"Could it be that this thing forgot my deposit?" When Su You drank the fourth cup of tea, he couldn't sit still, after all, his official position was still bigger than Ouyang Xun, and when he came to him at this time, he still had a sense of superiority that he was not ashamed to ask, but was Ouyang Xun embarrassed?

After thinking about it, Su You finally stood up, and was about to brush his sleeves away, but saw Ouyang Xun trotting out all the way with an apologetic face.

"Yokona, what are you?"

"The tea in the house is good, I'm greedy for a cup for a while, and I want to go to make it convenient at this time, I don't know?" When Su You saw Ouyang come out, his anger subsided, and the fool would leave, if that was the case, wouldn't today's trip be in vain?

Su You went to the thatched house under the leadership of his subordinates and went through the motions, which can be regarded as giving himself a step.

Ouyang Xun naturally heard a little impatience from Su You's words just now, and when Su You came out after washing his hands, he stood up and apologized, "When I was stamping the seal just now, I found that there was a word that was written off, so I wanted to write a new one, but I didn't know that it was originally an overnight thing that couldn't even be satisfactory to write a few sheets, and then, I forgot that Brother Hengbo was still waiting for me, but fortunately, Hengbo's family had some eyesight, and knocked on my study door regardless of it." ”

"The old gentleman is so wasteful of sleep and food, he will definitely be able to compete with the two kings one day." Su You said seriously, in his heart, Ouyang Xun's achievements are no worse than Wang Xianzhi, after all, he created his own font, and Wang Xianzhi does not get rid of Wang Xizhi's trappings.

"It's old, and that's pretty much it." Ouyang Xun shook his head, there was no sadness on his face, as if he was not lamenting that he was old, but that his calligraphy had not been recognized by more people; sighed, and then he remembered that Su You was not specifically talking to him, so he said, "I don't know what Hengbo is undecided?" ”

"It's a little ashamed to say, aren't I going to marry the daughter of the general next month? But my ancestors are from the South China Sea Stream, and I'm not sure what kind of wedding I should use," Su You said with an embarrassed face, and said with a smile.

Ouyang Xun thought for a while, and then said, "There are only two kinds of popular weddings today, one is Han customs, which are lively and festive; The second is the Zhou ceremony, the atmosphere is just the opposite of the vulgar. ”

Su You suddenly realized, "I thought there was a distinction between Chinese customs and Hu customs." ”

Ouyang Xun nodded and said, "It can also be divided like this." In the Han custom wedding just mentioned, the word "Han" refers to time, that is to say, the wedding in "Zhou Li" has changed a little during the Han Dynasty. The Book of Rites. Zeng Ziwen recorded that the wedding regulations at that time were 'the house of the married woman, three nights without candles, and thoughts were separated; The house of the married woman is not happy for three days, and he thinks of his heirs'. In other words, the wedding at the weekly ceremony is not happy or celebrated, but focuses on the grace of the couple and the righteousness of the knot, and does not think that this is a noisy and noisy thing. ”

Su You nodded and continued to ask, "What about the Han wedding?" Do you mean that the Chinese custom and the current nonsense figure it out?"

Ouyang Xun smiled and said, "When the Zhou wedding arrived in the Han Dynasty, some changes took place, people were no longer satisfied with the old-fashioned and dull old-style wedding, and no longer stuck to the ancient precept of 'three days without fun', and began to do a big job, so that the wedding was covered with secular festive colors. Subsequently, this Han custom wedding in the Northern Wei Dynasty added festive juggling such as blowing, playing, singing and haunting the cave room, and this wedding was the 'Hu Vulgar Wedding'. ”

"It seems that the most popular thing now is this vulgar wedding" Su You shook his head, my worldview!

"Not necessarily, ordinary businessmen mostly use vulgar weddings, but real scholars are more inclined to Zhou Li."

"Well, this is called retro, which is called to achieve great national rejuvenation. In the vulgar wedding, there are no six rites stipulated in the "Book of Rites", right? Su You sighed, and he suddenly remembered a Hanfu wedding he had attended before, that wedding was quite interesting, it was closer to Guli in terms of tranquility and peace, and it was easier to accept than the noise of a Han wedding.

"There are also people who go through the Six Rites, but how many people know about the real Weekly Rites? All beings are stupid. Ouyang Xun looked like everyone was drunk and I was sober, shaking his head and sighing, the world is impermanent, and people's hearts are not ancient.

Su You smiled and said with a relaxed expression, "The procedures I went through before were all "Six Rites", doesn't it mean that you can choose which one you choose?" ”

Ouyang Xun said angrily, "You think of Jinshi Dengke, you don't think of yourself as a scholar, who else?" So you'd better choose the weekly gift. ”

Su You also thought about holding a Hanfu wedding when he got married, but when it came to the end, he was a little depressed, would he choose to be too quiet for this week's wedding? Obviously, Lai Yanbei doesn't know much about the development of weddings, and the Chinese wedding in her mouth is today's vulgarity? Or is it a weekly gift? Or was it originally the Han custom of the Han Dynasty?

