Chapter 357: Xue Lang-style consolation
"Guozhang?!"
Princess Pingyang's cold expression froze, and she narrowed her eyes and muttered. However, Wu Gouyu seemed to be sad and angry, and he only knew how to beat the ground and cry, and he had no time to care about Princess Pingyang's words.
Princess Pingyang glanced at Chu Xue next to her, Chu Xue immediately understood, turned around and whispered to Princess Pingyang's guard, the guard responded, the two stepped forward together, pulled Wu Gouyu and began to ask about the inside story.
Princess Pingyang said to Xue Lang: "Let's go first, don't delay the winemaking." ”
Xue Lang sighed silently, since Princess Pingyang didn't want him to interfere in this matter, he had the right to ignore it. In fact, Princess Pingyang's psychology is not difficult to understand, she knows with her toes that this is Chang'an, and the one who can act in the name of the national abbot in the Chang'an realm must be the father of those little beauties in the sage's harem. However, after the establishment of the sage, there was only one queen, that is, the posthumously crowned Queen Taimu Dou, the wife of the sage Li Yuanming, and after that, there was no queen.
Zhou Gong set the world, divided by the descendants, and ordered by the eldest and youngest. This set of etiquette rules is widely accepted by the world, and even in the laws issued by the dynasties and dynasties, and widely practiced, they are all emphatically expounded.
Even the maiden family of Wan Guifei, who is now the highest-ranking concubine in the palace, does not dare to live in the saint's country. Even if she is promoted to a concubine, the concubine is still a concubine, and the saint's wife is only the Dou family. To put it bluntly, according to the current laws and customs, only the Dou family can talk to the saints, and the rest are not qualified.
Princess Pingyang, as the daughter of Empress Dou and the concubine of the saint Li Yuan and Empress Dou, for Princess Pingyang's pride and self-esteem, these people are just relatives of her father's concubine, and pretending to be a relative of the country is tantamount to insulting her.
Therefore, in the conflict with Yin Arat, Xue Lang didn't tell her the reason for the conflict with Yin Arat, just because he didn't want her to be angry.
Princess Pingyang, this person, is extremely good at qi cultivation, the more angry she is, the calmer her face becomes. When Xue Lang read the historical records, Taishi Gong wrote when he wrote Emperor Zhuan
Jing Yuan is the governor of the government with a plan and a dredging.
This sentence, if applied to Princess Pingyang, is also extremely appropriate. His sweetheart is such a woman, let's call her the queen, Princess Pingyang never bullies people, and her royal sister seems to be too thin to describe her characteristics. Alas, as an object, Xue Lang only wanted to say one thing
I like it!
Thinking like this, Xue Lang took two steps, kept up with Princess Pingyang's pace, and returned to the small courtyard that was ready to be used as a brewing site, and after putting down the cherries, he was not in a hurry to start, but took Princess Pingyang's hand and stared at her: "Jianling!" ”
Princess Pingyang raised her head and didn't speak, but just looked at Xue Lang with questions in her eyes. Xue Lang said: "The saint is old, when you act, think more, don't be too direct and sharp, you can be tactful." Good no good? ”
Princess Pingyang's eyes suddenly sharpened, and she looked directly at Xue Lang, as if she was a little displeased. Xue Lang did not shy away from it, and continued to persuade: "The opposite of the saint day by day, is the people in the harem, the so-called people are golden, accumulate and destroy the bones, even if you enter the palace every day, it is not worth the people in the harem and the saint day by day, so don't be anxious, don't panic, just like you used to, this matter is our reason, and we will take advantage of it first." Since the situation is in me, then, it is only a matter of time to punish the traitor and eliminate the evil, and punish the former and the latter, if the queen mother is here, I guess I don't want to lose my sense of proportion because of such things and hurt the harmony of father and daughter, right? ”
Princess Pingyang looked at Xue Lang silently and said nothing. Xue Lang looked at Princess Pingyang gently, gave her time to think, and said in a low voice: "The more you face the people close to you, the more you must be calm when you encounter something, don't let go of your emotions because of impulsiveness, and do things that you will regret in the future, people's hearts are a complicated thing, they will be strong in the face of outsiders, and they may be strong in the face of people close to them, they may be fragile, and no one can say clearly." So, I hope Jianling can remember that it was someone close to you, before making any decisions, saying anything, and thinking about it. Good no good? ”
Princess Pingyang still didn't speak, but, just now, her calm and somewhat depressed expression fluctuated slightly, she took two steps closer, looked up at Xue Lang, her eyes were so deep that they seemed to engrave him into the depths of her heart, and after a long time, she exhaled a breath lightly and long, as if she sighed for a long time: "My young yang, why are you so ......?"
