Chapter 10 How to be a man
When the newcomers here were about to go to the Zongmiao pilgrimage, in front of the courtyard of the Zongmiao pilgrimage, Zheng He and his five wives and concubines had already arrived there early to wait. Pen, fun, pavilion www. biquge。 info
How to say it in this era, although there may have been some rules on the inferiority of men and women, but in general, the inferiority of men and women is still not as obvious as in later generations.
This can be seen from the fact that women can also enter the temple. Even in the 21st century, in some places with strong concepts, many activities such as ancestor worship are forbidden for women to participate.
In this era, it is equivalent to the pre-Qin period before various ideologies and doctrines came out, and the evil Confucianism has not yet put forward the sentence "only women and villains are difficult to raise", which later evolved into the endorsement of "men are inferior to women" and "husbands are wives".
Fortunately, Qin Xin in the past was also a school grass of 'learning rich five cars', otherwise, Qin Xin really couldn't know the above.
In this era, before the Zhou Dynasty, there were also the Xia Dynasty and the Shang Dynasty, the Xia Dynasty was a typical maternal society, and then transitioned to the Shang Dynasty, and the marriage in the Shang Dynasty society was married by multiple fathers and multiple mothers, which was also a typical matrilineal clan society. It was not until the present Great Zhou Dynasty that there was a rule that male aristocrats could marry many concubines, but only one wife, and then entered the patrilineal clan society.
However, it is a pity that the history of the Xia Dynasty and the Shang Dynasty is too long, which is equivalent to what happened before Qin Xin and his wife's generation, so Qin Xin is not sure if it is the Xia Dynasty and the Shang Dynasty that he knows.
It is estimated that the waiting for others was a little boring, so in the temple, everyone also started talking slowly.
The first to break the silence of this waiting is Zhuang Mi, who has just been promoted to a wife.
Zhuang Mi smiled at Zheng Daodao: "Husband, although you let us get along with each other well, it seems that we still don't know each other's names and personalities. From a concubine to a wife, and there is no need to worry about whether there is a queen or whether she can lay eggs in the future, Zhuang Mi's heart is now a lot more relaxed and cheerful, and she feels that she can finally take a breath of relief, and asked with a smile. It can be seen that Zhuang Mi's rejection of Qin Xin's involvement is not repulsive, on the contrary, Qin Xin's arrival seems to have cured a certain piece of heart disease in her heart for many years.
And the third and fourth children, that is, Zheng Dan and Zheng Yu, when they heard Zhuang Mi say this, they immediately became curious about Qin Xin. It's just that what the two are curious about is different from Zhuang Mi, and what the two want to know more is whether this new son-in-law is difficult to get along with.
Qin Xin entered the Zheng family in the future, then he was also a member of the Zheng family, if everyone could get along well and be safe, then it would be fine, but the two of them were afraid, only Qin Xin said in the future, they didn't have the right to speak, then they probably had to be ready to fight.
Originally, Qin Xin was just a son-in-law, so the two of them were not afraid to tell the truth, but after listening to Zheng He's words this afternoon, they suddenly felt that this Qin Xin was definitely not ordinary. After all, being so valued by Zheng He, maybe they will have to look at Qin Xin's face in the future, which is the last thing they want to see happen.
Zheng He heard the three wives and concubines ask like this, and he also knew that the three of them were worried, after all, the most important thing in a family is to be kind.
So after Zheng He looked at the second child Zheng Sleeve and the eldest Zheng Ni also had the same look, Zheng Ni even seemed to be a little absent-minded, so he told everyone about his feelings about Qin Xin along the way.
"His name is Qin Xin, the son of the Qin family, and the queen of the scholars. He is quite filial and polite to others......"
Zheng He started from the beginning of meeting Qin Xin. And in order to save Qin Xin's face, Zheng He didn't talk about those who Qin Xin was cheating, and only used "quite talented" to pass it off. And after several wives and concubines heard it, soon, a very positive image also jumped in front of them.
