"Mom, why hasn't Dad come back yet?" Zhang Xian came back from school, and didn't see his father come home until late, feeling a little strange.

Although her father was very busy on weekdays, he always came home on time every day, and he was no exception.

Today's situation is a bit strange, and I don't know what's going on.

"Early this morning, our beverage companies across the country are urgently recovering the goods they sold before the emergency. I don't have time to ask about the specific situation, your father hasn't come back since he went out in the morning, and the phone call line has been busy, it seems that there is a big problem on the company's side!" Zhang Xian's mother looked worried.

"Why is this all of a sudden?" Zhang Xian was quite surprised, "Urgently recovering the goods sold, this kind of thing has never happened before!"

"Yes!" said Mrs. Zhang, "unless there is a big problem with our drinks, it will not be like this." ”

"What's wrong with drinks? Haven't they always been produced to the same standard?"

"I don't know," Mrs. Zhang sighed, "Your father is in charge of the company's problems, and I don't even ask." ”

"Oh!" Zhang Xian couldn't figure it out, so he simply stopped wasting brain cells and sat directly next to his mother, "Mom, Dad will handle the business anyway." I want to ask you something personal!"

"Anyway, it's the kid who is called Ren again, right?" Mrs. Zhang saw through her daughter's mind at a glance.

"His name is Ren Bufan!" Zhang Xian hugged his mother's arm and said in a coquettish tone, "Mom, don't you always say that men basically see one and love the other, but why does he just avoid me, and only that Su Tian in his eyes?"

"Looks like you really like that kid!" Mrs. Zhang sighed, "Like your father, this vision is really father and daughter." ”

"Mom~ Where do you think I'm not as good as Su Tian?"

"I haven't seen that girl named Su Tian again, how do you know?"

"That'...... I don't know why, he just doesn't want to see me, hides when he sees me, am I so annoying?"

Mrs. Zhang was helpless, "Daughter! I was married to your father, and I didn't know each other before we got married, and I didn't know each other until I got married, and I don't know if the relationship that I slowly cultivated after I got married." So I don't know you better than you do!"

Hearing this, Zhang Xian was obviously a little lost.

However, Mrs. Zhang quickly said: "Although I don't know much about this, there are a few points I want to mention. ”

"Mom, you say!" Zhang Xian hurriedly stared at his mother.

"First, you may never have noticed it yourself, in fact, your father and I have spoiled you since childhood, plus the family environment, you have a little bit of the temper of the eldest lady, and there are many things that are not familiar with the world. To put it mildly, there are some things you lack in common sense! This is true in normal life, let alone the emotional aspects that you have never been exposed to?"

Hearing this, Zhang Xian remembered his inexplicable actions near the rockery by the lake that day, and he didn't know if his brain was burned out, so he thought of stealing a kiss. As a result, not only did he not get in person, but he was directly pushed into the water by Ren Bufan. It seems that since then, he has been very unkind to himself, and his attitude has become even worse.

I suddenly felt that my mother's words were very reasonable, and I really lacked common sense in this regard.

It's useless to just regret it, what has already happened simply can't be rewinded.

Mrs. Zhang looked at her daughter and continued: "Second, although I haven't met Ren Bufan and his girlfriend, from your description during this time, I can be sure that the relationship between them is the best time. Although I don't have this experience, I often watch TV, and the conclusion I get from the TV series is that this time is the most difficult to insert between them, not to mention that the impression you give to the other party is not so good, and it is even more difficult!"

Zhang Xian nodded when he heard this, and his words were also very reasonable.

"Third, your father's birthday party is so noisy, and people's impression of you is even worse, so it's too late to hide from you!"

"Then what should I do?" Zhang Xian's face was full of sadness, and her mother's analysis was reasonable.

"Although there is a saying called 'women chasing men's compartment yarn', but the timing is not right, I think it is futile to do anything!" Mrs. Zhang thought carefully, "On the contrary, it may become more and more annoying to people, not to mention that with your personality and ignorance of the world, you will accidentally do more things that annoy him." ”

"Well, that's true. Zhang Xian sighed, "Every time I try to improve the relationship, it always has the opposite effect." I don't know what I'm doing wrong! Mom, what do you think I'm going to do?"

"Baby, do you really like that kid?" asked Mrs. Zhang softly.

"I don't know either!" Zhang Xian shook his head slightly, "But I don't know why, and I don't know when I started thinking about him in my heart, and when I hear the girls discussing him, I can't leave." I feel happy when I see him, and I feel bored when I don't see him. Seeing him stay intimate with Su Tian will make him feel very uncomfortable......"

