Chapter 475: Self-Actualization

Yusuke Inoue quickly made a plan for the wedding ceremony of Mu Tianyu and Zhang Letong. Pen × fun × Pavilion www. biquge。 info

He took the plan and found Zhang Lejin to report.

After reading it carefully, Zhang Lejin said to Inoue Yusuke: "Yusuke, I didn't expect you to do it so meticulously, it's just a planning book." There are a few details in particular that I think are good. ”

"Thank you for this recognition. Although we used to be classmates, you are always ahead of everything and so you are my beacon and I should do this for you! ”

"Inoue-kun, that's so polite."

Zhang Lejin really likes this plan. Of course, Yusuke Inoue is a world-class MBA. In addition, he fully listened to Kazumi Yuda's revision opinions and suggestions.

Kazumi Amada also has an MBA from the University of Tokyo, and she is not comparable to ordinary master's students.

Therefore, this plan, first of all, there is no problem at all in Zhang Lejin.

Inoue Yusuke is also very happy, he knows that the person who makes the plan will never be "smart" to make the plan, and he was still waiting for Zhang Lejin to put forward some suggestions for improvement.

Unexpectedly, Zhang Lejin not only did not put forward any opinions, but also invited him to meet Mu's mother together.

Yusuke Inoue was really overjoyed at this time. He was even more sure that he loved Kazumi Amada. At the beginning, the plan he came up with was criticized by Kazumi Yuda in terms of concept. Although Kazumi Amada spoke very tactfully, Yusuke Inoue knew that she was right.

Even if he couldn't figure out a lot of places, why Kazumi Amada had to be so modified.

But he intuitively thought that Kazumi Amada's opinion should be listened to.

Now that he thinks about it, it's not whether Kazumi Amada's opinion is correct or not, but that he has always insisted on his own opinions, why didn't he hesitate to listen to her opinion completely?

That's everything he identified with her from the bottom of his heart, with her. That's how he really loves her.

He thought of Mu Tianyu again, when they first met, he had just graduated from Harvard Business School and returned to China with an enviable MBA. At that time, Mu Tianyu was just a graduate student of an unknown school, and he went to the University of Tokyo as a visiting scholar.

But now, because of the support of Kazumi Yuda behind him, Mu Tianyu is now a doctor at the University of Tokyo, with the title of full professor and a military rank at the division level. Whether in terms of academic level, social reputation and status, he can no longer speak with Mu Tianyu.

There is an old Chinese saying, which is also regarded as a classic in Japan: "A successful man must have a successful woman behind him." ”

Kazumi Amada is like this, a woman who can make a man successful.

Before, Inoue Yusuke probably thought that he was very successful now. He is richer than Mu Tianyu, and he lives a richer life than Mu Tianyu.

But now, with an MBA from Harvard Business School, he's no longer just an ordinary person who thinks about food and clothing.

He must have remembered the world psychology master Abraham Maslow's hierarchy of needs at this time.

This theory is also the basis of many theories of Harvard business, and he has long been well aware of it.

Maslow's theory divides needs into five categories: physiological needs, safety needs, love and belonging, esteem and self-actualization.

These five types of needs are arranged from the lower level to the higher level.

That is, whether a person is successful or not, at different levels, the definition of content is different.

Ordinary people at the bottom of the society, perhaps the biggest dream in their lives is to be able to "eat meat in large chunks", and when the dream is realized, he will feel that he is very successful.

And people in the middle and upper echelons of society, what they probably need most is people's respect for him. Yusuke Inoue felt to himself that he should be at this level.

Therefore, his success is far from reaching Mu Tianyu's current level of self-realization.

Self-realization is the highest level of demand, including the need for the highest state of life of truth, goodness and beauty, so the first four needs can be satisfied, and the highest level of needs can be produced one after another. As such, it is a derivative need such as self-actualization, fulfillment of potential, etc.

Actually, Yusuke Inoue only now understands that it is very late.

In the past 10 years, Mu Tianyu has saved countless lives and honored countless people, and his fearless heroism has long been admired by the public. His contribution to society is far from what a rich second generation like Yusuke Inoue can imagine, let alone compare.

Mu Tianyu led the eagle to surpass himself, give full play to his potential, and complete one seemingly impossible task after another.

That's even a higher-level need that goes beyond the level of self-actualization.

For the first time, Inoue Yusuke felt that the basic theories he had studied had a deeper understanding in Jiangcheng.

It's all thanks to Kazumi Amada, it's good that he can be with her, and he wants to be with her for the rest of his life.

Zhang Lejin looked at Inoue Yusuke who seemed to be in a state of confusion, didn't bother him, waited for a while, checked a few more data, and then said to him: "Yusuke, let's go to Mu's mother together?" ”

"Oh," Inoue Yusuke heard Zhang Lejin speak, and hurriedly responded: "Okay, good! ”

Zhang Lejin first called Mu's mother, explaining his intentions, and hoped to visit him to talk about the wedding.

When Mother Mu heard this, she immediately happily agreed: "Okay! Lekin, if you don't come again, I'm going to look for you. Although they are engaged, the time is not short, and Xiaoyu will be 28 soon, and he should have gotten married a long time ago. ”

"Yes, Auntie. I also blame me for being afraid that I am not sensible and unruly. Auntie said this, I was relieved, I will be there soon, and I will ask you when I arrive! ”

"Okay, LG, stay safe on the road."

"Well, Auntie don't worry."

Zhang Lejin hung up the phone and went to Mu Tianyu's house with Yusuke Inoue.

Mu's mother, Li Yanping, was very happy when she received a call from Zhang Lejin.

Thinking about it, if I wait for my son to think about arranging the wedding, I'm afraid it won't be the Year of the Monkey!

In fact, after Mu Tianyu was discharged from the hospital ahead of schedule, he was busy preparing for a hearing. Originally, under his leadership, everyone initiated a request for a hearing.

Then they didn't have time to conduct expert consultations, hold thematic seminars, and refine the response to the hearings as planned.

Mu Tianyu was appointed to work in the Jiangcheng Fire Detachment.

He is now familiar with the new leadership position and doing his new job well; While taking time, I continued to follow the progress of the hearing.

He himself must have had no intention of holding a wedding.

In Mu Tianyu's original idea, he might travel and get married like his good brother Jin Chen.

However, Mu's mother would not let her son get married so hastily. Not only did she think that her son should have a decent wedding; She was still thinking in her heart that she wanted to give Zhang Letong, her daughter-in-law, a decent wedding.

She is very grateful to Le Tong for being able to block the bullet for her son.

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