married. ”

Wei Bin laughed again.

"It's not as easy as you think, really, it's hard to get married." Wei Bin said very seriously, "There are many people who get married, and there are many people. Because of this and that, I can't get married. ”

Suddenly he felt that this was too difficult to understand, and he thought about it for a long time, and finally came up with an example.

"Jiang Yingying's aunt, her boyfriend's family has no money, Jiang Yingying's grandmother won't allow her aunt to marry that person."

Wei Bin smiled: "There are also such reasons why you can't get married, but your biological father and mother are not for this reason, the process is too complicated." It's because of your biological father, he can't stay here with your mother. ”

He ...... Dead? ”

Wei Bin was stunned, this is a difficult question to answer.

"It should be said - no." He said. "He doesn't even know that his mother gave birth to you."

"And who is he?" Suddenly, he finished speaking. I regret it a little, isn't it good for him to ask his father about his biological father?

Wei Bin was not displeased, he smiled: "He is a very great person, otherwise how could my mother plan to marry him?" ”

The last sentence made me fall into deep thought.

Wei Bin continued: "Suddenly, the affairs of adults, as a child, can't all be fully understood, just like me, I don't understand why my mother didn't go to my dad to make trouble, and I was laughed at, just like your Ban Xiaoya's mother." But she wouldn't do that, and I couldn't help it. ”

"Hmm......"

"However, that's all their own business, and everyone can only be responsible for themselves. I can't manage other people's affairs so much. ”

Suddenly exhaled: "That's right." ”

Wei Bin laughed: "My parents should have told you these things a long time ago, but I couldn't think of what to say." ”

"I understand." Suddenly, he nodded like an adult, "Your own business, tell others." I often don't understand. ”

"Oh, you understand." Wei Bin was very pleased, "As for what others will think and say......"

Suddenly stunned, he lowered his eyes.

"When I was a kid, the solution to this kind of thing was to fight." Wei Bin said, "Whoever dares to bully me, I will beat him, and whoever dares to laugh at me, I will also beat him." But then I realized that it wasn't the way to go. ”

“…… Well, I don't want to hit Shanshan's teacher either. ”

"Not only that, but suddenly, don't you notice? Even if you hit the other person, the thing itself doesn't change. Wei Bin said, "Even if people stop talking because they are afraid of you, they still have to talk and laugh in their hearts." ”

Suddenly nodded.

"So, there's only one way."

"What's the solution?"

"Ignore it." Wei Bin said quickly. "Don't delay what you should do because of other people's thoughts and opinions. People can't stop other people's mouths, but they can concentrate on their own business. What about illegitimate children? There is no difference with others. If you want to be motivated, you can be motivated. Among those who are not illegitimate children, and those whose parents are all married, there are also a lot of waste eggs! ”

"Hmm!" Suddenly nodded solemnly, "I know!" ”

Wei Bin stretched out his hand and touched his son's brain lovingly: "I know that you are very uncomfortable, others may not necessarily know, but I know." ”

That's because this person has also suffered the same pain as me, Xin suddenly couldn't help but think.

"That'...... Father. He looked up. Can I still be your son in the future? ”

"Why not?" Wei Bin said with certainty. "That's not a problem at all!"

"And ......," Ran continued, "Dad." Your mom isn't married to your dad. Did she marry someone else? ”

Wei He shook his head: "No, she won't." Since then, he has never been married. ”

"But what are you going to do in that case?" Suddenly a little anxious, "I haven't had a father all along?" ”

"No, I have an uncle." Wei Bin laughed, "It's my mother's brother, I like my uncle very much, in fact, he is equivalent to my father." ”

And then many, many years later. When he suddenly grew up and revisited the history of the Han Dynasty, he was not surprised that Huo Quai's maintenance of his uncle Wei Qing back then. He understands that emotion, which is like the affection for his biological father, and it does not allow the slightest foreign blasphemy.

Just like he did to Wei Bin. !!