Chen Caozhi is a merry man.

Zen Buddhism says that the wind is wandering, that is, wandering without the wind, going wherever the mind wants, not to things, not to hinder things, not to reside in things: a very special girl, very beautiful, you don't see her, you see it from afar; It's not that you haven't met her, you have met, you pass by her, but you won't stop, it's just gone, her beauty, you have received it, but you don't stay, you don't possess.

--Xiaochan, Xie Daoyun, Xin'an County Lord, Su Hui, Princess Qingle....... The reason why the three idiots do not hesitate to write and ink is, of course, because he likes women. In the past, a certain writer, whose name I don't remember, had a prominent theme in his novels, which was to love women and praise women, and he said that if there were still several beautiful things in the world, one would be nature, and the second would be beauty and women. For example, if someone writes a novel and runs out of ideas, he will ask some girls to go to his house, sit and let him read, and after reading for a few hours, he will continue to write. However, if the beauty of a certain girl is not enough for you, and then, you have a desire to possess it, which is Zhu. Pursue her, get her, you will stay with her, and you can never move forward, because when people have desires for something, there will be an attachment, and you fix the attachment in your heart, and at the same time, the desire caused by attachment will also fix you, which will not be romantic.

In addition to Liu Shangwei, none of Chen Caozhi's friends have concubines, Xie Xuan, Fan Wuzi, Kong Wang, and Ding Chunqiu are all scholars, not to mention concubines, it should be very common to have a personal maid to warm the bed, but this aspect is not mentioned in the article, probably because these families belong to a relatively rigorous type, or it may not be worth mentioning at all. Due to the general environment, in addition to the formal wife, the status of concubines and maidservants is too far apart, and it cannot be compared at all, so although Chen's mother Li loves Lu Weirui, she still arranges for Xiaochan to sleep with her son, and in her concept, she does not realize that this will hurt her future daughter-in-law. If Chen Caozhi just got off the donkey, of course he could, but he didn't; On the other hand, reputation is very important in that society, and using Xiaochan's closeness and affection for him to get a gentleman's light reputation, Chen Caozhi is even more disdainful, so Xiaochan continues to be his maidservant.

Besides, Xie Daoyun is two years older than Lu Weirui, Lu Weirui has no resistance at all in front of her, and only listens to Jun's words, so she impulsively offers her and Chen Caozhi's feelings with her hands. Fortunately, Xie Daoyun is also a wonderful person, she likes Chen Caozhi, and she prefers the feeling of having a crush on each other. As Socrates said, God is not on the side of the beloved, Xie Daoyun gained a kind of strength from the secret love to protect herself, even if she saw Chen Caozhi and Lu Weirui being intimate together, she mistakenly thought that her current attitude of silent protection is the deepest, most special, and most ideal state of love, and even, she may secretly believe that the love of those two people is because of their own willingness. So she told herself that there was no need to be envious, let alone jealous.

Finally, there are often criticisms in the book review area that Chen Caozhi is not a man enough, or that he can have polygamy if he has an emotional basis, separating ** from ** and ** conceptually, so that polygamy can gain some rationality. In my opinion, people, especially men, should be introspective, confident, and act according to their hearts, rather than making reasons and excuses for themselves from the external environment. People who want to have multiple wives can naturally work hard to have multiple wives without being ashamed, and Chen Caozhi's original idea was to stay with Lu Weirui for a hundred years and be a pair of water painting immortals. As for not being a man enough, on the contrary, although Chen Caozhi seems to be a person who can do everything very well, rational and wise, he usually always coerces Mount Tai and surpasses Beihai, which makes it easy for others to convince him, in fact, this person also has times when he can't think clearly, for example, Xiaochan has a good atmosphere when he is alone with Xie Daoyun several times, but he doesn't use confusion as an excuse to follow the trend, which is enough for a man.

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Maverick Xie Daoyun

Some people in the book review area often think that Xie Daoyun's feelings for Chen Caozhi are mainly because he likes his talents, and he talks about choosing a son-in-law, and if he meets other talents who can convince her, most of them will get married.

The fact is that since the death of Chen's mother and Chen Caozhi's filial piety, Xie Daoyun has not worshiped Tiansun Niangniang, who is in charge of human marriage, Xie Daoyun is both proud and self-conscious, and reunited three years later. Qing Tan Yaji's choice of a son-in-law can alleviate the pressure of forced marriage, it is better than the elders who set a life on their behalf behind closed doors, Xie Dao Yun is wise and close to a demon, and the reaction is extremely fast, and the artist is bold, she is not afraid to take this road.

When Xie Daoyun first appeared on the stage, he didn't leave a little face when he spoke, and he always looked down on people who were not as good as her, never false and wronged, and didn't say anything polite when he disagreed with others. Xie Daoyun must use hurtful words when he opens his mouth, catch whoever sprays, spray so much that you want to find the steps and have no place, there is no way to avoid it, you can only suffer from this spray.