"That's what you like, right?" Mrs. Zhang said, "I don't have such a situation with your father, so I can't understand your feelings, but in a situation like you in the TV series, I just like someone." ”

"But he doesn't like me at all!" Zhang Xian sighed, "What's more, as soon as Brother Hao intervened, he annoyed me even more!"

"Baby!" Mrs. Zhang touched her daughter's head distressedly, "Actually, your conditions are so good, there is nothing that boys don't like." It's just that the timing is wrong, and everything is wrong. ”

"Then what is the right thing to do?" Zhang Xian rested his head on his mother's shoulder.

"Your mother and I are not emotional experts, and I have never experienced this myself. I can only rely on my years of interacting with others and my experience in watching TV dramas, and I don't know if I am not in good spirits!" Mrs. Zhang said softly, "If you can succeed, your mother will naturally be happy." If you can't make it, then the two of you have no fate, there are so many good boys in the world, you will always meet the one you like in the future!"

"Well, whatever the result, I'm going to give it a try. Zhang Xian said.

"Okay, first of all, I can probably see a little bit of that kid's personality from the scenes you described to me every day before, and the scenes you saw on the day of the birthday party. Mrs. Zhang said seriously, "If you do what your father does, he will definitely not give in, and even hate our family, and by the way, he will have a worse impression of you." If you try to do something to him, or his little girlfriend, to secretly do something against them, such as being smart about the other person, not only will not end well, but may push the relationship more antagonistic. Second, he and his girlfriend have a good relationship, and no one can get involved at the moment, even if you want to get close to him, you have to think clearly about what identity you are and don't do superfluous things. At least make the interaction between the two of you more natural!"

"What are you going to do then?" Zhang Xian hurriedly asked.

"For the first point, it is to be sincere!"

"Sincerely?"

No matter what time you face him, you must not think too much about it, and do not use complicated thoughts to calculate. Instead, you should be very sincere and let him feel your sincerity!"

"Sincerely, sincerely?"

"It's from the heart, the most authentic side. Mrs. Zhang said softly, "A real person, others can't hate it." ”

"Real people ......" Zhang Xian silently remembered this sentence.

"Second, any purposeful behavior now causes discomfort to the other person. Mrs. Zhang continued, "So you have to cancel any purposeful behavior and appear by his side in the most natural way. For example, didn't you join the Calligraphy and Painting Association? It was just an opportunity to do your activities in the Calligraphy and Painting Association on weekdays, not to pester him as before, but to put your mind on learning this talent. ”

"But when he saw me in the Calligraphy and Painting Association, he basically didn't go. Zhang Xian said depressedly.

"Then you are in the Calligraphy and Painting Association, do you pay more attention to him than normal activities?"

"Hmmm......"

"Isn't that it?" said Mrs. Zhang, "first you have to let him go, and don't even care about his existence." When you are in the Calligraphy and Painting Association, you should study wholeheartedly and don't think about anything else. He can't avoid you all the time, and when he finds that he is no longer pestered by you, he will let his guard down. Even if you are in the same Calligraphy and Painting Association, the chance of avoiding you will gradually decrease. Slowly, you will even get used to it and let go of all your wariness. There will be no problem with each other, at least at the same time in the association. ”

"But what's the use of that?" Zhang Xian sighed.

"At least your current situation can be improved so that he doesn't reject you so much, right?" Mrs. Zhang said softly, "When he doesn't reject you, it's a big improvement in the first place." And then you become the most authentic person, I don't believe that in the activities of the association, two people do not intersect! Secondly, when you no longer show any interest in him and focus on other aspects, it is possible to arouse his curiosity and generate ideas about why you have changed this way. Once this idea is made, the situation can be reversed. Anything starts with curiosity. What is this called trying to capture?"

"I want to get away with it!"

"Yes, that's what it means!" Mrs. Zhang touched her daughter's head, "Baby, that's all Mom can think of, and I don't know if I can help you! ”

"Mom, thank you!" Zhang Xian hugged his mother tightly, "Your words feel very reasonable, maybe they can really work." I'll do what you say and see if I can make some changes. It's just that...... In case it's still the same......"

"If that's the case, it proves that there is no possibility between you and him!" said Mrs. Zhang, "and when the time comes, you should take a long-term view and not limit yourself to the present." Give up, don't hesitate! In fact, what if there is no love? I don't live the same life with your father? Sometimes, ordinary life is true, and everything else is false. ”

"Well, I remembered!" Zhang Xian nodded slightly, "Mom, I will do as you say and try to make a final effort." If I still fail, I will try to accept ......"