Chapter 173: What's the problem with the child?

Zhang Xiaobao naturally didn't know that his father was also thinking about it, he, Wang Juan and Li Xun came to the outside of the tent where the child was crying, and said inside: "."

The sudden sound made the child inside stop crying, and after a few breaths, the cry sounded again, louder than before.

The farmer inside didn't know who was talking outside, but he knew that there were patrolling people, and it wouldn't be a wicked person, so he opened the tent and looked up, and immediately greeted: "It turned out to be the little boy and the little lady, come over so late, come in and rest quickly." ”

After all, Zhang Xiaobao's identity is different, the villagers are very respectful when they see it, the three of them entered the tent one after another, Zhang Xiaobao smelled it, there is no unpleasant smell here, and the brazier with smokeless charcoal is lit next to it, and it is not cold.

The child was placed on the thick mat, Zhang Xiaobao and Wang Juan both remembered that the child was only nine months old, and he was screaming with his mouth open, and the men in the family looked helpless.

"Come, let me hug the baby and tell me, why are you crying?" Wang Juan leaned over first, stretched out two hands, and prepared to put one hand on the back of the little baby, and the other hand on the crook of the little baby's legs.

Zhang Xiaobao hurriedly pulled Wang Juan away, "You can't hold the child like this, the child's waist is soft, and crying like this is even worse, look at me." ”

As he spoke, Zhang Xiaobao sat there on his knees, his right hand passed from under the child's arm, his hand happened to be placed under the armpit on the other side of the child, and his left hand was half-arched to support the little baby's buttocks, put the little baby on his lap, and said to Li Xun: "Go outside and get a lantern." ”

Li Xun didn't know what Zhang Xiaobao was going to do, turned around and went out, called a patrolman, asked for the lantern, and returned to the tent.

"Pick it on the baby's head, Juanjuan, you come and sit side by side with me, leaning out slightly, we will block behind him together, and use our bodies to block the places where he can see."

Zhang Xiaobao said a word to Li Xun, and arranged it for Juan Juan, and Wang Juan curiously followed Zhang Xiaobao's words.

"The two of you sit next to me and Juan Juan, not on both sides, but in front, let the little baby extend a person's position on both sides, you just stand in the way, don't worry about the front of the little baby's eyes."

Zhang Xiaobao instructed the couple again, and the two of them began to sit in the wrong place, and quickly changed it, and if someone else did this, they would have been angry a long time ago, but the little son of the main family hugged his son, and they felt happy.

After a few people made some arrangements, the little baby who was crying just now suddenly stopped his voice, his small mouth was slightly open, let Harazi flow down, blinked his big eyes, looked at the place in front of him, turned his head to look around, giggled twice, and put his two little hands on one of Zhang Xiaobao's arms and chest respectively.

"Xiaobao, why didn't he cry? I thought he was urinating or pulling, and he was crying when he was hungry, what's going on with you? Wang Juan felt that this thing was really amazing, and asked Zhang Xiaobao.

Zhang Xiaobao put his head next to the little baby's head, gently pushed it, and kissed the little baby again, the little baby laughed louder, and tilted his head to push Zhang Xiaobao, Zhang Xiaobao leaned over to top it, and the little baby smiled and tilted his head to Wang Juan.

This time Zhang Xiaobao explained: "It's actually very simple, just like there are people in our village who keep vigil and patrol, all of them know that there are light and dark sentinels next to them to protect, and they will sleep peacefully, and it is the same for arranging patrols here."

Adults know that they want to hint at themselves, but little babies don't know, as long as they find that the environment of their life has changed, the temperature has changed, they will feel uncomfortable, to be precise, fear, especially when there are no more people around them, there is no bright light, they will cry to seek these things they want.

The direction we stayed in just blocked the left and right and the back of the little baby, he knew that someone was there, not in front, narrowed his field of vision, he would feel that he could deal with the threat from the front, this is an instinct.

If there are few people in the house, if there is only one person, then lay a thick mat in the corner of the wall, let the back of the little baby lean against the cushion on the wall, and pull up two cloths or curtains that can block the side, the little baby can see the front, lean to the back, there is a shade around, light the lamp, when he is not hungry or peeing, he will not cry. ”

Zhang Xiaobao finished talking to Wang Juan about this, and kissed the baby again, and the little baby also laughed.

Wang Juan had never heard of such a thing, so he thought about it and said, "Then why is it that many times, as long as the child is breastfed, the child will not cry?" ”

"The child doesn't cry, not because the child is hungry and gets milk, it's because of the mother's body temperature and the mother's embrace, there are many children who don't go to suck milk at that time, they just want a kind of warmth, a feeling of being protected, if the child is not too afraid of emptiness, just hold it in his arms, kiss him, let him feel that he is not lonely, and the child will not cry.