"This feels very similar to my husband." After Zhuang Mi listened, he said to Zheng Daodao, "No wonder the husband attaches so much importance to him." ”
It was a small pat on the back of Zheng He's ass.
The third and fourth Zheng Dan and Zheng Yu bit their lips, obviously they also wanted to say the same, but they were preempted by Zhuang Mi.
However, Zheng He shook his head after listening to Zhuang Mi's words, and thought: "It would be nice if it really looked like it, just because I concealed a lot of his spills along the way." That's why you don't know who you really are here. "What can I say here, one will give you seriousness, and the other will give you impropriety, but when you think he is not serious and plan to give him up, he can say something to you that shocks you very much, and even makes you deafening. "Of course! These Zheng He would not say to his wives and concubines. Because once those things are said and not said well, it will make Qin Xin's image in the hearts of several people plummet. Now Zheng He values only Qin Xin's appearance, which can be regarded as not treating Meng Zheng badly, as well as Qin Xin's intelligence, in fact, as long as he inquires in the Don country where the Qin family was originally located, he knows that Qin Xin is still quite famous in the Don country. If you want to blame, it's to blame, Qin Xin is a concubine. Now in this world, even the sons of the princes, in order to avoid the disaster of seizing the heir, have to go to other countries, not to mention that Qin Xin is just the son of a scholar.
Zheng He also understands that Qin Xin is a smart person, so the ambitions he said, such as making his name famous all over the world, should be true. If Qin Xin can really be a good son-in-law of his Zheng family, even if he doesn't conform to the rules, what if he helps Qin Xin find an official position. But the premise is that Qin Xin must be a good son-in-law of the Zheng family, and don't do anything crooked about him.
In the middle of the court, under the bright moonlight and the interplay of torches, the image of a righteous gentleman, a dutiful son, and a polite son lingered in the minds of all the wives and concubines, but they didn't know how they would react when they really came into contact with Qin Xin. Anyway, when Qin Xin was fiddled with in the afternoon, he had already made plans. Since Zheng He forced him to enter the Zheng family, then he followed the shortcomings he told Zheng He before, such as being lazy to eat, and trying all the bad things anyway.
In fact, what Qin Xin didn't know was that Zheng He really didn't care much about being lazy and lazy. After all, although Zheng He and Qin Hao are both scholars, there will still be some gaps between scholars and scholars.
Scholars, also divided into sergeant, sergeant, corporal, etc., if Qin Hao is just a corporal, Lu is enough to cultivate on his behalf, then Zheng He is a sergeant, if according to the standard of a sergeant, then Zheng He's Gu Lu should be roughly four times that of Qin Hao, however, Zheng He is a little special. This sergeant of Zheng He does not take Gu Lu, and then many people may say, what does Zheng He use to support the Zheng family. Two words, mining.
Quarrying, also called 'caiyi' and 'food', originally referred to the fiefdom of the Qing doctor, and only the Qing doctor was qualified to have it, but there were also 'all the meritorious or meritorious people, and there were also quarries...... However, there are very few people who have mined land, and the number of miles has also been greatly reduced'.
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...... in front of the Zheng family's house
After listening to Zheng Rong say Meng Zheng so beautifully, in his heart, Qin Xin didn't want to believe it, but he glanced at it in a hurry just now...... It seems that there is a real possibility of that.
"! I'm looking forward to it! ”
"Qin Xin, can you not be so naïve, how can it be your turn to arch a good cabbage."
Qin Xin patted his face so that he could sober up. But Qin Xin also knew that the moment he stepped into the carriage by himself, he was actually unable to wake up. What I thought of in my heart was that if it was really a beauty, it didn't seem bad, at most, if it wasn't a beauty, he wouldn't be in a hole. He can't be tough, and the other party can't do anything with him. It is expected that the other party will not be the kind of terrible existence like a wolf or a tiger in forty or fifty.
At this moment, Qin Xin inexplicably thought that the twenty-year-old young man who paid 800 yuan to apply for male public relations thought that the service was all young and beautiful successful women, but in fact, after really going to work, he found that they were all rich women and aunts in their forties and fifties.