(a)

The negotiations between us and my husband and wife continued.

I said, "Since we've all gotten to this point, and we're only staying together because of our daughter, we might as well be open." ”

I said, "I don't hate you, I don't want to take revenge on you, and I know what you're doing outside." I'm not going to interfere with you. I've never asked for your money either. I never even had such an idea. Ask yourself, 'What have I plotted against you?' Whether it's your money, or status, or relationships? When I married you, I was completely unutilitarian. You know this better than anyone else. ”

He gave me a gloomy look, assessing how much I knew about his affairs outside, and whether I was blackmailing him. He didn't speak, but he didn't contradict me either.

I said, "I did this completely to save the last effort of Kaohsiung's life, to help orphans and widows." It's nothing to do with you, and there's no trap for you. If you're willing to help, you'll be paid fairly and reasonably for your cooperation. ”

I said, "It's not a family dispute, it's just a business." You don't have to get involved in emotional grievances. We weren't enemies of each other before we met, and I didn't hurt you since we got married. Our daughter was lovely. I hope that she can live with her biological father until she becomes an adult and becomes independent. If there is no love between us, at least we can be ordinary friends again. If a friend can't either, at least be a stranger. ”

I said, "Entanglement and hatred between each other are superfluous. It will make each other unable to return to a quiet and happy life. If you keep hating me and want to take revenge on me, you yourself will be dragged down and imprisoned by hatred. You won't be happy either. ”

I said, "I'm not going to make you lose money in this deal." This asset has nothing to do with you, and you can have the right to sign it entirely because I married you voluntarily and did not do prenuptial notarization without any precautions. ”

(b)

He said, "Hmph." Speak like a saint. This is what you do best. ”

I said, "Think about it." ”

He looked at the contents of the document again. He threw the papers on the table.

"If it's a business, we'll talk about business," he said. I can put aside emotional grievances, and I'm not such an eyeless person. I hate getting entangled with women. ”

I said, "You can prescribe conditions." ”

He said: "You answer me first, what is the relationship between you and Kaohsiung?" Why would you rather die than save this mess he left behind? Have you considered Ann? “

I said, "Kaohsiung and I are good friends who grew up together. Other than that, there is no improper relationship. I've never thought of him as a man or a woman. We've never done anything to do anything wrong. After marriage, you are my only sexual partner. ”

I said, "I still have a job at a magazine, and even if I don't have this asset, I can fulfill my obligations as a mother to my daughter, so that she can live a comfortable life without affecting her future." Managing this asset does not necessarily guarantee her future. After all, the global environment is like this, and no one can guarantee that the assets under their name will continue to grow many years later, and it may disappear before Ann reaches adulthood. An empire as large as Kaohsiung is not immune. It's safer to sell it for cash when it's at its healthiest. ”

He looked me up and down for a moment.

He said, "Well, now, you listen to my terms, there is no room for bargaining." You are not allowed to bargain with me. If you promise, I'll sign it, and if you don't, take it back, and don't mention it to me again. ”

He said: "I am not a mean person, after all, you are Ann's biological mother, my legal wife, I will not fall into the trap for you, my demands are very reasonable." ”

I said, "Please." ”

He said: "First, I don't need you to give me 40% of the sale proceeds, you give me 20%, this is the cooperation I deserve, and I don't plan to take advantage of you as a woman." In addition, give 25% of the proceeds to help Ann set up a trust fund, which can be regarded as making up for the financial losses that you may have caused her as a mother. Can you agree? ”

I nodded, and I said, "Yes." Deal. ”

"Second, let's notarize the property now," he said. lest I encounter the same thing in the future, and I will have to come and ask for your cooperation, as you did. I don't want to do that kind of thing. We cut off the property on this. ”

I nodded and said, "Yes." Deal. ”

It's something that happens sooner or later anyway.

He said, "Okay." It's fun! ”

"The last condition," he said. You cannot make a will and make our daughter the first or only designated heir to your property. You have to make a will stating that I am the first in line of your property and that all the beneficiaries of the life insurance will be changed to me. I will guarantee my daughter's life. I also took care of your parents' inheritance interests. ”

I said, "Okay." ”

He said: "You must not interfere with my actions in the future, and you must not make statements that are detrimental to my legal marriage." Both for the daughter, and in the public. Of course, fair trade, and I don't comment on your life. ”

I nodded and said, "Yes." ”

The relationship between husband and wife has come to such a point, which is really sad. However, it is not the saddest. If there has to be such an ending, I would like it to be the current transactional ending.

He's not a good husband, but he's a good business partner to deal with.

He said, "Good. You are a wise, calm and decisive woman. I appreciate this even though I'm not interested in you anymore. ”

"It's a pleasure to do business with you," he said. Finally, our existing dwellings have to be completely divided into me. ”

I said, "No problem. "I don't want to live in a house full of memories and traces of failed marriages.

"You can keep those gifts like jewelry that my family gave you when they got married," he said. ”

I said, "Half of Windermere's house, completely divided for me." ”

He said, "It's all said, you can't bargain." ”

I said, "This was transferred to me by Kaohsiung." I have enough documents and formalities to prove that this property has nothing to do with you. Even if the court decides, you won't get the title. I want this property right only for the convenience of taking care of his bereaved family, and I have no other intentions, I hope you will fulfill it together. After all, we have been husband and wife for so many years. ”

He thought for a moment and said, "Okay, give me an extra 5% of the sale proceeds, me and my daughter, 25% each, and you can get half of the cash and do what you want." He transfers the house to you, and he can give it all to you. ”

I held out my hand to him. I said, "Thank you." We make deals. ”

He looked at my outstretched hand and didn't try to shake it.

"Another cup of coffee," he said. This cup is already cold. ”

(c)

In this way, I lost half of my net worth in exchange for his signature authorization.

He should be very satisfied. He didn't do anything, he took so much.

But I don't have a problem with that.

Freedom of movement is the most priceless thing.

I hope he can do well, too.

I hope that, as mortal beings, we can all live well.