125 Leave Your Virtues (5)
The funeral of the old man Qin Jide was simple and grand. It was as simple as when other old people in the countryside died, and only about 20 tables were opened. What is grand is not the participation or non-participation of the so-called big men in the brigades, communes, districts and counties, nor the contingent of filial sons and grandsons who are like a long snake in the vast white expanse, but the sincere nostalgia of many couples and families who have been inspired by the old people and fulfilled by the old people. The sincere confession of tear-jerking and crying is deeply moving. A kind of regret, a kind of reverence, a kind of painful goodbye that can not be retained, no less than any person's funeral. There is no ten-mile send-off, no eulogy to reminisce, but people's emotional outpouring and true confession are enough for an ordinary person! Life is not easy, he did not live in vain, and lived a worthwhile life! Live with dignity!
The bad news of the death of the old man Qin Jide is already known to the people of ten miles and eight towns. Zhilu is so wide, and so small, because his influence, his popularity, is not so wide, not so wide. The death of the old man Qin Jide made people regret and melancholy.
Who relieves sorrow from pain, and who relieves sorrow from sorrow? Burn a few pieces of paper for him! Send him some money! Bless him, pray for him, good people have a safe life, and good people will have good rewards. Karma, no one can violate it, and there is no escape.
After Qin Jide's death, at the insistence of his second son Qin Changsong, he was cremated and buried the next day. Those who should come came, and those who should not come, not for the sake of arrogance, nor for the sake of cheering, but an emotional drive, they had to come: not to come against their conscience. After all, the old man has run a lot for himself, said a lot of good things, fulfilled himself, and has his own today. Otherwise, life is unimaginable. A bachelor, a pair of parents with frost on their faces, is a mirror. What you look at in the mirror is yourself, not someone else. If you accept, you stay, and if you refuse, you return. It is not strange to have many people, and it is not rude to people. Go! Should go! Arrive! It should arrive! Just to have a family! That's why we have it today! It's time to go! It's time to arrive! Pray for the good guys and say goodbye to the good guys!
The memorial service is ongoing, and it is also the most reluctant, the children are reluctant to leave their relatives, but they have to face the reality that cannot be changed. A burst of pain, a burst of sourness, the relatives are also sad, but also tears; For the good guys, not for the bad guys; For the good, not for the wicked. Who doesn't shed tears? Who doesn't grieve? "Burn paper in no particular order, each with its own intentions!" The deacon shouted. Husbands and wives who had been perfected during the deceased old man's life rushed forward, people who had been guided by the old man when they were frustrated and confused came forward, people who had been helped when they were poor and destitute came forward, and people who had suffered setbacks and were discouraged and wanted to end their lives came forward. Speak to the good and confess to the good.
"Without your persuasion, where would I be today; Without your help, I would have become a dried fish in a dried fish shop; Without you, I really don't know where the road is going, and I really don't know what to do! Without you, I am still myself, how can there be children burning incense passed down from generation to generation? ”
"Tie'er, I'm Tie'er, without your old man's tireless work and persuasion, how could my father-in-law and mother-in-law agree to marry my baby daughter to me, who has nothing and is destitute?"
"I'm Yuye, I know now that it's right to marry Lian'er, it's not wrong, it's worth it! Thanks to you for waking up my parents, otherwise, there would be no bolt and no me! For the sake of bolting, I didn't think about food, didn't drink tea, and was tormented by love! Thanks to you, let's get together. Poverty can be changed, and the substitution of chaff for food shows how much the tethered child likes me! Do everything possible, rack your brains, and say something unpleasant, and Tie Er was also a helpless choice at that time! Let the past pass, and we will create a new life! ”
"I am the daughter-in-law of your nephew Qin Zhongliang, without your kind words in front of my parents, I may have passed by the infatuated lover, where is there so much happiness? Joyous? Thank you, my uncle! ”
"I'm a big guy, stunned, straight and straight, simple-minded and inflexible. I want to beat people when I look at the bully, and I want to say when I hear the words that I don't pay attention to, I was almost stupid by others, without your enlightenment, I don't know what the Tao would be like, how can I be like now? ”
"I am the tiger, perhaps it is providence, or God's arrangement, that I have the privilege of expressing and telling you while your remains are still alive. When I was led through the streets and criticized and struggled by others, I really wanted to die. Without your guidance and guidance, how could I have entered the university today! Contribute to the country and contribute to the people, I will engrave it in my heart, remember it in my mind, never erase it, and remember it for a long time! ”
"The virtues of the old man Qin Jide during his lifetime are famous in our radius of thirty miles and fifty miles, and they all admire and respect him, especially the people of Daqinzhuang who have received more favors from him, and there are endless words and feelings that cannot be described. But people cannot be resurrected after death, and they are buried in peace. Due to the time relationship, it is not early, relatives and friends who need to pay tribute in front of the spirit to express their hearts, just go to the spirit to pay respects, do not need to be too sad! The deacon, seeing that there were many people who had something to say, that the sun was nearing the western mountains, and that it was approaching dusk, and that he was afraid that he would not be buried before dark, said to them: "It is the greatest wish of the deceased to give the favor to those in need, and it is also your best remembrance of him!" Filial sons and grandsons come out of the hall to kneel and thank you! Dismantle the shed and lift the coffin! ”
"Ping!" After the sound of the filial son breaking the pot and leaving the virtue behind, the sons howled and burst into tears. The sixteen strong men who had already prepared the coffin lifted the coffin and went straight to the cemetery, and filled the cave with soil; Mourning relatives and friends picked up filial piety and wiped tears, and Changde returned home. Good people leave virtue and memory to future generations, and take away regrets and satisfaction!