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Mrs. Wen said in her heart: In the future, I still count on Bai Tie to honor me, I really can't make Bai Tie too angry.

Mrs. Wen nodded.

Mrs. Wen nodded and said: You can let Bai Tie go.

The county magistrate was very happy when he saw Mrs. Wen nodding.

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Then, the county magistrate talked to Mrs. Wen about the marriage of their daughter Bai Yin and Bai Lian.

The county magistrate said: "In my opinion, the marriage between my daughter and Bai Lian should really be broken up." ”

Mrs. Wen said, "What? Do you think that should be broken up? ”

The county magistrate said: "One, I also heard about it just now, Bai Tie has already shouted about this matter, several people have known about this matter, this matter has been shouted, if we marry our daughter to Bai Lian again, you spoke just now, our faces are gloomy, our daughter is the identity of the princess, Bai Lian is like that, we still marry our daughter to him; Second, I also thought about it in the past two days, Bai Lian is indeed not the best candidate for our son-in-law in the future, I think the best candidate for our son-in-law in the future should be Huang Shi, although Bai Lian has money in the family, but Bai Lian is a brother, and the other person is lonely, once he has something, no one discusses, and Huang Shi, Huang Shi is three brothers, and Huang Shi is still very hugging, isn't there an example before, didn't Bai Lian have lost to Huang Shi before, it was when our daughter threw the hydrangea; Three, the marriage between our daughter and Huang Shi used to be God's meaning, do you remember what happened when our daughter threw the hydrangea, when our daughter threw the hydrangea, who was the first person to hit our daughter's hydrangea, wasn't it Huang Shi, at that time, the Huang family brothers were making trouble behind their backs, and the Huang family brothers were okay at that time, anyway, the person who hit the hydrangea at that time was Huang Shi, and later it wasn't Bai Lian who shouted noisily to do it, so that the hydrangea was rethrown, and the hydrangea hit Bai Lian? ”

Mrs. Wen said in her heart: Yes.

Mrs. Wen also agreed that her daughter's marriage to Bai Lian was dissolved.

Speaking of the book, I also need to say: the first person who Miss Bai Yinbai's hydrangea hit that day was not Huang Shi. The first person Miss Bai Bai's hydrangea hit that day was Hong Lichun.

After arriving, Miss Bai Baibai's marriage still had a change.

After arriving, Huang Shi was also "finished".

Later, I brought it up again.

Later, Hong Lichun was mentioned.

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Let's talk about white iron.

As soon as Bai Tie went back, the second lady asked him.

The second lady said: "You are too bold, you dare to fight the tigress?" ”

Bai Tie said: "He is angry with me. I was drinking with a few friends, and when she went in, she didn't say a word, she didn't ask anything, and she beat me. She doesn't count if she beats me, she still beats you. ”

The second lady said, "When you should endure it, you have to endure it." We can't afford to mess with her! Sometimes mothers have to endure it! ”

Bai Tie said: "I'm going to beat her again!" ”

The second lady said, "Why do you still beat her?" Her face is broken! ”

Bai Tie said: "His face is not broken, and I am not more angry." She broke her face, she said I hit her, she framed me! ”

The second lady said, "Don't be impulsive! ”

Bai Tie said: "Can I not be impulsive? ”

The second lady said, "Her face, you really didn't hit her?" ”

Bai Tie said: "It's really not! ”

The second lady said, "Really? ”

Bai Tie said, "Yes! Mother, why don't you believe me?

The second lady said, "If you have something to say, let's talk slowly." ”

Bai Tie said, "What else is there to say?" ”

The second lady said: "From the mother's point of view, she is also such an old person. She's your elder again. There were some things she wouldn't have gone overboard. ”

Bai Tie said: "I really didn't mess with her! ”

The second lady said, "I also believe that you didn't mess with her." ”

Bai Tie said: "Didn't I say it many times, I was drinking with a few friends, and she suddenly broke in, and she beat me without saying a word!" ”

The second lady said, "Don't be impulsive yet. Wait for her mother to ask her, and then talk. ”

Bai Tie said, "What? You're still going to ask her? ”

The second lady said, "Listen to my mother! Don't move here! ”

Bai Tie said, "Yes." ”

Bai Tie really listens to his mother.

After the second lady finished speaking, she went out.

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Why didn't the second lady let Bai Tie move?

She was afraid that Bai Tie would go out and cause trouble.

This matter is big enough, if you cause trouble again, it will be really difficult to clean up.

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After that, the second lady walked to Mrs. Wen's residence.

The second lady wanted to find out about the situation.

The second lady did the right thing on this point, when there is a problem, when there is a conflict between the two, she should understand the situation first and then speak.

Our book is called "How Big Your Heart Is", and that's what it is.

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The second lady soon came to Mrs. Wen's house.

When the second lady saw it, the county magistrate was also there.

As soon as the second lady saw the county lord and Mrs. Wen, she hurriedly gave a salute to the county lord and Mrs. Wen: "I've seen the master, I've seen the eldest lady." ”

Mrs. Wen said, "Are you here?" ”

The second lady said, "I have come to ask you for my guilt, and I have not educated my son well. At the same time, I have come to you to plead on behalf of my son. My son shouldn't have been guilty of a petty offense. ”

The second lady did a good job at this point.

She first said that she was not her own, and she did not say her own reason first.

In this incident, Bai Tie, the son of the second lady, was indeed guilty of a small crime.

The younger generation beats the elders, whether you are justified or not, you are also guilty of petty crimes.

This is how it should be when there is a conflict between people. If you talk about your own reasoning first, it will make the other party more angry. The more angry the other party is, the more aggressive the other party will be. If the other party acts more aggressively, the situation will be further worsened. And if you say what you are not first, and say what you are not first, it will make the other party less angry. The other party's anger is less, and the situation will move closer to calming down.

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When Mrs. Wen saw that the second lady said this, she was really less angry.

The county magistrate was present again, and Mrs. Wen was not too rude.

Mrs. Wen also explained to the second lady the reason why he hit the white iron this time.

Although Mrs. Wen suffered a loss in the fight this time, it was her first move in this fight. When she saw that the second lady first said that she was not, she also wanted to talk about her first.

Mrs. Wen said: "At that time, I also didn't make it clear to Bai Tie. I'll just hit white iron, and I'm not right. ”

At this time, Mrs. Wen told the second lady the reason for his fight.

Mrs. Wen said: "The reason why I hit Bai Tie this time is because after Bai Tie found out about Bai Lian, he said it everywhere. At that time, I thought that he was saying everywhere that it was not good for my face, nor for my lord's face, nor for your face. ”

Only then did the second lady understand

The second lady thought for a while: yes. If this matter is shouted out, it is indeed not good.

At this time, the second lady apologized to Mrs. Wen for her son.

The second lady said: "Bai Tie is too young, he doesn't think so much about some things, please ask the eldest lady to do more." ”

Mrs. Wen saw that the second lady said yes one by one, and she became less angry.

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The second lady and Mrs. Wen again: "Big lady, the injury on your face is really made of white iron?" ”

Mrs. Wen said, "I'm ashamed to say it. I accidentally fell on my own. ”

The second lady saw that the injury on Mrs. Wen's face was not caused by her son, and she was also relieved.

The county magistrate said, "Okay, okay." It's all family. ”

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Then, the second lady asked Bai Tie to apologize to Mrs. Wen, and Mrs. Wen didn't blame Bai Tie much.

Mrs. Wen said in her heart: In the future, I still expect Bai Tie to honor me, how can I blame Bai Tie too much?

After that, when they saw that it was too late, they went to rest.

And so the clouds dispersed.

A misunderstanding was solved.