Qin Changshun worked for Chen Weiqian for more than ten years before liberation, and returned home to marry a virtuous wife Chen Tairong after liberation. When Chen Tairong gave birth to Da Ling, the child's head was almost square, one edge after another, and he was worried that he would be ugly when he grew up, so he rubbed and rubbed it, and when he grew up, he finally had the same head shape as other children. Although the name is not very good, it is used to shouting since childhood. A few years later, I gave birth to a girl, and because I was born in autumn when the chrysanthemums were in full bloom, I took the name Qiu Ju. In the hearts of rural people, it doesn't matter what the name of the child is, it's just a symbol, as long as you can distinguish it, don't kittens and dogs also bark?

Qin Changshun's grandparents only gave birth to his father himself in his life, and his father gave birth to himself, and he and Tairong gave birth to a son and a daughter, but after the daughter got married, she was a member of the family, and she could only count on her son Da Ling in the end. But there are nearly thirty people in Da Ling, and no one has introduced him to anyone, so he can't help but hate Qin Dahai. That year, because the people around him were doing light work, Da Ling quarreled with him a few words unpleasantly, and even criticized an underage child for many times under the pretext of many battles, causing the original child who loved to talk and dance to become a silent, silent and depressed child. He doesn't expect the matchmaker to introduce the child to a beautiful object, as long as he can work and cook, give him a grandson and inherit the lineage. He has also asked relatives and friends to introduce a few to his son many times, but they all stopped and retreated because Da Ling had been criticized. The backwardness of Daqinzhuang's production and the influence of tethering children to feed grain with chaff made him unable to see hope in his later years, and he pretended to live with the family with a smile to reduce his son's psychological burden. Despite this, if the son does not stay home for a day, his heart disease will not be cured. He asked Zhongliang's daughter-in-law, Aunt Wang, to help solve it, but Aunt Wang said that there was no way; He asked Li Ergui to help solve it, and Li Ergui also had difficulties; He asked Ma Xinzheng to help solve it, although Ma Xinzheng didn't agree, but promised to find a suitable one for Da Leng, which brought a little hope to the old man. When Ma Xinzheng stepped into the door of his house not long after and said that he would exchange his daughter Qiu Ju for his son, he also disagreed, but fortunately, his daughter was willing to marry the younger brother who was her sister-in-law, so that Ma Xinzheng successfully fulfilled the family affair between the children of the two families. Da Ling is the elder brother, the woman is the sister, Qiu Ju is the younger sister, and the man is the younger brother, the talents, ages, and family situations of the two sides are not much different, and the matter is determined in this way, and the auspicious day is chosen to prepare for the marriage.

On the 12th day of the 11th lunar month in 1975, the two couples tied the knot, and the faces of Chang Shun and his wife showed a happy smile.

The sea does not have wind and Lang, and it is known that the size of Lang in the sea is determined by the size of the wind, so it is natural to know that the Lang flowers in the calm pond of Lang Road are caused by throwing stones. How can not throwing stones stir up a mille-feuille in a small pond? Xiaochi is still like this, and the marriage of Daqinzhuang Daling naturally caused many people, especially those older young people and their parents, to have waves in their thoughts.

"Da Ling turned out to be a lively and lovely child, so that the captain has been like a fool for so many years, usually don't say a word, I think I have become a fool, I didn't expect to have a daughter-in-law and look so shrewd and handsome!"

"That's it, people are in good spirits when they are happy!"

"Da Leng wasn't ugly in the first place, but you didn't pay attention. Today's dress looks even more handsome! ”

"If it weren't for his sister Qiu Ju agreeing to change marriages with him, would such a handsome girl be able to marry him?"

"Why not? What point is Da Leng sorry for her? If Qin Dahai hadn't been bored, maybe a girl who was like a flower would have entered the door? ”

"If you have the ability, don't exchange your sister-in-law for your daughter-in-law? I still don't have the ability! ”

"Who wants to do that? This team has produced this kind of people, nearly thirty people, no matter how they can marry one, the elder and the old man can be regarded as seeing their son marry a daughter-in-law, and they are dumbfounded when they die. ”

"On the day of the big day, what are you doing cursing people? What did people offend you about? ”

"A spell for ten years, gods and ghosts dare not go up. Uncle Chang Shun and Aunt Chen have a long life! ”

"Qin Dahai went to death to rectify the family, don't people also live a good life? If you have to spare others and spare others, why should you have no way to go, why should you take people to death like that? If he commits many acts of injustice, he will be killed, and he will not end well. ”

"Who can blame that? It's your own fault! ”

People think about it or say it, they have their own understandings, and there is not much criticism about helpless measures under special circumstances, but more sympathy and understanding, an expression and embodiment of sincerity and kindness.