Headaches

When Su Youzheng had no idea, he listened to Ouyang again, "The weekly wedding is good, you can see the low-key solemnity of the wedding from the dress alone, and it can best show the temperament of the scholar." ”

"Well, then I'll discuss it with her, by the way, can I ask you for a favor?" Su You frowned, although he didn't want to make the wedding high-end and high-grade, but he didn't think that it would be low-key and luxurious, a wedding is a wedding, it is just a ceremony, and it is ideal to set up two tables of banquets to inform the relatives of both parties.

But, who knows what the other party thinks?

The feeling of accommodating each other before getting married is really

"You want me to officiate your wedding, right? If you finally choose a weekly wedding, the old man will not give in; If you choose Hu system, I think it is easier to find a younger one to bring out the atmosphere. Ouyang Xun obviously does not have the consciousness of being inferior and light, and the meaning of this is obviously that if Su You chooses to have a lively wedding, then I'm sorry, you can.

Su You shook his head helplessly, and then left, and after arriving at home, he made up all kinds of documents for two hours, which gave him a further understanding of the Zhou wedding, and then he once again felt that the three views had been affected by Yan zhòng.

This kind of wedding is simple and simple, there is no such thing as the complicated hijab in the later generations, and the husband and wife "eat together, and eat together" hand in hand into the cave room; The bride and groom's dresses are not bright red, but dignified dark colors, and the whole ceremony is quiet and serene, without sadness.

There is no red hijab, no noisy room, not even a big banquet of guests, they are just members who come in advance, and the people who participate in the wedding banquet are nothing more than a few tables of family members close to their relatives.

"This wedding is also quiet, but I don't know what kind of Yanbei is referring to?" After Su You sighed, he still came to Laiyanbei's house again with this question, and this was the case that he once again violated Zhou etiquette.

"Transverse waves." Lai Yanbei was a little puzzled when he watched Su You leave with some worries at noon, and it was even more puzzled to see him come with a lot of worries in the afternoon.

"I miss you." Su You smiled, and then took Lai Yanbei's hand.

Shuang'er, the maid who came to Yanbei, also felt inexplicable when she saw Su You appear again, but as a maid, she still did a good job when to pour tea and when to leave.

"It's not serious, did you forget to explain something to me?" Lai Yanbei sat down in front of the coffee table with him and asked with a smile.

"That's not it, I was confused by your question in the morning, didn't you ask me, what kind of wedding are we going to have then?" Su You shook his head and said a little depressedly.

"It's true that I'm asking more, we are His Majesty's marriage, what should I do with this wedding, I still have to ask him, right?"

"This" Su You listened to Yanbei's correct explanation, but he was a little displeased, is this different from the marriage arranged by the leaders of some organizations in his era?

Marriage is a matter of two people, or just two families, but it is always a little annoying when it comes to leaders; Obviously, he forgot that his marriage with Lai Yanbei was also because of Yang Guang's marriage.

Thinking of the wedding, Su You was depressed, but he still smiled and asked Laiyanbeidao, "Then what are your wishes?" ”

"It's good to be quiet, by the way, I've made your wedding dress for you, do you want to try it?" Lai Yanbei replied to Su You quietly, and smiled again, although her female celebrity had just learned, but Su You's wedding dress was her first work after all.

Without waiting for Su You to nod, Lai Yanbei had already turned around briskly and went to the back room to get clothes, looking at her slender back, Su You's heart was suddenly filled with happiness again.

Sure enough, it was a dark dress, it seems that Lai Yanbei did not understand the so-called Han custom wedding, what she wanted was indeed a weekly wedding.

Su You put on the dress she made for herself under the service of coming to Yanbei, and she had mixed feelings for a while.

"How does it feel?" Lai Yanbei asked Su Youdao with a smile of anticipation.

"It feels like it's stressful." Su You explained honestly.

"Huh?" Lai Yanbei looked at Su You puzzled.

"I'm going to work in court clothes, and now I'm wearing a wedding dress, do I have to run errands?" Su You took Lai Yanbei into his arms as he spoke, and when Lai Yanbei screamed to break free from his embrace, he sighed helplessly and said, "It's a pity that I'm not ready." So it's stressful. ”

"You're mad at me." The little pink fist that came to Yanbei immediately landed on Su You's chest, and Su You didn't hide, just wrapped around her tightly.

"Before I came to you, I was still thinking about this wedding, and I always wanted to know what you thought of this wedding, but this is just a ceremony after all, if His Majesty wants to interfere with it, we don't have to worry about it."

"Your Majesty can help you, it's nothing more than finding an official from the Ministry of Rites or an official from Taichang Temple to preside over us, which can be regarded as giving you enough face, but I think that what he is doing now is for the great national rejuvenation, so he specially made this dress, in fact, the red hijab and the red clothes are also very happy?" Lai Yanbei said in a low voice in Su You's arms.

"So you're accommodating me? No, this is for us to accommodate your majesty together! Who got married? Su You smiled bitterly, just now he was just a ritual, how could he be angry with Yang Guang at this time?