(a)

I stood in front of my father. Ｘ

I asked my father, "Why don't you have a conversation with him like that without asking for my opinion?" This is my marriage! He's my husband! ”

"That's right. He is your husband. But, you are my daughter. Your assets are part of the group's assets, and I am the chairman of the group. Father said in a calm tone.

I said, "Father! I'm old enough to take care of my own affairs and hope not to get involved in my married life like this again. ”

My father looked at me with a sneer on his lips and said, "Can you take care of your own business?" ”

I remembered the "handle" he said when he was angry.

My father must have discovered some misdeeds in him, and this misdeeds will directly affect my choice of marriage.

I was silent for a moment. Perhaps, I still know too much about him. I only saw his superficial love letters and flowers, saw his posture and body contours, and I didn't see through his heart.

Father pointed to the sofa across from him and said, "Sit down, don't get so excited." ”

The father said, "I have a lot of respect for your personal choice. I have not commented on this marriage, except to bless you. You have to believe that, as a father, I sincerely hope that you can be happy. Sometimes, of course, life's lessons are inevitable for happiness. ”

The father said, "Everything my father has done is to protect you." Don't let you get involved in danger. ”

I sat down and kept my head down.

The father said, "When he went back, he quarreled with you?" Yelling at you? ”

I don't affirm, I don't deny.

I didn't want my father to know his attitude towards me. That could lead to a harsher warning or punishment for him. I don't want my father to worry about my marriage anymore.

I said carefully, "He thinks I knew about it beforehand." He thought I could talk to him on my own, or talk to him before marriage. ”

The father said, "In addition to yelling at you, he may have pushed you a handful or two, has he done anything else?" ”

I shook my head and said, "No." He rushed out of the bedroom in a rage and didn't come back all night. ”

The father said, "Daughter, you must know that what I propose will not cause any irritation or harm to a true gentleman. If he is not marrying you for the purpose of your property, then he will be very happy to do so to prove his innocence. In fact, a true gentleman should offer to do so before marriage. If this suggestion makes him feel stimulated, it must be that he feels that he has suffered some kind of frustration because of it. That is to say, it is very likely that his love for you is not completely pure. At the very least, he doesn't know the way of the world, he doesn't know how to think about the woman's family, and he doesn't cherish feathers. ”

The father said, "If he were a true gentleman, he would not have done that to you after we talked." He will take my advice as if it were his own idea and take the initiative to tell you, instead of asking why you are calculating him. ”

"He is doing it now, if not unkindly, but at least recklessly," said the father. ”

The father said, "I know that you have not been married for a long time, and you are like glue, and you will definitely be unhappy in your heart when you say this, and you will be very resistant and disgusted with me." However, you are not a **** girl anymore, you have seen enough of men's faces over the years, I hope you can get rid of the confusion of feelings, and think calmly about whether there is any truth in your father's words. ”

My father said, "I learned from my own experience that happiness in life sometimes comes late. Before we do that, we need to learn what happiness is. In this way, when happiness finally comes, we will not miss it in person because of the wrong thoughts and actions. ”

"You know, the relatives are a little surprised by your marriage and not very optimistic," he said. However, I am not against you. I think that others can't teach you what happiness is. You have to explore, experience, verify, and learn for yourself. I don't think it's a mistake for you to start this kind of serious study. ”

I looked at my father. Although there was something in my father's words that deeply hurt me, I could feel his love for his daughter.

My father looked at me affectionately and said, "I was born into an ordinary family when I was a child. At that time, I grew up in a natural environment. I didn't live in such a special environment like you, and I faced many problems that ordinary people wouldn't encounter. ”

"I understand that it can be difficult for you to deal with such a complicated matter," said the father. But I'm sure you'll learn how to deal with it eventually. You're going to do a better job than I do. ”

My father stood up, walked up to me, stroked my hair, and said, "Go back, daughter, and go face your husband and soothe his emotions, but he must finish what he promised me in the cigar room." He had no other choice. ”

The father said, "No matter how much I love you, I will not waver on this point." I hope you don't waver either. ”

"On the one hand, it's to protect the group's assets, and on the other hand, it's to identify your husband's character," the father said. ”

(b)

My father would give me a lot of latitude in many things and would accommodate my decisions. But if he insists on something, it's unshakable. Not to mention his daughter, even if God himself appears, I am afraid that there is nothing to change.

I found nothing, and returned home with all the guilt I felt for my father.

My husband doesn't know where he came back anymore.

The one-night separation made him calm down a lot. He came over and kissed me, said he missed me, and apologized for his attitude last night.

As his father said, like a gentleman, he took his father's advice as if it were his own.

I did not refuse his kisses, nor did I refuse his suggestion to divide the property.

We reconciled quickly.

Outwardly, we have returned to a glue-like state of affection.

However, both of us know in our hearts that there is a deep estrangement between each other.

As time passes, the initial affection between us has faded, and the physical attraction to each other has slowly become dull.

The essence of each other's personalities begins to be revealed.

Our disagreements and conflicts became more and more numerous, and even when we came to a fork in the road, choosing which way to go home became a topic of contention.

Our choices have never been the same.

I felt very frustrated.

The feeling of loneliness before marriage has not disappeared, but has become more touching and profound because the inappropriate person is by his side day and night.