Chapter 101: It's better to take a wife than a concubine
Yang Wenhui fell in love with the daughter of a coppersmith and wanted to marry him and go home as his wife, but Li Ji and others resolutely supported him while ridiculing.
"We can't marry independently at this level, and we are still a ball? On the premise of taking care of your body, you can marry a few aunts, but you must choose a good wife, you can't have an IQ lower than 130, and it's best not to be a wife if you are tall less than 160. Otherwise you will regret it. I haven't found the girl I like so far because the requirements are relatively high. Among us, only Liu Xin married a few concubines, and everyone was basically single. I'm afraid it's impossible to hold a group marriage. We are all the rich generation with dead parents, cars and houses, and it is more difficult to get the ideal family life in this society where traditional marriage dominates. After all, people who are used to high-end cuisine have a hard time getting used to coarse bran pickles. It is difficult to start under 16 years old, and it is rare to see old girls older than 18 years old. It's not like it's a long delay. The hard work of the Nuo family business is also to be passed on to future generations, in case there are no descendants, wouldn't it be cheap for outsiders who are not related by blood, then it will fall big. ”
"The beauty of the country is the common hobby of all higher animals, and if there is only a territory, there is no female surname to breed offspring, no matter how powerful the species will die." Wu Qi felt that he was going to be numb every day when he taught anatomy and pharmacology, no medical master would do dozens of surgeries and take more than a dozen classes every day, and he couldn't even squeeze out the time to talk about his love for marrying a wife and having children.
"It's too difficult to find a woman whose age, height, skin color, appearance, IQ, and EQ all meet our needs and bottom line, and there are basically no unmarried old girls over 22 years old in the inland areas, and it seems that only ethnic minorities have such opportunities. Ethnic minority areas in Dali and many of the border areas may be able to find objects that meet our criteria. The maids we received were all modern beauties who were not in harmony with the mainstream, too tall (mostly immigrants of mixed race), too strong (unlike the daughters of wealthy ministers who did not give birth, and mostly worked on the family and farms, and were relatively healthy), and too ugly (not shaved eyebrows and dyed teeth, not disc face but goose egg face and other 'non-mainstream') are all opinions from their side, not ours. Aren't the concubines that Lao Liu looked for first also the daughters of a poor family? Girls from wealthy families basically do not conform to our aesthetics. ”
"This coppersmith's daughter looks good, figure, and thinks well in all aspects, if it weren't for Lao Yang's private visit to the market to investigate whether the goods are shoddy, she would not have met this beautiful cutie who helped the coppersmith's father send and receive goods. It would be better to raise her brother's family and take charge of the mining and non-ferrous metal industries in the southwest region to reduce our burden. Sun Chang reported every day to ask for more manpower, but there were too few trustworthy students and partners, and he was thinking about taking the route of relatives and engaging in family business regional agents every day.
"Lao Yang can be regarded as a positive result, and the brothers are still singles! In addition to Lao Liu, who gave birth to a child in the concubine's room, and Lao Yang, who is about to become a child, we still have the lifelong affairs of the Thirteenth Taibao to solve! Do you have any opinions? ”
"A few buddies have lifelong events to do, but there is no need to rush too much. Our life expectancy can reach at least 80 years, compared to the current average life expectancy of less than 50 years, and it is not a problem to marry a few years later. This beauty that Lao Yang fell in love with was just 18 years old, and she was considered to be white and rich, and in many tribes, the father of the senior coppersmith was also worth the middle and upper class of the workshop. It is said that the ancestor is still a big official in Houshu, and he should have a good family style, and he can be quite passable depending on the conversation and temperament of her brothers, and there should be no differences in common language or ideology after marriage. Anyway, we are all nouveau riche, and there should be no gap between different classes and the daughter of a craftsman. Liu Jiao had a headache when he thought of the quarrel between his uncle and aunt.
"It would be bad if you married a young lady from an aristocratic family, not to mention the disputes caused by the emphasis on traditional etiquette and customs, will a strong wife and maiden family cause common conflicts?" Zhao Shouzhong often goes in and out of the homes of high-ranking officials and magnates, and has seen many so-called ladies. Very few are truly happy, and most marriages are the product of political marriages. The poor wives who are in love with each other are as rare as giant pandas in many high-ranking official families from Jinshi.
In the Great Song Empire, there was also the custom of catching sons-in-law under the list, and many young talents were recruited as sons-in-law by powerful families, so the traversal basically could not see a model couple who really met the concept of traversal.
As the saying goes, 'the right person' has its reasonable surname. Love is a matter of two people, but marriage is a matter of two families. The family atmosphere, family lifestyle and culture are passed down from generation to generation in a family, and even if the surrounding environment changes, it will not change easily. If the two families have similar living habits and similar views on real things, they will have more common language in life, common happiness, mutual appreciation for a longer time, and lasting vitality of marriage. ”
Under normal circumstances, the concept of marriage is indeed in line with the actual environment in which the society lives. However, in some special cases, the worldly concept of the right person will forever separate the real fate.
A family match generally refers to a man and a woman who are of comparable social status and economic status and are suitable for marriage. I believe that in today's feudal society, this feudal hierarchy that tramples on personality must be reformed. The so-called door-to-door match refers to the fact that men and women have a common height of thought, mutual recognition of their outlook on life, values, and worldview, and similarities in living habits and consumption habits. In this way, couples who have a common language are more likely to enter into a happy marriage.
"It's all about distraction, how to get involved in the marriage event, it's the right thing for the brothers to take a concubine first and then marry a wife, I suspect that after the crossing, the brain's cortex about lust has been affected, and I have no interest in women, plus I am busy teaching and working every day, and I almost forget that I have this need." Wang Neng complained.
"yes, we really don't have anything to do with that! I deeply sympathize, although this phenomenon is a good thing for longevity and health, but reproduction cannot be ignored, otherwise it will not be a trip in vain? Lao Liu used to be a veteran of the flower bush known as the saint of livestock, but when he came here, he only accepted two concubines and gave birth to a boy and a girl. must have been affected, otherwise according to his previous surname, he would have to take at least ten or more concubines and give birth to seventeen or eighteen children. Gao Jing teased.
"Don't talk about others, don't you invite a bunch of beautiful women to be models and design assistants every day, don't you move a finger of them? There are even rumors that you like Longyang! This may be the treatment of lying guns. Liu Xin retorted.
"Okay, don't argue, we are indeed easy to attract the attention and discussion of students and partners in marriage and the affairs of men and women, speculation and rumors will definitely increase because we have not married for a long time, but we can't just find a woman to marry in order to quell the rumors. The woman of the partner family is definitely not good, and everyone understands the truth of not suffering from widowhood but unevenness. Learn from the royal family of the Great Song Empire, and specialize in picking on poor families! Anyway, there will be no opposition within us for teacher-student love, international marriage, lolicon and the like, right? ”
"Although we are all twenty-five or sixteen years old, but thanks to the impact of the crossing, the appearance looks a little rejuvenated, according to Lao Gao's laboratory tests, our bone age and cell activation are only about 17 years old, and the aging rate is twice as slow as that of normal people, that is, we may be able to live to 120 years later, all the data and physical examination results point to this conjecture. Therefore, even Zhao Shouzhong, a literary master, and the head of Fengyue have not ended the life of a single nobleman (really a nobleman with the status of a founding uncle). We, the diamond kings, are almost annoyed by the old friends who know the specific situation, and we receive invitations to blind dates all day long, otherwise we wouldn't have come to Dali, where there are not many people and acquaintances, to relax. Li Fei continued to complain.