Very conscientious as a child psychologist, listening to Xiao Zhengtai's troubles, big or small, melancholy, grievances, Wei Yan is very serious from beginning to end, very focused, very serious to treat Xiao Zhengtai Li Zhi as an adult, of course, maybe some of his troubles, from an adult's point of view, are simply insignificant, but, the child is serious, that is a big event in his world, listening adults, please also take it seriously.

Wei Yan tried his best to give his own opinions or suggestions in the way of thinking of Xiao Zhengtai, and if he couldn't understand it for the time being, he also asked in detail, and after thinking about it, he gave his own answer, in general, this exchange, one big and one small, both of them were very happy. The little son is very well-behaved, knowing that what his brother and Wei Yan are talking about is very serious, obediently leaning on Wei Yan's arms, not making trouble, at most, Wei Yan rubbing Li Zhi's head, also rubbing her, patting Li Zhi's shoulder, and patting her. Although she is small, she cannot ignore her human rights and must be treated equally.

Wei Yan, in modern times, is recommended by so many colleagues to be a pediatrician, the reason why his popularity is so good, to put it bluntly, this guy is a person who is very good at communicating with people, and his mouth is a little poor, but this guy is very eye-catching, and when he should be serious, he is absolutely down-to-earth and rational to be admired. Moreover, this guy is a very good listener, no matter how big or small, as long as people are serious, he is willing to give the same attitude. The son once said that attitude is everything.

It is very comfortable and happy to communicate with people who have sincerity. Others show your own world to you, and you also show your own world to others, and there will always be some gain when different things collide.

After finishing the work of a psychological counselor, Wei Yan watched the two small figures walk away, got up and prepared to go home, and just took two steps, he was stopped by the oncoming female officer, Wei Yan recognized that it was from the palace of the eldest grandson, wouldn't it be waiting for him?

"Master Wei, Niangniang announced your past."

"Oh, please lead the way."

Behind Wei Yan and the others, look at the road, it seems to be the Imperial Garden. In other words, there is nothing to visit in the garden at this time, but the owner is not him, and he is not in charge.

Wei Yan passed, and from afar he saw Empress Changsun sitting alone in the pavilion, with a thoughtful expression, and when she saw Wei Yan coming, she showed a dignified and indifferent smile, and said: "Ziyue is here, sit down, today, the palace is going to trouble you again." ”

Wei Yan hurriedly said: "Niangniang is too modest, I can worry about Niangniang, the minister is very honored, but I am afraid that I will not be able to help Niangniang." ”

Empress Eldest Sun shook her head with a smile and said, "Just now, the pheasant slave and the son, go and find Ziyue, right?" ”

Wei Yan smiled and said: "Yes, King Jin and the little princess, I haven't seen the minister for a few days, I heard that the minister entered the palace today, came over to chat a few words, and listened to two stories." ”

Empress Eldest Sun smiled slightly and said, "After talking to Cheng Qian, I feel that my mother, I have not done a good job, does Ziyue think the same way?" ”

Khan, that's a serious statement. Wei Yan hurriedly said: "Niangniang, the minister thinks that in the position of Niangniang, this is already very good." The minister has always believed that people's energy is limited, Niangniang is in charge of the harem, assisting His Majesty, so that His Majesty has no worries, although the minister does not understand, but it must not be simple. Whether it is the prince, several princes and princesses, they are all very good. ”

Empress Eldest Sun smiled bitterly and said, "If it's really good, why would Chengqian's feet be ......?"

Between the words, between the expressions, there is still a little sadness. Wei Yan smiled, stood up suddenly, looked in the direction of the East Palace, and said: "Niangniang, please look, the East Palace is over there, the Taiji Palace is here, there is a distance from the East Palace to the Taiji Palace, and this distance is not formed in one day or two days." Fortunately, now, His Royal Highness the Crown Prince has taken steps, and Niangniang has also taken steps, and if she has a heart, the problem is no longer a problem. ”

"There is a saying that distance produces beauty. I feel that it is not entirely correct, there are two sides to everything, the right distance is respect for each other, but the distance is too far, it is alienation. If you don't have the necessary communication, you will have problems, and over time, problems will accumulate more and more, and many things, this is how they are formed. Let's talk about the situation in the minister's family, my father and I, my eldest brother and father, our father and son, only I talk a lot, my father and eldest brother, are not good at words, often, the father starts from the father's point of view, the eldest brother starts from the perspective of the eldest brother, intentionally or unintentionally, through the other party's behavior and words to speculate, slowly, misunderstandings breed, and misunderstandings are easy to produce contradictions. The human heart is a very complex thing, sometimes you can't necessarily figure it out by yourself, and occasional communication is necessary. Just like a river, if you dredge it often, the water will flow more smoothly and there will be less danger of flooding, but the situation will only get more dangerous if it is still silted up by the river sand. ”

"Ziyue has a point."

Empress Eldest Sun bowed her head and continued to ask: "Please continue, tell me about your experience in dredging river sand." ”

Wei Yan smirked, scratched his head, frowned and thought for a long time, and said: "Niangniang, you are a mother and a woman, and the minister is a man, with different identities and status, and those who are suitable for the minister may not be suitable for you." The minister's method, to put it bluntly, is just a few words. ”

"Please."

Wei Yan thought about it again and said, "To sum up, it is actually about intentions, patience, equality, and mutual respect. I've read a few books on education before, and I'm generally in favor of encouraging education. ”

"What does it mean to encourage education?"

Wei Yan turned out the modern education theory, talked eloquently, and listened to the eldest grandson queen nodding straight. His Majesty Li Er's husband and wife, they are all smart people, and they don't need Wei Yan to guide others on how to teach their children, and Wei Yan doesn't think that he has the qualifications to point fingers, but in general, turn out some modern things and talk about them, as for what is suitable and what is not, people will naturally judge.

“…… Niangniang, parents are the best teachers for children. ”

Empress Changsun was stunned for a moment, Wei Yan sighed silently, remembering that night, under the silent moonlight, Prince Chengqian's narration and tears, remembering the melancholy of Xiaozhengtai Li Zhi, and said ruthlessly: "Niangniang, the minister is not an expert in this area, what he said may not be correct, the minister will talk about his own childhood." ”

"Chen's mother, a very ordinary peasant woman, ordinary, weak, gentle, except for being able to write her own name, recognize numbers, and be a little bit of arithmetic, she has no knowledge. But she has a pair of very skillful hands, although the family was poor when she was a child, but our brothers and sisters never felt that life was hard, because my mother never made us feel that life was hard, but made us feel very happy, and now we can remember it with a smile. I don't think it has to be anything, it's just enough to let the child grow up and smile and reminisce about the past. ”

The things that have been experienced are not necessarily all beautiful, but as long as you can laugh when you recall them, it is happiness, although you may not understand it at the time, but when you understand it in the future, there will always be a little gain, we have been so happy, and we have been loved so hard.

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What, I received an editor's notice today, and the homepage will be strongly promoted next week! I'm going to save up the manuscript! Hehe, so, there are still three chapters that were supposed to be sent today, I'll hide my privacy first, wow Ka, keep it for a strong push to break out!