Chapter 25: Let's Talk About Friends (4)
Hong Lichun sent away the white copper, and he continued to drink with Hong Liqiu, Xiaoshi, Hongxing, and Hongyue. Pen & Fun & Pavilion www.biquge.info
At this time, Xiao Shi spoke: "Everyone, can I make a suggestion?" ”
Hong Lichun said, "Okay." ”
Red Liqiu, Red Star, and Red Moon also followed and said, "Okay." ”
Xiao Shi said, "I propose that we worship as brothers who swear to be more than Taoyuan, what do you think?" ”
Hong Liqiu said: "Okay. ”
Red Star and Red Moon also said, "Okay." ”
However, Hong Lichun shook his head gently.
Everyone saw it.
Everyone said, "Brother Hong, what's the matter, isn't this a good thing?" ”
Hong Lichun said: "It is naturally a good thing to worship as friends. However, before I bow down, I have a few words to say. ”
Everyone said, "Brother Hong, what do you say?" ”
Hong Lichun said: "This ....... ”
Everyone said, "Brother Hong, if you have something to say, just say it." Do you still need to talk to your brothers? ”
Hong Lichun said: "When I say it, I'm afraid that everyone will be unhappy. ”
The people said, "What's not to be happy about?" ”
Hong Lichun said: "Okay, then I'll say it."
The people said, "Speak." ”
Hong Lichun said: "Of course. I'm telling the truth. ”
The people said, "Speak quickly." ”
Hong Lichun said: "We have an ancient saying in China, which is called 'all evil and fornication are the first, and all good and filial piety are the first'. I don't think you can put your parents on the back burner at any time as a human being. I think that as a human being, the first thing you should think of is your parents, the second thing you should think of is your children, and the third thing you should think of is your partner. The second thing you should think of is your friends. I think that the relationship between friends is just to help each other. The relationship between friends cannot go beyond their own parents and relatives. ”
When Hong Lichun said something, some people nodded slightly, but some people didn't have any expression.
Hong Lichun was afraid that his words would be a little out of his mouth, so he hurriedly covered his face with wine.
Hong Lichun said: "I drank too much just now, and I spoke a little incoherently. ”
Xiao Shi said: "Brother Hong, although your words just now sound a little unpleasant, they are indeed the case. ”
Hong Lichun said: "I drank too much just now, and I didn't think twice about speaking. ”
Xiao Shi said: "Brother Hong, your words just now are good, you can continue." ”
Hong Lichun said: "Then I can continue." I also had a few more drinks today. ”
The little stone said, "Say it." ”
Hong Lichun said: "The oath is better than the sworn worship of Taoyuan." Liu, Guan, and Zhang are famous all over the world. But who has thought about it carefully, Liu, Guan, and Zhang still have a dark side. ”
Little Stone hurriedly asked, "What dark side?" ”
Hong Lichun said: "The dark side of them is that they are many times, they only think about their brother's feelings, they don't think about other people's feelings!" ”
The little stone said, "What? ”
Hong Lichun said: "Let's take Liu Bei's revenge for Guan Yu. After Guan Yu was killed by Sun Quan, Liu Bei made a big move in order to avenge Guan Yu. Aggression is war. Did he take into account other people's lives? Guan Yu is dead and needs revenge, what about the lives of other pawns caused by the war? Doesn't war kill people? Is it true that only the lives of the big guys are lives, and the lives of other pawns are not lives? ”
Hong Lichun said a few words, and everyone couldn't stop nodding.
Hong Lichun continued: "There are still ,......。 ”
When Hong Lichun said this, he stopped talking.
Little Stone said, "Since there is, let's go on." ”
Hong Lichun said: "I just heard about it. Not necessarily. I'm not responsible for what I say. ”
The little stone said, "Say it." It's small talk anyway. It doesn't matter if it's wrong. ”
Hong Lichun said: "I heard some versions of "Three Kingdoms" say that after Liu Bei, Guan Yu, and Zhang Fei Taoyuan became righteous, in order to regard their feelings for each other as the first in their lives, they killed all their parents and relatives in order to prevent their parents and relatives from dragging them down in the future! ”
"What?"
When Hong Lichun said this, some people were stunned.
