(a)

I walked down the corridor with difficulty with a large pile of documents. Pen "Fun" Pavilion www.biquge.info

With a bang, some of the materials slipped out of my hands and scattered on the ground. A gust of wind passed through the hall, and the pages ran on the ground, and many of them flew into the air.

My eyes searched around for a place to put what I was holding and pick up the missing pages.

"I'll help you." You come up from behind you and you say, "Just stand still." ”

You reach out and grab a few flying pages of paper from the air, and you bend down to pick up the materials that have fallen on the floor, and you arrange them in page order and arrange them neatly around the edges.

You say, "Do you want me to get some for you?" ”

You've taken a couple of folders from me.

I said gratefully, "Thank you for the guidance." ”

You say, "What are these?" ”

I said: "It was just sent by Coach Wang, the player information of the league team, Coach Wang asked us to take the time to take a look, the big war is coming, we must know ourselves and the enemy, understand the opponent's psychological weaknesses and technical shortcomings, and take the right strategy in a targeted manner when the game is coming." ”

You say, "Sent it to each of you?" ”

I shook my head and said, "No." Coach Wang said that in the recent period, even if the results of me and S are relatively stable, we have only been given two of these materials. ”

You say, "Are you going to take them all back and see them?" ”

I nodded.

You look left and right, and you shake your head slightly.

I opened my eyes: "Don't you need to look at it?" ”

You laugh, you hold out a finger, put it on your lips, and make a "silencing" motion.

(b)

Office of Guidance.

We've got the stuff on your desk.

We each took one or two copies and read them in our hands.

I said, "Wow, it's so detailed, I don't know where Director Wang dug it up." ”

I pointed to one of the documents and said, "Look, this boy is named Huang Jun. It's our main opponent when we play. ”

You take the document and look at it carefully. You say, "Well, very good. But it's not stable enough. ”

I said, "Yes." I've played against him two or three times, and when he's leading all the way, he's always playing really well, and the more he plays, the more he feels, but once he falls behind, there are obvious fluctuations, and he often wants to win, and he rushes too much, and he makes more and more mistakes. Especially after repeatedly leading and falling behind, he will mess up himself. If the two of us divide the labor and keep biting him, let him lead for a while, lag behind for a while, bite until the end, and always put pressure on him, he will become more and more chaotic, and finally lose control, or even lose his level completely. ”

I handed you another document, and I said, "And this skinny boy, his name is ......."

At this time, I saw your expression, and I stopped talking.

I said, "Am I not doing the right analysis?" ”

You shake your head. You say, "Idealism, please remember that in any game, you will always have only one opponent, and that is yourself." ”

You say, "You just need to overcome yourself, you don't need to defeat them." ”

(c)

I ask you again, "So, I don't need to read these materials?" ”

You shake your head. You say, "No." To see. ”

I said, "Why bother looking at these things if you don't think about taking advantage of their shortcomings?" ”

You laugh a little.

You say, "You can reflect your own shortcomings from their shortcomings." ”

You say, "If you want to take any targeted countermeasures, I suggest that you adopt a competitive strategy with the mentality of not wanting the other party to fail faster and more miserably, but with the mentality of helping the other party recognize their weaknesses and improve their weaknesses." ”

You say, "Maybe the two strategies are exactly the same, but the starting point is different, and the difference is huge." ”

You say, "Idealism, you have to understand that if you do anything, whether you want to cause others to fail or help others succeed, the outcome of the matter will be very different. ”

You say, "We shake each other's hands before every game, don't we?" ”

I said, "Yes." ”

You say, "That means we should be playing and reaching out to each other." Through the competition, each other's shortcomings can be improved, each other's level can be improved, and each other's happiness can be enhanced. ”

You say, "You should let them understand their weaknesses through this contact with you, and help them to make up for their shortcomings and tend to improve." ”

You say, "And on the other hand, you should also hold the helping hand of your opponent." Through his attacks and challenges, he recognizes his weaknesses and determines the direction of improvement. ”

You say, "Idealism, all opponents are not obstacles to your success, but teachers who make you successful." A better teacher than a coach. ”

You say, "They are helpers, not contenders." ”

You say, "And you, when you go to the competition, always have the mentality of helping everyone, not the mentality of winning the championship." The former is an angel mentality, and the latter is a robber mentality. ”

You say, "I can accept that you lose the championship, but I don't want to see you, with the heart of a bandit." ”

(iv)

I listened to your words and felt deeply deafening, no one had ever taught me this before.

However, I was also deeply confused.

I was puzzled and said, "So, coach, how do I design the way I play during the game?" ”

I said, "Completely ignore what they do, play at their own pace?" Or is it completely disregarding your own rhythm and adjusting it to the situation of different opponents? ”

You laugh a little. You say, "Didn't you already say a well-designed style of play?" ”

You say, "It's well designed and doesn't need to be modified." Just follow that plan. ”

I don't quite understand: didn't you just disagree with me for saying that?

You look at me. You laugh again.

You say, "It's just that don't fight with the mood of knocking down the other person and letting the other person fail, but with the feeling of thanking the other person for their advice and helping the other person improve." ”

You say, "With that in mind, go ahead and implement that plan." ”

You say, "Your problem is not in technique, but in direction, not in program, but in motivation." ”

You say, "Idealism, I ask you once again to keep in mind that when you compete, you should never allow yourself to harbor ill will towards others." ”

You say, "Never go through the game that breeds and amplifies malice towards others." ”

You say, "If you don't do that, no matter what the result is, it's called a loss." ”

(5)

You open the drawer, you take out a paper bag from it, you reach out and put all the materials on the table into the paper bag, you take another roll of tape from the table, you tear off a little tape, and seal the mouth of the paper bag. You hand me the bag.

You say, "Idealism, in order to become a master shooter, what you love must really be the shooting itself, not the shooting champion." (To be continued.) )