360 Truth Revealed (7)
After Qin Zhongliang's daughter-in-law Wang Sister-in-law attended her cousin's wedding, the girl didn't let her come back that day, and after everything was cleaned up, she came to the bed where the sister-in-law Wang slept and sat down and talked about how her son's marriage went smoothly, and she was so happy that she couldn't keep her mouth shut, and then said to her niece with a long sigh: "The only thing I'm worried about is what to do with your second cousin Erqin?" ”
"What's so bothering you? The female should marry, it has been like this since ancient times, and now there are few feudal, she lets you be in charge, you and your uncle will ask people to see which village has a suitable in-law to marry! If she talks to someone herself, you and your family should not interfere with her. Now that it's fashionable to fall in love freely, if you block it, something really goes wrong, and it's too late to regret it! Don't do it, give her the opportunity to choose freely. There is a Zuo family in the northwest, and there is a family whose parents arranged their son's marriage, forcing their son not to let the girl who agrees to talk to him himself, and marrying a girl introduced by a relative as a daughter-in-law. The girl he talked to himself also hanged herself after hearing about it. The girl who married home went back to her parents' house the next day, running around like crazy, and she didn't know how to wear her clothes when she fell off. Sister-in-law Wang said to her aunt, "It's better to respect her own opinions, don't force her!" ”
"Everything is just for her to be the master of the house, introduced by several relatives, she is short, uneducated, and her family is poor, so she doesn't agree, and no one in our family says anything about her. As long as she is satisfied with the major events of her own life, who will force her and persecute her? There is really a three-long and two-short one who can regret dying! However, the one she talked about later also collapsed, and she made trouble at home all day long, not eating or drinking, and it was more difficult for her to eat a bowl of rice than to take medicine, which really saddened me! Sister-in-law Wang's girl said, "Niece, go back and think about it, do you have any suitable children for your cousin to introduce her to her, and I can send this girl away and I can live a quiet life for a few days!" Your cousin's daughter-in-law has also married, and she will be consumed like this as a sister, and no one will be used to it, and sooner or later she will cause trouble. ”
"Do you want to go back and think about it? I think there is a candidate in my heart, but the family conditions are average, I have long wanted to tell Erya, but I am worried that the conditions she asked for are too high to be met, so I have not dared to say it in my heart. Sister-in-law Wang said.
"Oops! What a coincidence, and my aunt thought of a piece! Or my niece! Tell me what the situation is, I'll tell Erqin to go! Erqin Niang couldn't wait to urge Sister-in-law Wang.
"The person I'm going to talk about, Erqin doesn't like it, I don't dare to say, because she hasn't said what kind of person she wants to find. However, I think people are honest people who live a life, my cousin can't stand the sin when she marries, and it will get better and better, but now the conditions are not very good, I haven't built a house, and I don't have much money, and a sister has been married, and only the mother and son are left to live. My son has just entered primary school and become a teacher, and an old mother is doing farm work in the team, and she can't survive or starve for a year. Sister-in-law Wang said to the girl.
"Last year, you went to teach in two elementary schools, which one are you talking about?" Erqin Niang asked.
"Anyway, I can only say one, not two." Sister-in-law Wang's words were interrupted by Erqinniang's words. "Dead girl, how can I marry a girl from two families? Can't anyone rush to keep whom? Let's say it's the one who goes to school early or the one who goes to school late! ”
"Actually, I think both of them are good, in order to be responsible for my cousin, I compared it again and again, and it is more appropriate to introduce my cousin to the person who entered the school early and called Qin Ming. The main thing is that others are honest, they are not afraid of hardships in anything, and their grades are good in school. Otherwise, with so many people taking the exam last year, would he have been able to get the first place? I heard that you also went to a girl to take the exam, how many did you get? Maybe they scored 150 points together, which is far worse than the two boys in my village! "Sister-in-law Wang tried her best to show off Qin Ming's strengths and strengths to satisfy her aunt.
"My little sister in the East Courtyard is so angry that she didn't get in! said that if she finishes high school and takes the exam, she can be admitted, and the two of your Zhuang are high school graduates? Erqin Niang asked Sister-in-law Wang.
"I don't know what they graduated. I heard them say that the exam was all about elementary school and junior high school, and there were no high school questions at all. Don't be embarrassed if you haven't taken the test, find a reason. No more than the two boys of my village can pass the test! When the teacher does not get much money is practical, but it shows that there is still the ability, if it is like the past to take the top prize in the exam, raise people, maybe they can really wear red and hang colors, return to their hometown, and glorify their ancestors! Sister-in-law Wang followed her aunt's words and continued.
Erqin Niang was a little anxious and said, "Okay, okay!" It doesn't matter which of them did well or who did badly, let's talk about the specific situation of the boy's family you want to introduce to your cousin! ”
"Didn't I say that? How can I say specifically! Do you want me to tell him which direction the pot door is facing, how many pairs of chopsticks, how many bowls, and what is placed in the corner of the wall? A family of two, a son and a mother. "Sister-in-law Wang is simple and straightforward.
"No?"
"Nope."
"You didn't even mention what his name was, how he behaved in the world, I really don't know how you told people about a few marriages before, how to be a matchmaker?" Erqin asked her niece.
"How do you become a matchmaker? It's simple, it's a matter of three words. Convey the situation of both men and women, get to know each other together, exchange opinions, and get married when they all agree, it's as simple as that. If one party disagrees, it is useless for you to break your leg and wear out your mouth. is like the matchmaker matchmaker sung in the play, tossing for the marriage of Zhang Sheng and Cui Yingying, tossing like this, what kind of 'red' is still beaten, I won't do it! Sister-in-law Wang seemed to remember her previous question again, and said, "His name is Qin Ming, he is very kind-hearted, and he never wants to take advantage of others." "Sister-in-law Wang thinks about what she said about Qin Ming earlier, why let me say it again. Let's just say it, say it again, my cousin really agreed, so she can't forget her son-in-law's name! ”
"Good boy! The mouth that speaks is like a knife, no wonder your husband listens to you, who can stand your grasp! At home, do the husband and wife talk like this, like a cannon? Wang's aunt said.
"It depends. Be gentle if you should be gentle, and be gentle if you shouldn't be gentle! Sister-in-law Wang said.
"Since the situation is like this, anyway, I have no opinion on being a mother, I'll let Erqin come over and you will talk about the situation again, and see what she thinks." Erqin Niang said to Sister-in-law Wang and walked out.
"That's fine. If it doesn't work, make a decision as soon as possible, people should mention it, and we should say it. Sister-in-law Wang said.