"Hey!" Looking at Changshun and Tairong's joy in marrying their daughters-in-law, Qin Changgeng let out a long lament from the bottom of his heart, and there seemed to be a sadness of "feeling tears when I feel flowers, and hating other birds is frightening".

"Sleep, what do you think about turning around?" Chen Sujuan asked her husband.

"I don't want to do anything, I just can't sleep." Qin Changgeng said to his wife, "It's almost dawn, right?" ”

"Are you old and confused, or are you a baby crying at night, not knowing the way of day and night? The rooster hasn't crowed yet! Are you watching Da Ling get married and worrying about our son? The wife said.

Chang Gung pulled the lamp and lit a bag of cigarettes. "Can you not worry? Bao Lian is also twenty-seven or eighteen, and if he can't marry a daughter-in-law in two years, our family will be over in the future! Qin Changgeng said and sighed, he only cared about smoking, and the smoke filled the room.

The couple didn't say anything for a long time.

"What's the solution? You don't agree to the change of relatives. Chen Sujuan said a word, lying down as if she was asleep.

"I always thought that it was not appropriate to change parents, how could anyone be as compatible as Da Leng? If you think about it, Liu Erxia is a little darker, and she is about the same age as Baolian, but her brother is more than ten years older than our Yulian, with a pockmarked face, not as tall as a fourteen or fifteen-year-old child, and two thatched houses at home, don't say I don't agree, can you agree? Even if we agree, can the girl agree? His Liu Meinan's name is not bad, I think it is a waste of insulting this name. Can our girl take a fancy to him? Can our daughter live his life that is not human? Qin Changgeng, a man who has tears and does not flick, said these words almost with a cry, with tears hanging from the corners of his eyes.

Chen Sujuan couldn't cry, she cried into tears, and said: "My children are all the flesh that fell from my body, which of the ten fingers can bite without pain?" What do you say can be done now? ”

Qin Changgeng didn't speak again, and the couple thought in pain. For the sake of their son, for the sake of the continuation of the incense passed down from their ancestors, they decided to start working as their daughter.

The next night, Qin Changgeng went to Li Weizi Li Ergui's house to drink, and Chen Sujuan called her daughter to her house and said, "Yulian, do you think the Liu Erxia introduced to your brother by your second uncle can be worthy of your brother?" ”

"What is there to be sorry for? As long as the two of them have no opinion, they will get married! Anyway, you and Dad want Brother to get married right now. Yulian said.

"Yulian, my mother begs you today, whether your brother can get married depends on whether you, who are a sister, are willing to help your brother. If you are willing to help, your brother will be able to get married, and your father and I will have something to rely on in the future; If you don't want to help, your brother won't be able to get married, and our family will be finished. Chen Sujuan explained and begged for her daughter.

"What does his business have to do with me, I didn't say that I wouldn't let him get married." Yulian felt inexplicable.

"Didn't you see that our Zhuang Daling got married yesterday? He married the sister of his sister's man, and his sister married the younger brother of his daughter-in-law, wouldn't it be nice to change his relatives like this? No one suffers, no one takes advantage. Liu Erxia wants our two families to change relatives like this, I don't know if you want to? If you are willing, even if you help your brother and help our family; If you don't want your brother to get married, you won't be able to get married, and you will have to be a bachelor for the rest of your life. Chen Sujuan persuaded her daughter.

Yulian will completely understand this and say, "I won't change it." ”

Chen Sujuan said: "Girls are going to get married sooner or later, don't they all work to eat and have children wherever they go, listen to your mother's words, and come back with a daughter-in-law for your brother!" Mother will hurt you in the future. ”

"Mother, I'm still young, I won't change, and I won't marry!" The daughter threw herself into her mother's arms and cried.

"Girl, my good daughter, your mother has no way, I can't take this step if I have a line of road with your father······" Chen Sujuan hugged her daughter and cried, unable to speak any longer.

Chen Sujuan still made the original rice, the steamed buns were still those steamed buns, the dishes were still the same dishes, the people were still those people, and the steamed buns and rice were more leftover than one meal. Sometimes, the restoration is left there untouched, and the family is very calm on the surface, but in the heart you are worried about me, I am worried about you, no one can eat, no one can sleep well.