In terms of kindness, from the father to the distant ancestors, the higher the push, the lighter it is; Morally speaking, starting from the distant ancestors, it is pushed down from generation to generation to the father's temple, which is the farther and heavier.

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The fastest and fastest novel, so it is human nature to love one's parents.

If you love your parents, you will inevitably respect your ancestors, respect your ancestors will inevitably respect the eldest son of the great sect, respect the eldest son of the great sect will inevitably unite the clansmen, unite the clansmen, unite the clansmen, unite the clansmen, unite the people, and if everything goes well, the etiquette will inevitably be beautiful, and the good manners will lead to the happiness of the whole world.

The Book of Songs says: King Wen's merits are great and breathtaking, and people will always miss him.

That's what it means.

(17) Shaoyi heard that the ancients met each other, if it is the first time to visit a gentleman, he must say: so-and-so would like to report the cheap life to your messenger.

Do not ask to see your master by name.

If you are visiting someone of the same status as yourself, you will say: "So-and-so has come to pay a visit."

It's rare to meet in ordinary times, just say: so-and-so really wants to inform you of the cheap name.

If you often meet, just say: so-and-so often trouble your communicator to report.

The blind man asked to be seen, and his speech was the same as that of people who rarely met in ordinary times.

When you go to the home of someone who has lost it, you should say: I am here to serve you together.

The underage children said, "I have come to listen to the call."

When you go to the house of the minister who has a funeral and ask for an appointment, you should say: I have come to listen to the dispatch of the governor of the Hou Mansion.

If the king is about to visit another country, if his subordinates want to give the king gold and jade, money, etc., he should humbly say: This is a little money for the horse raising of His Majesty's entourage.

If it is given to someone of equal status, you should say: Give a modest gift for your attendants.

His Majesty sent clothes to the monarch, and it should be said: The minister came to send some discarded clothes to the Jia people who were in charge of purchasing goods.

If it is to give clothes to a person of equal status, it should be said: I have come to give clothes to the deceased.

If it is a relative who has made great contributions or more, then there is no need to be polite, just send the clothes directly.

When His Majesty offered money to the King for the Monarch's funeral, it should be said: This is a gift of the field to the relevant departments.

Horses given to the deceased can enter the temple gates.

Horses and gifts given to the mourners for the funeral, as well as military chariots with large white flags, should not enter the temple gates.

After mourning, the person who gives the gift of the mourner should kneel and put the gift on the ground, and then the person who helped the mourner to receive the guest will pick it up from the ground and collect it, and the mourner will not accept it personally.

In general, it is more convenient for both parties to receive the gift to stand rather than kneel.

However, if you are born with a tall figure, you must take a kneeling position to give and receive gifts to avoid creating a condescending posture.

The guest has just entered the house, and the speaker should remind the host to say to the guest: Please go first.

When both the guests and the host have come to the table, the speaker says, "Please take a seat."

If the seat is laid indoors, only the most powerful or oldest person can take off his shoes on one side of the indoor mat after the guest opens the door, and everyone else takes off outside.

If there is already a senior sitting indoors, then later people have to take off their shoes outdoors.

If you ask each other about your tastes, ask: Do you eat a certain food regularly?

If you ask the other person about Taoism, you should say: Do you often study a certain aspect of learning?

Or: Is the foot an expert in a certain field?

Don't do things to make people doubt yourself, don't estimate the amount of other people's equipment, don't envy the rich and noble, and don't talk nonsense about other people's valuables.

Both indoor and outdoor cleaning are carried out, and only the area in front of the mat is cleaned.

Do not use a broom before cleaning, and hold a dustpan with your tongue to your chest.

You must be attentive when asking for divination.

Before divination, you should first ask yourself: I have come to ask for divination for the sake of public business?

Or is it for personal purposes?

If it is for the sake of public business, you can ask; For personal purposes, you can't ask.

You should not ask about the age of an elder who is higher than you in a title or seniority.

When you go to see the elder at your leisure, you don't need to convey the notice.

When you meet the elder on the road, if you are respected, you will come forward to say hello, and you will not be counted.

When you meet him on the road, don't ask him where he's going.

When you go to the elder's house to mourn, you must wait until you cry day and night, and don't break into the mourning alone.

When the elder is sitting and talking, if the elder does not speak, do not pick up the piano and play, do not draw on the ground, do not play with your fingers, and do not shake the fan.

If the elder is lying down, the inferior should kneel and speak for him.

When accompanying the elder to shoot arrows, ask the elder to take the arrows first, and then take four arrows again.

When accompanying the elder to throw the pot, you should hold the four arrows you want to throw in your hand, and you should not put them on the ground.

In archery and pitcher throwing, if the inferior person wins, the elder should not be given a penalty of wine as is usually done, but the cup should be washed, the wine should be poured and brought to his table for him to drink.

If the host and the guest are in a match and the guest loses, the host should also treat the guest with such courtesy.

Please eat the penalty drink, and do not use the special cup for eating the penalty drink.

Although the inferior person has the advantage when throwing the pot, he cannot follow the rules.

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