Li Zhi followed and muttered again, and said seriously: "Pheasant slave remember, Lord Xie Wei advises." ”

Wei Yan smiled, rubbed his head, and said, "You kid is like this, at a young age, you pretend to be an old man all day long!" ”

Li Zhi's serious expression stepped across, and he smiled, revealing a naughty appearance, in this way, he would only show it in front of Wei Yan. Li Zhi said with a smile: "Lord Wei is always different from others, everyone else says to the pheasant slave, His Highness must be sensible, His Highness must study hard, and His Highness must share his worries for His Majesty." Only Lord Wei never said this to the pheasant slave. ”

Li Zhi's smile, with a little naughty, concealed the faint sadness floating on his immature face, such an expression appeared on a little boy, to be honest, it is not a happy thing. This is a sensitive and delicate child, but also a lonely and lonely child. Wei Yan smiled, patted his immature shoulder, and said with a smile: "It's because others have already said it, so I don't need to talk too much." ”

These words made Li Zhi smile, and his little face was radiant. Wei Yan looked at him, his heart was full of emotion, and he sighed for those children who were born in the royal family. Born by the same father and growing up in the same environment, some people have opened their minds, learned to protect themselves, and learned to integrate into the environment; And some people have always been ignorant, confused by wealth and glory, and have become pustules that everyone is tired of! In front of things at your fingertips, in front of everyone's flattery, people are always easy to lose themselves, especially children whose minds are not mature enough.

Wei Yan turned his head to look at the environment, everyone was very busy, and no one had time to take care of them, except for the guards who came with Li Zhi. Wei Yan rolled his eyes and said, "The weather is cold, and I have injuries on my body, let's get on the carriage and rest." ”

Li Zhi is also a smart and clever little ghost, and he immediately understood what Wei Yan meant. nodded, and said to the guard: "This king wants to get into the carriage with Lord Wei to rest and talk, and you will do things according to the old rules." ”

"Yes. Your Highness. ”

The guards consciously circled the carriage, and the distance from which they stood was estimated to be just the distance from which they could not hear the conversation in the carriage. Wei Yan smiled at Li Zhi, climbed into the carriage, and on the small table in the car, there were fruits and snacks brought by Xie Jiu. Wei Yan asked with a smile: "Is it much warmer than outside?" Ouch, this injury is really troublesome, I have to lie down. ”

"Well, how?"

The guard crawled to the side. Li Zhi looked interesting, and also climbed to it, and asked happily. Wei Yan smiled and explained the design principle, and Li Zhi said on the spot: "I will go back and ask the craftsman to transform it according to what Master Wei said, otherwise it will be too cold when I go out to ride the carriage in winter." ”

Seeing Li Zhi's happy appearance, Wei Yan was also very happy, and said, "How good is this." Happy, pretending to be a little old man. ”

Li Zhi smiled embarrassedly and changed the subject: "Where did you hear the poem that Master Wei chanted just now?" ”

Wei Yan crawled relaxed and said, "When I was a child, I listened to my husband when I went to school. When I was a child, I was a picky eater and picky eater, I loved to eat snacks or something all day long, never came to eat dinners, I didn't grow tall, and I wasted food, and then I was educated by my husband. ”

Li Zhi said: "Master Wei was educated by Mr. once so profoundly,"

Wei Yan laughed and said, "Who hasn't been educated by Mr. when they were young?" It's okay to be told. Who let us not do it! No way. ”

"However, it will be very unhappy and embarrassing to be scolded by Mr. Pheasant slaves don't like to be scolded by Mr.! ”

The little one with a lot of self-esteem!

