vs 73 A woman who hates to marry

"Pheasant": I hate and helpless

The husband has not returned from a long time of service, and the wife has no peace in her heart. Every morning, she could see the rooster flapping its wings and hear it clucking. At this point, the wife thinks of her husband. After serving for such a long time, I can neither see his people, nor hear his voice, and after thinking about it for a long time, my heart will become very tired.

The sun and the moon come and go, but the return of the husband is far away; Besides, there are thousands of mountains and rivers to block, how can the husband come back so easily? Born in troubled times, a woman only hopes that her husband can protect and take care of herself. The woman looked into the distance, sad, resentful, and helpless, and she hated the rulers for their lack of greed and recklessness, so that the blood of the men of the world was spilled on the battlefield, and thousands of families were tormented by separation. However, she can only be resentful, and the reality is so helpless.

The male pheasant flies in the air, and the wings are really comfortable. I'm missing him, and there's no news.

The male pheasant flies in the air, clucking up and down. It's just that person that makes my heart sad.

Look at the sun and moon, and miss it longer. The journey is too far, how can I go back to my hometown?

All these people don't know how to cultivate. If you are not greedy, how can you be wrong?

Páo: Fool, why don't you marry me

Love will make people full of joy, but in the process of waiting for love to blossom and bear fruit, it can make people anxious. At this time, this young woman was in such a joyful and anxious waiting.

In ancient marriages, the gourd was used to make drinking utensils, and the leaves of the gourd dried up, which was the time of the autumn marriage. The woman came to the Jishui ferry early in the morning, and saw that the ferry was already deep and difficult to wade, she looked at the other side, and kept urging her sweetheart in her heart: the water is shallow, you will carry your clothes and come over, and you will swim directly over when the water is deep, fool, what are you still hesitating about!

The sky has gradually brightened, the red sun rises above the water, the geese fly in the air, and the chirping of the geese seems so cheerful. But for the woman who was waiting, the anxiety in her heart not only did not dissolve, but deepened a little. You must know that the geese are flying south, predicting that winter is coming. According to the rules of the time, when the ice melted, no more weddings could be held. For when the frost falls, the housework that the women should do is basically completed, and the things that men and women marry also begin to be done; When the snow melts, the farming of silkworms begins, and the wedding ceremony stops.

Therefore, we should understand why the woman pays so much attention to Yan'er's southward flight, and even Yan'er seems to be urging, how can she not be in a hurry?

When the woman was in a hurry, a ferry boat came, and this boat must have come from the other side to carry passengers. The boatman must have noticed the woman's restlessness, so he greeted with concern: Come on board! It is impossible for the boatman to know that this woman is not in a hurry to cross the river, but why there is no sweetheart on the boat that is coming! The woman was shy and a little embarrassed and explained to the boatman: It's not that I'm in a hurry to cross the river, I'm waiting for a friend.

Savor it, how wonderful this kind of love is:

The gourd gourd has bitter leaves, and there is a deep ferry by the water. If it is deep, it will hang its clothes slowly, and if it is shallow, it will lift its skirt and walk quickly.

The water is vast and full, and the wild pheasants on the shore are crying happily. The axle of the rising water could not be immersed, and the sound of wild pheasant courtship was heard.

I also listened to the roar of the wild geese, and the dawn of the dawn dewed at dawn. If a man wants to marry a wife, he should take advantage of the river to get married.

The boatman waved frequently, and I will not fight when others cross the river. I don't fight when others cross the river, I wait quietly for lovers.

嗈 (yōng)

"Gu Feng": Hate is so gentle

The abandonment of his wife by a husband was a very common social problem at the time. This kind of thing often happens when the husband's circumstances change, he has enough wealth, and then he slowly becomes inattentive and abandons his wife. Then the woman then told her story and mood in a sad tone, in order to vent the sorrow in her heart, or to warn the world. Slowly, it became a culture.

This woman, who was abandoned by her husband, does not seem to have such a decisive and decisive personality, and when she recalls her past and tells her feelings, she is resentful but not angry, and she still seems so gentle.

