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86_86661 Chen Zhong looked at Ma Cong, whose eyes were full of longing, and said, "This king asks you a word first, do you have anyone you like?" ”

Ma Cong looked at Chen Zhong suspiciously and said, "Lord Wang, are you making fun of Ma Cong?" ”

Chen Zhong didn't smile at all, and said seriously: "You see that you are so good, can you think about some things a little bigger, do you think this king is going to help you go on a blind date?" ”

Ma Cong was even more puzzled and said, "Then the prince asked, what do I mean if I have someone I like?" ”

Chen Zhong said: "You don't have to hide anything to answer the king's question, how can there be so many why?" ”

Ma Cong was a little embarrassed and said, "There is one I like." Pen @ fun @ pavilion wWw. ｂｉｑUｇE。 ｉｎｆｏ”

Chen Zhong asked: "Then has this person always been in your heart?" No matter how petty she is, you can tolerate her! ”

"Yes! Ma Cong has always pretended to be her in his heart? ”

Chen Zhong smiled faintly and said: "There is a saying that says that when you can tolerate one person in your heart, you can get married, then, when you can accommodate two people in your heart, do you know what will happen to you?" ”

Ma Cong looked at Chen Zhong in surprise and said, "This is impossible, there is only one her in my heart!" ”

Chen Zhong said: "This king said, you just have to do this, you still feel wronged!" Then the king told you that when you can fit two people in your heart, you can have children. ”

Ma Cong looked at Chen Zhong in astonishment, not knowing what Chen Zhong wanted to say.

Chen Zhong continued: "When you can accommodate more than three or more people in your heart, you can lead troops to fight. ”

Ma Cong didn't seem to immediately understand what Chen Zhong meant.

Chen Zhong said: "As a military commander, only if you are tolerant enough, you can have those soldiers who loyally follow you, which is the mind of an excellent general." Your psychology can fit your soldiers, and they will follow you without regrets. In this way, you will be able to use your mind to tell them what is the honor and responsibility of a soldier!

I have always remembered the words of General Napoleon, if I am given enough military medals and enough streamers, I will be able to lead my army to invincible, do you know what this means? ”

Ma Cong said, "What do you mean, Lord Wang? ”

"Napoleon told us that the treatment of your soldiers is not to use a command knife and a leather whip, and your high rank to force them to obey your command, but to tolerate them with a tolerant heart, to inspire their desire for honor with military medals, and to awaken the mission of a soldier with a vision that can make everyone crazy!"

"Lord Wang, what you said is really good, but if you practice it in reality, I can't tolerate those behaviors that I am extremely unaccustomed to." Ma Cong shook his head helplessly and said.

"I remember, we mentioned this when we were at the Yuantong Temple in Kunming, have you forgotten? You have forgotten the Western Wide-eyed Heavenly King, one of the four Heavenly Kings in the Temple of the Heavenly Kings, who holds a long snake with many changes in one hand and a jewel representing eternity in the other. This Buddha statue has a profound meaning, Major Ma Cong.

Actually, the Buddha has already answered your question, he told our sentient beings, we live in this world, there are all kinds of people, everyone's background, personality and pursuit are also different, this world is changing every day, so, a person, don't be too stubborn about your own opinions, learn to accept the world outside of you and learn to integrate into him.

There should be perseverance in life, but survival should be peaceful with the circumstances. Do you understand what comes your way? It's not that you give up the bottom line and blindly compromise, but don't expose your outlook on life and worldview strongly, and make a posture that others must accept your point of view, so that you won't end up being alone?

Every group of people has their own way of living, and every group of people has the character of each group, so why do you have to change others? Why not think differently and speak to them with curiosity and appreciation without violating principles? At that time, you may find that everyone has their own shining point. Isn't there a saying? Think of everyone as an angel, and you are God in their eyes, not a birdman.

If every cadet in the military academy is more literate and better than you, then there is no room for you to mix. So, when you see people who you think are worse than you, you should be happy, indicating that you are better.

It's not how good you are, it's because you have a reference that is a little worse than you, that you are great! This king doesn't believe it, you can't even figure this out as a talented student! You should thank them, not despise them. Otherwise, you will regress day by day, and you will even end up inferior to them.

Okay, that's all for the king, you can choose to escape now, go to the battlefield, you can also choose to face, try to accept people who are worse than you, this king hopes you don't be too conceited! ”

Ma Cong stood up, lowered his head embarrassedly and said: "The prince's words made Ma Cong extremely ashamed, it turns out that as a commander, there is still so much knowledge, Ma Cong is willing to work hard to learn, but Ma Cong is shallow."

However, Lord Wang, I still have something to ask you, I don't know how to communicate with General Li Chuang? He was a battle-hardened general, but why was he reluctant to accept military theories when I consulted with him? ”

Chen Zhong motioned for Ma Cong to sit down and said: "The so-called military theory, and even all theoretical things, have been summed up from practice, and then, some general laws have been used to summarize, and finally a written work has been formed for people to systematically study and refer to.

It is very important to learn theoretical things, but it does not mean that he will be able to solve all problems. Only by linking theory with practice and combining the two can we better solve practical problems, so the two are not separate, but complement each other.

Just as, you and General Li Chuang, you are like theory, General Li has a lot of military experience, if you have your own opinions, you will not be able to make better results. However, if you can combine your strengths, you will become a great force, so you must learn to communicate with General Lee.

Communication, you know, communication is to communicate heart-to-heart, not that I say you listen, or, you say, I listen. You have to remember that the communication skills of a good commander are very important, maybe in a word, better than thousands of troops! ”

Ma Cong was surprised that his knowledge was so scarce, and it seemed that he had heard these words with him for the first time, and it seemed that he still needed to learn a lot of things.

"Therefore, if you want to become a great general, you must be able to hold millions of soldiers in your chest!"

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