Wei Yan smiled: "That's right, whoever is scolded will be happy!" But what, life still has to go on, is it possible that if you are scolded once, you will be unhappy all day long, and you will never forget it? Wouldn't that be boring? Did I tell you? I have a big brother who is many years older than me, and I was scolded once when I was a child, and I was scolded very badly and very unhappy. He said to me that life is a mirror, and if you laugh, it will laugh too; You cry, it cries. It's also a day to be happy. It's also a day to be unhappy. Why aren't you happy? ”

Li Zhi looked at Wei Yan's eyes with envy. Said: "The environment in which Lord Wei grew up is really enviable, but the environment of the pheasant slave land is ...... Alas. ”

Li Zhi sighed. Wei Yan touched his head, groaned for a while, and said, "Pheasant slave, do you know gratitude? ”

"Thanksgiving?! Of course the pheasant slave knows! Li Zhi straightened his chest and made a manly appearance. Wei Yan smiled and said, "It's good to know, let's learn and be grateful together." ”

"Please advise Master Wei." Li Zhi looked like he was humble and eager to learn. Wei Yan said: "You know what? Your identity and status, your origin, in the eyes of many people, is unspeakably precious, everyone looks forward to and prays for the next life to have such a luxurious status as you, eat and drink without worry, wear silk and satin, receive the best education, in the eyes of many people, this is happiness. However, in your eyes, there are such and such troubles, and you are not happy. ”

Wei Yan's last sentence made Li Zhi's eyes red, he lowered his head, didn't speak, and tried to endure the tears. Wei Yan sighed silently and said, "You also saw the two children Ping'er and Gou'er just now, from the perspective of Ping'er, the preserved fruit is just what he discarded and didn't want, and it doesn't matter; But the dog was put away like a treasure. This is the difference brought about by different perspectives and different standpoints. Why don't we think about your troubles from a different perspective and try to be grateful. Niangniang gave birth to you in October, and worked hard to raise you, the hardships of it, as a human being, should you be grateful for this? Your Majesty fought in all directions, killed the enemy on the battlefield, and sat in the supreme position today, so you got the title of King of Jin and enjoyed the glory and wealth, should you be grateful for this? Should you thank the gentlemen who taught you, put in their efforts, taught you the principles of learning and life, and made you understand things? If it weren't for everyone's dedication and efforts, how would the pheasant slave become what it is today? By the way, you should also be grateful to yourself, because of the nurturing and teaching of Your Majesty and Niangniang, because of the teaching and teaching of all gentlemen, and because of the hard work of the pheasant slave himself, there is this sensible, reasonable, intelligent and capable pheasant slave today! You are grateful for life, and life will give you bright sunshine; If you are not grateful, you just blindly complain about the heavens and others, and you may end up with nothing! When you are successful, you can find many reasons to be grateful; When you fail, there is only one excuse for being ungrateful. As everyone knows, when you fail or are unlucky, you should be more grateful for life. ”

Li Zhi listened thoughtfully. Wei Yan gave him time to think, and he didn't speak, just smiled and looked at him. Li Zhi thought for a while. Said: "The pheasant slave understands, and the pheasant slave will work hard to do it!" ”

Wei Yan smiled and said, "Don't push yourself too hard, and occasionally need to rest." What we have to understand is just an attitude that makes you happier. Gratitude enables us to see the gap when we fail, to get comfort and warmth when we are unfortunate, to stimulate our courage to challenge difficulties, and then to gain the motivation to move forward. Just like Roosevelt, look at the frustration and unhappiness of life from a different perspective. Having a sense of gratitude for life at all times can make you always maintain a healthy attitude, a perfect personality and enterprising beliefs. Learn to make yourself happy, kid. ”

Li Zhi looked at Wei Yan with shining eyes, and said timidly: "Is it okay to be a pheasant slave?" Can King Jin too? ”

"Yes. We must learn to think while learning knowledge and understanding things! Think with your heart! Let's put it this way, let's make a few things clear. For example. The environment, the identity, these things, not only a kind of enjoyment, sometimes also represent responsibility, just like the positive and negative aspects of things, there are good, relative, there will be a bad side, there is no pure good or bad in this world. The poor are more hateful than the hateful, and the hateful will have their pitiful. Accept the good side, we must also accept the bad side, this is a fact, there is no way to escape, there is no way to ignore! Wei Yan said patiently. Li Zhi thought about it, was a little puzzled, and said: "But I'm not happy like this, doesn't Master Wei want the pheasant slave to learn to be happy?" ”

Wei Yan said: "Yes." I tell you to learn to be happy, but this happiness has a premise, after assuming the responsibilities and obligations you should fulfill, and within the scope of your identity and status. On the premise of not causing conflict. ”