But sometimes it's not enough to just embrace, you have to create a big atmosphere, just like now, Li Xun is standing there, we may not be able to see it, but children can feel it, very magical things, when people grow up, they will hide this instinct or deliberately change it. ”

Zhang Xiaobao has a lot of experience in this area, and after he became 'famous', he also specialized in research, just to make the children in the orphanage better.

Wang Juan shuddered when he heard Zhang Xiaobao say so mysterious, and said, "That means that adults are not like this?" But why are adults empty? ”

That illustrates that the sixth sense, inherited from genes, is a feeling that the oldest primitive people do not deliberately change, so they have a unique perception of danger, but we have to cultivate this feeling again when we are older, isn't it a little sad?

Why do children want to play in our straw passages? Why do adults like to decorate their homes? That's because we can't eliminate the information from our genes, we want to protect ourselves, we want to hide ourselves, and if you think about it, we always want to have a high wall behind an open place.

If you don't understand it yet, go and see an animal, such as a dog, when it is kept in a house, as soon as the temperature drops and there are fewer people in the house, it will run to the corner and stay, so that the surrounding scene can be mastered by itself. ”

When Zhang Xiaobao was talking, he kept covering the navel of the little baby with his free left hand, and said a few words to Wang Juan with his lips, and the little baby fell asleep with his eyes closed, one hand on Zhang Xiaobao's left hand, and one hand clenched into a small fist.

Wang Juan looked at the little baby, and then at Zhang Xiaobao, and felt very magical, it was as simple as that, the child stopped crying, it turned out that loneliness and inability to grasp were the most unbearable things.

The adults of the two children's families, seeing that the children were sleeping, also let go of their hearts, and when they heard the children crying and had no choice, they were worried.

"The little boy is powerful, and the main family is the main family, not comparable to us dealers." The child's father looked at his son, who was sleeping peacefully, and boasted.

Zhang Xiaobao carefully handed the child into the hands of the child's mother and said, "Hold the child and sleep at night." ”

Zhang Xiaobao was a little tired, when he held the child just now, his whole body was relaxed, so that the child was comfortable, he was still young, and he used to hold the child from the age of five.

In the grateful eyes of the husband and wife, the three of them walked out of the tent, Li Xun still held the lantern in his hand, shook it and said to Zhang Xiaobao: "You are so good, the child will stop crying when it is in your hands, what kind of ability is this?" I'll learn from now on. ”

"This is everyone's credit, come to me when you have a child crying, I'll teach you." Zhang Xiaobao thinks that he can come up with a textbook on baby care, otherwise, when the dealer sees what he and Wang Juan usually do, it is easy to follow along, so can he learn?

He and Wang Juan can feel the things in their bodies, adjust them reasonably, and exercise them, but other children can't, what do they know? The reason for the high mortality rate of children here is that there is little care for them, there is no systematic discipline, and even if the child can't speak, his every move is actually expressing his thoughts.

Wang Juan walked beside him, thinking about what happened just now, and said to Zhang Xiaobao: "Do you have something to do, otherwise why would you tell me so much detail?" I don't understand. ”

"It's okay, it's just nonsense, don't take it to heart." Zhang Xiaobao replied very naturally.

"Alright? People like you have to keep an eye on every move, and I believe it when others say it's okay, you, tell me quickly, what are you going to do? Of course, Wang Juan wouldn't believe Zhang Xiaobao's deliberately relaxed appearance.

"I'll know later, it's the same as making Sanshui County a county, and it has a direct relationship with the development of civilization." Zhang Xiaobao only revealed such a sentence.

Wang Juan lowered his head and began to ponder, but he couldn't think of the reason.

Li Xun didn't speak next to him, recalling what he had just seen, the child's own parents couldn't coax him, Zhang Xiaobao arranged it, and immediately laughed, it's really strange, could it be that master even teaches this?

"Xiaobao, the dock over there will start to be built tomorrow, why don't you come with me to have a look?" Li Xun, who hadn't thought clearly after thinking about it for a while, thought about the dock and asked Zhang Xiaobao and Wang Juan.

"Don't go, it's too far, it's in the state capital, it will take at least half a month from here to there, right?" Zhang Xiaobao estimated the distance, and his father went there to take the township tribute, and he walked for half a month.

"It's winter, now the road is good, take my car, my cart pulls the horse, whether you want to go, I'll ask you tomorrow." Li Xun still didn't give up.