The woman's husband was originally a poor farmer, but after marriage, it was through the joint efforts of the two of them, especially the hard work of the young wife, that life gradually improved. But this improvement in living conditions became the reason why her husband abandoned her. This negative man, not only does not care about his wife who is bad in trouble, but likes the new and hates the old, regards her as an enemy, deliberately finds a gap to find a fault, and even adds fists and kicks to his wife. Finally, on the day of her remarriage, she was kicked out of the house. This kind of thing is really sad for a woman who is single-minded and gives everything for a better life. She lamented: How can her husband be so ruthless and cold, has he forgotten so many years of life together through thick and thin?

The wind and rain in the sky came unexpectedly, just like the husband who was often angry for no reason, and this man threw away the radish rhizomes he had picked, and he was really blind, and regarded the treasure as waste. When a woman sees her husband marrying again, the bitterness in her heart is even more uncomfortable than eating bitter herbs raw. Although the water of the Jing River has become turbid because the water of the Wei River flows into the surface, the bottom of the water is still clear. Although the husband blindly blames his wife, the wife still does not change her original innocence. The woman complained: In the past, we encountered so many difficulties in our lives, and we all crossed the river by boat and shallow river, trying to solve them. You have even hated me, even hated me, and abused me. I'm still worried about you, I'm really looking at the wrong person!

The wife's grievances later slowly turned into beautiful poems:

The wind was blowing in the valley, and the clouds were full of rain flowing. We should work together to share our hearts, and we shouldn't be so angry and hurt people. Cranberries and radishes are picked, but the rhizomes are all polished. Don't break your old vows: "I will never forget you in life and death." ”

The footsteps on the way to the road were slow and staggering, and my heart was full of sadness and melancholy. Just ask for a few steps closer than far, who knows only to send me to the door. Who said that bitter vegetables taste hard to swallow, but I eat them like shepherd's cabbage sweet and fragrant. You are happily newly married, and you are as close as brothers.

The water is turbid due to the inflow of Wei water, but the bottom of the water is as clear as ever. Rejoice in your marriage, and do not slander me. Don't go into the fish dam I built, and don't touch the fishing basket I weaved. I can't see myself, so how can I take care of what will happen after I go?

It's like going to a deep river, using a raft or a boat to transition to and fro; It's like coming to a shallow stream, and then floating and swimming to the shore. In the past, whatever was at home, I did my best for you. Whenever a neighbor is in trouble, even if he crawls, he has to go to help.

If you can't take pity on me, forget it, but treat me as an enemy. Rejecting a piece of my kindness is like the goods can't be handed over. In the past, I lived in anxiety and poverty, and I shared your suffering. Now that my family has improved, you have treated me as a poison.

I prepare delicious food storage to survive the scarcity of winter. You are happily married, but you have overcome poverty with my savings. He added fists and kicks in a rough voice, and pressed the hard work on my shoulder. Regardless of the original affection, "only I am love" is really an empty dream.

"Decline": long-term labor that is unpopular with the people

Decline refers to the decline of nations and clans, and now also refers to the decline of things in general. Loved ones are serving outside, and for the family, how anxious their mood will be. It's getting late, and my loved ones are still working in the muddy environment, how distressing it is. Why is this happening? It's not the rulers who are not harmed, they don't know what these royal families are doing all day! In everyone's minds, the existence of the royal family is insignificant, but it is really infuriating that it has to work so hard for others!

It's dark, it's dark, why don't you go home yet? For they had to work for the affairs of the monarch, and they ran round and night in the dew and mud. It is to make the monarch more comfortable to enjoy. The common people were deeply oppressed by the rulers, working in the fields day and night, unable to return home, and miserable. If you complain for a long time, you will strengthen the people's determination to turn their back on this tyranny, and see how long you can rule like this!

It's dark, it's dark, why don't you go home yet? If it weren't for the king, why would it still be in the dew!

It's dark, it's dark, why don't you go home yet? If it weren't for the king, why would he still be in the mud!