(a)

A life is long to say, and a life is short to think about.

We are all over 60 years old. A hundred-year-old life has passed more than half of it. When I think back to the past, I really feel that life is like a dream more and more strongly.

It was a time we had never dared to expect when we got married.

Because of the love of husband and wife and a healthy lifestyle, we are in good shape, there are not many wrinkles on our faces, our actions are still flexible and agile, and we still look energetic.

My father died peacefully at the age of 105 in a Hospice care hospital in Geneva. He had no illness at all, and died of natural causes due to the aging of his body organs.

When I rushed to hear the news, I saw him lying on the bed with a smile on his face, still wearing his reading glasses, and holding a large copy of Tagore's poetry book "The Birds", but he had stopped breathing for several hours.

In his old age, he was particularly fond of reading Tagore. The dean told me that everything was normal before my father died, and that there was no sign of fatigue or discomfort. The nurse also pushed the wheelchair that day, let him take a break by the lake, and played cards with other elderly people, and they told jokes together, and my father laughed very happily. After dinner, the nurse helped him take a shower and change into soft pajamas, and he said that he wanted to read a book for a while before going to sleep, so the nurse helped him leave a reading lamp. He leaned back on his pillow and read Tagore's poetry with gusto, smiling knowingly and sometimes admiringly. The nurse came to see him a few more times later and saw that he was still studying. The nurse also advised him not to read too late, and he nodded to the nurse with a smile, and he said to the nurse clearly: "Great works are like this, they can make people forget their own time and space." He said to the nurse, "If you have time, you should also read Tagore." The wisdom of the Orientals is truly remarkable. They know that we are part of nature, and nature is part of who we are. And we Westerners have always been very confused about this. We think that we are something other than nature, that human beings and nature are opposites, and that we should conquer each other. ”

When my father was over 100 years old and admitted to Anxiang Hospital, he got a lawyer's notarization and his will said that if there were signs of death, please do not send him to the hospital for electroshock resuscitation or put on a ventilator or something. Throughout his life, he was opposed to this treatment of dying patients who died of natural old age. He felt that this was against nature, and that it would do nothing but increase the suffering of the dying patient. He repeatedly told our family that his mind was completely clear and his will was completely free, and that this was his deliberate decision. He recorded and videotaped the speech, and invited several dignitaries and old friends who were also nobles to witness it. He also invited the TV station to do a live report. He hoped that all the people would be able to give him a natural and dignified death in accordance with his last wishes. And this is the last comfort and companionship that we want to provide to people.

My father used his own last moments to express his full understanding, unconditional approval and strong support for the cause of our couple's Amplify Fund and Amble Hospital.

This is the most valuable PSA for our cause.

In the last stage of his life, my father always told me that he used to think that successful career, good love, and good health were the most important blessings in life. But at this age, he has come to realize more and more: a peaceful and peaceful death in the end is the greatest blessing in life.

After bidding farewell to my old father, I myself entered the old age of my life, and I understood my father's words more and more.

He was a great father. I love him so much.

At my father's funeral, you were by my side.

You held my hand tightly and comforted me with tears of grief that I couldn't suppress.

My father is my only dear relative in the world. He watched me go through so many detours in life, and finally arrived at the harbor of happiness.

I am very pleased that I have finally arrived at the haven of happiness, which makes my father feel very relieved.

If our husband and wife did not have such like-mindedness, affection and beauty, our father would not have walked so peacefully.

The love of husband and wife is also the greatest filial piety to parents.

I'm ashamed that I didn't understand it so late and let my father worry about me for so many years.

(b)

After my father passed away, I accompanied you to Japan for a comprehensive health check-up.

The institute's physical examinations can go down to the cellular and genetic levels, and it is a global leader in the detection of early-stage cancers.

The results of the examination were unexpectedly optimistic.

The expert told us that both of us were so healthy that we couldn't be healthier. If natural aging is not considered a pathology, then we can almost say that every cell is perfectly normal, with no signs of unhealth.

You think it's incredible. Everyone else is getting sicker the more they live, but you seem to be growing in reverse. Your body cells are even better now than they were when you were younger.

The expert told us that it was clear that those days of poor health were completely a thing of the past for us.

He told you that with your current physical condition, it is entirely possible that you will live longer than my father.

He said to you, don't set a limit on your lifespan, life is infinite. The natural lifespan of human beings is much longer than most people think.

You smile and thank him for the good news.

You say that you have now deeply understood that if a person lives only for himself, his lifespan will be limited a lot. But if he lays down everything and lives for the good of the common people, every day, his life will be infinitely wide.

You say, why does God live longer than mortals? Because God has all people in His heart, not just Own. God, give Himself all to all people, not expect all to serve Him.

The experts were deeply impressed by your answer.

He said that he had seen many people here who wanted to live forever, who were rich and successful, but who were deeply afraid of death and had a deep attachment to what they had in this world.

He said that you were the most contemplative and relaxed about death he had ever met.

He said that things are often like this, people who understand the true meaning of life can live longer than their destined lifespan, and live longer than their destined lifespan.

He said that if there was anything scientific, there could be nothing more scientific than this.

Only those who have a thorough understanding of life can be free from the constraints of fate and become the master of fate.

You said to me, "My dear, I'm glad to be able to spend some more time with you this time." ”

The expert is surprised, and he says to you: "This time? ”

I smile and hold your hand, and I smile and nod to the expert.

I said, "Well, yes. This time. ”

That nectar path, we have finally found - about how to get out of the prison of fate.