Li Zhi's little face was even more puzzled. Confused: "The pheasant slave doesn't understand." ”

Although smart, he is still a child after all. How could he understand these philosophies of life. Wei Yan pointed his finger on his forehead, thought for a while, and said, "Let's put it this way, let's talk about it simply." ”

Wei Yan went to the cabinet in the carriage, turned out the paper and pen and ink, and said while writing: "Let's make a list, write down what we want to do, what we should do, and what we can do. ”

Li Zhi fell into deep thought, and Wei Yan waited patiently, looking at him with burning eyes, waiting for him to make a choice. Li Zhi fiddled with the three pieces of paper back and forth, his face full of hesitation, and occasionally his eyes were confused, looking at Wei Yan for help. Wei Yan shook his head firmly and said, "You have to drain it yourself." ”

Li Zhi lined up for a while, a little irritable, and said slightly angrily: "How to arrange this!" I don't understand! ”

Wei Yan looked at him, ranking forward what he wanted to do for a while, and then lining up what he should do, with a conflicted expression. Wei Yan sighed silently, after all, he was still a child. He decided to follow him step by step, took the three pieces of paper, and said: "You are the son of His Majesty, His Royal Highness the King of Jin, before doing everything, you must first consider what you should do, let's put this paper in front first, what is your opinion?" ”

Li Zhi thought for a while and nodded in agreement. Wei Yan continued: "After determining what you should do, we also have to consider a question of ability, do things within the scope of ability, but overestimate yourself, don't underestimate yourself, and do a few things if you have a little ability, so we have to consider what we can do." ”

Li Zhi's eyes lit up, he nodded busily, and listened attentively to what Wei Yan said. His attitude made Wei Yan very cool, and he couldn't help but laugh at himself that maybe he also had the problem of being a good teacher, otherwise why would he care about these Lori Zhengtai things. With a self-deprecating smile, Wei Yan continued: "People are born with seven emotions and six desires, and it is impossible for all of them to be controlled by reason, so we will have likes and dislikes, and similarly, there will be times when we are unwilling to do something that should be done, everyone has their own ideals in their hearts to achieve, you have them, and I have them." However, the reality is sometimes so helpless, born in this world, to survive, to live, to maintain their own identity and status, to let themselves and the people we care about, for parents, friends, brothers, wives and children, etc., sometimes, we have to wronged ourselves, give up what we want to do the most, do what we should do and can do, so, what we want to do, to be the last. ”

Li Zhi was stunned for a moment, lowered his head and thought for a while, and asked in a low voice: "Can't you do everything together?" Can't you do what you want, what you can do, and what you should do all at once? Please teach me! ”

Wei Yan stared at him gently for a while, and said, "Maybe you can, or maybe not." It takes wisdom to strike a balance between the three and make yourself happy! You need to think for yourself, to learn, and to choose for yourself! I can't teach you that. ”

Li Zhi was a little lonely and depressed, and said, "Then who can teach me?" ”

Wei Yan shook his head: "No one can teach you, only you can." Usually watch more, listen more, think more, see more, think more, you will naturally understand. Wisdom is sometimes a kind of accumulation. Think, choose, give up, and then reach balance, and then you can be happy. ”

Li Zhi nodded and said seriously: "Pheasant slave remember!" Although he doesn't understand it too much yet, the pheasant slave will definitely think hard until he understands. ”

Wei Yan touched his head with a smile and soothed: "Good boy, I'm sorry for you." But you were born in the emperor's family, you must understand these things, otherwise, you will suffer. It's not easy for everyone to survive in the world, so let's work together. ”

"Hmm!" Li Zhi smiled and nodded seriously, looking at Wei Yan's eyes, full of gratitude and admiration. Wei Yan smiled and stopped talking about this topic, Li Zhi is a smart child, he doesn't need to tell him what is right and what is wrong, he just needs to let him know how to think, and he can learn how to make trade-offs and judges. He is a smart, self-respecting, and emotional child, which is why he is so unhappy, if Li Zhi was born with Li's temperament, it may be his blessing. At this time, Wei Yan somewhat understood why Li Zhi in history was said to be cowardly, which would allow Wu Zetian to seize power.