Hong Lichun continued: "'Since Liu Bei, Guan Yu, and Zhang Fei have already bowed, Liu Bei should put Guan Yu and Zhang Fei first in the future, Guan Yu should put Liu Bei and Zhang Fei in the first place, and Zhang Fei should put Liu Bei and Guan Yu first in the future. Other people shouldn't have anything to share. Should we also learn from such feelings? ”
Hong Liqiu said: "Yes! I've also heard it said in some versions of "Three Kingdoms". ”
Little Stone said, "Maybe it's true! I have also watched "Three Kingdoms". I've only seen one version of it, though. The version I watched, the story is not very detailed. The version I watched, what Brother Hong said just now, after Liu Bei, Guan Yu, and Zhang Fei Taoyuan became righteous, there was no story of them slaughtering their relatives. However, when Brother Hong said that just now, I also thought about it, yes, Cao Cao and Sun Quan in "Three Kingdoms" have their fathers and brothers, why don't Liu Bei, Guan Yu, and Zhang Fei have them? Cao Cao's father was called Cao Song, and Cao Cao's brothers were called Cao Ren and Cao Hong. Cao Cao's brothers also include Xiahou Dun, Xiahou Yuan, etc. Sun Quan's father is called Sun Jian, Sun Quan's elder brother is called Sun Ce, Sun Quan's mother is called Wu Guotai, and Sun Quan's sister is called Sun Shangxiang. Could it be that Liu Bei, Guan Yu, and Zhang Fei really don't have their fathers and brothers? ”
Hong Lichun said: "As for whether Liu Bei, Guan Yu, and Zhang Fei slaughtered their relatives at that time, I don't want to say more now. Now what I want to say is that as a person, you should first put your parents who gave birth to yourself and raised yourself in the first place, because your parents gave birth to yourself and raised yourself; Second, they should put their own children first, because their children will have to bear the family and support themselves in the future. Third, you should put your partner first, because your partner can share your ups and downs and rely on each other. Fourth, you should put your uncles, uncles, uncles, brothers, sisters and other relatives in the first place, because those relatives of your own are your flesh and blood relatives who cannot touch the flesh and blood relationship at any time; Fifth, we should put friends first, because friends can help each other, understand each other, care for each other, and be considerate of each other. ”
When Hong Lichun said this, Hong Liqiu pulled Hong Lichun with his hand.
Hong Liqiu said: Brother, did you really drink too much? How did you put your friend in fifth place in front of your friends all at once? Doesn't that seem like a distant relationship between friends? Even then, you can't say it with your mouth, can you?
Little Stone spoke: "Good! I agree with Brother Hong's words just now! ”
Red Star said: "I am also in favor. ”
Red Moon said, "I approve of it too. ”
Hong Lichun continued: "I agree that we will be friends in the future. But I only agree that we will be friends in the future who are in a relationship with our own parents and loved ones, helping each other, caring for each other, supporting each other, and working together. ”
At this time, Hong Liqiu pulled Red Lichun again.
Hong Liqiu said: Brother, why are you still talking?
Xiaoshi said: "Brother Liqiu, don't pull Brother Lichun." Brother Lichun is right. ”
Hong Lichun continued: "Even if we are friends in the future whose relationship does not override our parents and relatives, I also have requirements. Even if we are friends whose relationship does not override our parents and relatives, I also ask our friends to be benevolent, moral, and friendly to others. If, as a friend, you are only close to yourself from your own circle of friends, and you are indifferent to others outside your own circle of friends, I don't approve of it. In order to get close to my circle of friends, I don't approve of hurting others outside my circle of friends at will. As a friend, it is natural to be close to your own circle of friends, but for others outside your circle of friends, you should also coexist peacefully. ”
At this time, Red Star and Red Moon spoke: "Well said! ”
Red Star and Red Moon are good friends of Hong Lichun. The two are brothers. They are usually very honest and don't like to talk. Now they are also talking.
At this time, Hong Liqiu and Xiaoshi also felt that Hong Lichun's words were indeed reasonable.
Hong Lichun's words just now, although they don't sound very pleasant, they always say that friends are not very close, not very close, and always say that they restrain friends, but in fact, it is also the case.
Take Hong Lichun's last sentence just now, "As a friend, it is natural to be close within your circle of friends, but for others outside your circle of friends, you should also coexist peacefully." "Isn't it? If you just get close to yourself in your circle of friends, and hurt others outside your circle of friends at will, isn't this just causing trouble for yourself and your friends?
At this time, Hong Liqiu, Little Stone, Red Star, and Red Moon all agreed to worship Hong Lichun as friends.
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So, Hong Lichun, Hong Liqiu, Little Stone, Red Star, and Red Moon worshipped.
Their slogan is: help each other in the future, understand each other, care for each other, and be considerate of each other.
Hong Lichun and a few others bowed, which was the first step in their lives.