The words didn't speak, the voice gradually fell, his eyes burst with strong affection, and he looked at Xue Lang. Xue Lang didn't know: "What's wrong?" ”
Princess Pingyang sighed again, took a step back, opened some distance between the two, raised her hand to touch his face, and said, "Under the sky, there is Xue Lang!" Why? ”
When Xue Lang heard this, he couldn't help laughing: "The talented girl Xie Daoyun said what her family husband and king Ning Zhi said, I still know." Fortunately, there are no outsiders in this courtyard now, otherwise future generations will read the history books in the future and see Princess Pingyang of Anguo also say the same thing about her concubine, then I will have a lot of fun! ”
Princess Pingyang raised her eyebrows: "Do you also care about the name behind you?" ”
Xue Lang shrugged his shoulders and replied: "Originally, I didn't care too much, but when I think of you and my descendants in the future, when I go out, others will ask him, where are your ancestors." As soon as my descendants reported my name, others heard it, oh, it turned out that under the world, there was a descendant of Xue Lang's Xue Lang! It would be bad if my children and grandchildren felt ashamed and came back and complained about my tablet in pieces. ”
This is also a wonderful idea! Princess Pingyang scolded with a smile: "Nonsense! ”
Xue Lang smiled: "This is a very likely thing. Therefore, today's sentence must be remembered not to be passed on, we must be responsible ancestors for our children and grandchildren. ”
Princess Pingyang smiled, pulled Xue Lang over to sit down on the stool beside her, supported her cheeks with her hands, and looked at Xue Lang with a smile, her eyes thoughtful: "I have always felt surprised, why is there such a person as Youyang in the world?" ”
Xue Lang looked himself up and down, touched his face, and asked curiously, "Where am I strange?" ”
Princess Pingyang said: "Look at Youyang acting, not a person who is not sophisticated and dustless, looking at the words that Youyang persuaded me just now, it is also transparent to the world, but you can see that Youyang treats me, but it is pure and warm, a piece of sincerity, almost I have no power to resist." Why? ”
It turned out to be this. Xue Lang thought for a while and said, "It's probably the origin of family learning." ”
"Family Origins?"
Xue Lang nodded with a reminiscence: "Yes!" As for my mother, she is not a very reliable person, even if I am my own son, speaking of my mother, I have to say that my mother's advantages are pitiful compared to her disadvantages, speaking of which, even Xue Qing was much more reliable than her when she was ten years old. My father was almost always alone in the house, and my mother was able to take care of herself. When I first entered junior high school, I was about thirteen or fourteen years old, and when I saw that my father was so tired, I couldn't help but ask him why he was willing to live such a life and what he liked about his mother. ”
"What did my father-in-law say?"
Xue Lang smiled with a look of nostalgia on his face: "My father first beat me up on the grounds that I didn't respect my mother. ”
Princess Pingyang was stunned and asked, "Then what?" ”
Xue Lang said: "I told my father after beating me, because it was the person he liked, the wife he chose." If you like someone, you must not only like her advantages, but also tolerate her shortcomings, if you only like the advantages and refuse to accept the shortcomings, then no matter how much you love your partner, life will not go on, and no one is perfect. My father said that whether it is a partner or a friend, we should treat others more and less on their weaknesses. As long as it is not something irreconcilable and touches the bottom line of principles, then you might as well be broad-minded and tolerant, so that you can live a relaxed and happy life. If you only stare at it all day long, then there is no one to accompany you in the world, how lonely and lonely your life should be. ”
Princess Pingyang praised: "My father-in-law is a wise elder worthy of respect! ”
Speaking of his father, Xue Lang looked nostalgic and adoring, nodded and said: "Yes, although my father has not made any great achievements, in my heart, he has always been a good father, a good husband, a great person, and an example in my life!" ”
Princess Pingyang nodded, her expression thoughtful, and after a long while, she said, "If someone claims to be the abbot of the country, I will treat it carefully." ”
Xue Lang nodded happily
Pity his emotional intelligence, trying to persuade Princess Pingyang is an epic task for him, and the difficulty is not a little bit.
He could only figure out the psychology of the saint by comparing the cases of remarriage at the age of middle-aged and elderly people in later generations, and then racked his brains to remind and comfort Princess Pingyang from his own examples. In later generations, I have seen a lot of conflicts between parents and children after remarriage. What's more, the saint is not an ordinary parent, on top of his parents' identity, he is still the emperor of the Tang Dynasty, treating such a father, of course, there are more problems to consider, and his thoughts also need to be more comprehensive, calm and rational are always better than impulsive!
Calm and rational, for the first family of Datang, is actually a kind of preservation, the preservation of the relationship between father and daughter.
However, Xue Lang forgot that he persuaded Princess Pingyang here, but the saint and Queen Taimu are not just such a child as Princess Pingyang, and they will always come!