You Heng, the first madman of the Wei and Jin Dynasties, is a similar example, so that others are afraid of him, You Heng is on a business trip, and the colleagues who saw him off simply sat on the side of the road and were silent, You Heng cried on the spot, Xun Yu was helpless, stood up and asked him what he was crying about, and replied: There are so many dead bodies on the side of the road that scare me. Madness is a kind of character, You Heng is not really unsympathetic, the official document he is responsible for drafting is "light and heavy, each is appropriate", and the meaning that his boss Huang Zu wants to say but can't say is just right, Huang Zu happily took You Heng's hand, "..... This is exactly what the ancestors want, as the ancestors want to say." In the end, You Heng died very young, Huang Zu wanted You Heng to pat himself on the back at the banquet, he was not perfunctory or compromising, and directly sprayed Huang Zu as a rough man with a clay sculpture and wooden tire, Huang Zu was angry, scolded You Heng, and You Heng scolded back: You are an old and immortal young many!

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Xie Daoyun is better than You Heng, after experiencing the grass hall study, eighteen send-offs, and three years of Qing Tan Yaji picking out countless children of the family, may he really be so angry when he is older? Qing, she has to think about it in the future, she wants to neither hurt Lu Weirui, nor can she suffocate herself, she wants to live a free life, and she wants to "be friends for life", she has made a lot of preparations for this, but it seems that she still can't do it, and more and more people will recognize her identity; Xie Daoyun is free, a woman disguises herself as a man, and since then she has participated in political affairs, and she has also been restrained, and she is burdened with the pressure of being disgraceful, can freedom and restraint be offset? It's hard to answer, you can only ask the person himself, maybe Xie Daoyun himself is not clear, maybe he hasn't thought about it, maybe he doesn't dare to think about it.

But no matter when, women always care so much about their uniqueness, love makes Lu Weirui a little woman, a little woman is the cutest woman in love, there are so many little women in the world, maverick Xie Daoyun is the only one, Xie Daoyun and Chen Caozhi belong to another kind of feelings that have nothing to do with love, she tries to make herself believe this. It's a pity that my younger brother doesn't believe it, the third uncle and the third aunt don't believe it, her personal maid doesn't believe it, Hengwen and Xi Chao don't believe it, the household registration officer surnamed Jia doesn't believe it, and those who know her identity in the book don't believe it, and the readers don't believe it, it seems that Chen Caozhi believes it a little, sister-in-law Ding Youwei will be suspicious, and the fourth uncle is confused when he is a celebrity and doesn't think so much.

If the gender of the three people is reversed, Lu Gongzi and Chen Niangzi are in love, and Xie Gongzi "is less than 100 years old, and if you like it, you have to fight", then there is no problem, because in the psychological stereotype of Chinese culture, it is not a matter for a man to snatch love with a knife at all, some people want to say that this man is immoral, but most of the parties will not care, but women can't, they just care about this. In essence, a man marries from one woman to another (mother → wife), and a woman marries from one family to another (a grown → family).

The book of the three idiots is still relatively serious, it will not reduce the intelligence of the heroine, and Chen Caozhi is not the kind of male protagonist who wants to refuse and pretend to be a gesture, I don't know how the plot will be arranged in the future.

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Everyone loves Lu Weirui

Traditionally, in historical texts, it is often - parents who choose a son-in-law who are extremely confused, a deep lady who bravely pursues love, and a door-to-door brother who embroiders a pillow and a bag of grass, and then the appearance of the protagonist provides the only answer to this unsolvable circle.

In the Eastern Jin Dynasty society written by the three idiots, the children of the scholar clan were rotten and sunk in a life where they could not see the sorrows, and became a noble and idle man who did not care about anything, an incompetent and ridiculous celebrity general, and a lover of mysticism, but in a small area, the kind of noble temperament that originated in the bones, in the blood, and was soaked in the acquired habits, did not disappear, and there were always one or two young people who could handle it in each family. What is Family Style? It is Fan Ning who attacks the shield of the son with the spear of the son, it is Gu Kaizhi's finishing touch, and it is Kong Wang and Chen Caozhi who coincidentally convince people with virtue...... Familiarity with the scrolls, literary style, and exquisite skills are secondary, and the elegance and calmness, spiritual freedom and independence are more precious, and "every man is his own king". Chen Caozhi can only shirk the advantage of being thousands of years ahead to Ge Hong's collection of books and the dreams of the sages, and he does not forget to temper himself every day, and he does not dare to slack off at all, otherwise it will be very uneasy to stand with such a group of people.

If Lu Weirui's parents and peers are all vulgar, and the growth environment is like a sauce jar, then no matter how much spirituality will be consumed, Lu Weirui is a flower fairy with wings in this lush forest, with the beauty of Zhong Ling, probably giving people the impression of a girl who loves flowers and paintings, and her kindness is boundless, she can't even scold and complain, she will only cry when she is anxious, and she doesn't speak loudly.

Now Lu Weirui's situation is relatively easy, Lu Na, Zhang Wenjun and his wife share a lot of pressure for their daughter, the future husband's family likes her, even the lover's rival quit very graciously and left sincere blessings, what if Xie Daoyun lived in the daughter-in-law building before Lu Weirui? Lu Weirui will be the owner of the daughter-in-law's building in the future, and Xie Daoyun can only live in as a guest with a fake name and a fake identity.... As the saying goes, what should come will always come, and what should go will always go...... From the author's technical point of view, the abuse essay is easier to write than the happy one, because there is more space for maneuvering, Xie Daoyun is always abused, so naturally it takes more pen and ink, and Lu Weirui has nothing to worry about except cheering for Chen Caozhi and waiting for him to marry, so in order to avoid sliding into formulaic and symbolic for the role of Lu Weirui, the three idiots racked their brains to think of those unexpected and reasonable bridges, and it is quite difficult to find out the plot little by little.