The "common people" of the army compound (xiii) (2)
Yao Shufen raised her voice and said to Chen Quanfu dissatisfied: "What do you think of me, can I make more demands on him than he can bear?" ”
Chen Quanfu saw that Yao Shufen was a little angry, and felt that he had said the wrong thing again, so he gently patted his cheek with one hand, and hurriedly said to her: "My mouth really deserves to be beaten, I know that you are a strong woman, you will not be greedy for enjoyment, let men provide for you, and you will not make unreasonable demands and make it difficult for men." Pen | fun | pavilion www. biquge。 info Someone once said that a woman can only be a princess if she relies on her parents; A woman can be a princess if she relies on a man; A woman can become a king on her own. Oh, that's wrong again, you are in a family kingdom, you will only be a queen, you will not be a king, you will not usurp power. Sister Yao, I am sometimes heartless and lungless, don't care about what you say inappropriately. ”
"Where are your hearts and lungs?"
"Maybe when I had appendicitis surgery last year, the doctors in the hospital secretly removed my organs."
Yao Shufen couldn't stop laughing, and said: "Since I agree to combine with Fei Aijun, I am ready to live a hard life in the future, some women marry men, first of all, depending on his social status and economic conditions, and some women in order to satisfy their material desires, they would rather be golden silk birds in other people's cages and roses in bottles, and let others raise them, I don't have that kind of conditions, and I don't have that kind of desire." Life is harder, there is nothing bad for me, just to lose weight. ”
"Sister Yao, don't lose weight anymore, otherwise the crocodile will be reduced to a gecko, and the python will be reduced to an earthworm, and we won't be able to recognize who you are." Chen Quanfu said with a smile.
Yao Shufen still has a lot of housework to do at night, and wants to seize the time to rest for a while at noon, seeing that Chen Quanfu has no intention of leaving, she said a few concluding words to him: "Xiao Chen, you are a young man with a good nature, there is a good space for development, listen to the words of the eldest sister, be more attentive in your career, be more rigorous in life, don't always say in front of others that the sky is too blue, the sea is too salty, the work is too tiring, life is too annoying, and you feel unsatisfactory in everything, in fact, your conditions are better than those of several other editors." , at least there are fewer economic worries. If a person chooses to be comfortable at the age when he can endure hardship the most, he must endure hardship at the age when he should be comfortable. You see Cui Dalin, in addition to doing his own business well, he also does some other things, and often publishes articles in newspapers and periodicals. He told me that it is not easy for a farmer's child to be able to gain a foothold in Beijing and find a stable job. He also said that he doesn't have much ability, nor does he have too high desires, and he is ready to read good books with peace of mind for the rest of his life, insist on doing good deeds, and be a good person all his life. I think it's the truth that he's talking from the bottom of his heart, oh, by the way, you don't understand the meaning of those words, because you don't have a heart. ”
"I don't have a heart or lungs, I don't want to live as hard as Dalin, I'm used to being lazy in life, and I don't want to make big changes, I can still cope with things at work, I'm in charge of the authors and readers of the column, and I often call or send emails to the leaders of the editorial department to praise me."
Yao Shufen listened to Chen Fuful's words, and couldn't help but say again: "I think you editors have a set of theories, and if you want to really make suggestions for the officers and men at the grassroots level of the army and the ordinary people in the rural areas to get rid of poverty and become rich, recommend good experience, and introduce good examples, you still need to use a lot of brains and constantly learn new knowledge. A few days ago, we had a few pots of peanuts and insects, and I sprayed them with soapy water and chili water according to the method that Wu Wei said, and basically had no effect. ”
"I have a good way to do this kind of thing, pour it with boiling water!"
"The peanuts you raise at home are watered after the worms?"
"Our family only knows if there is money to spend, and we don't plant flowers at all. There is a theoretical basis for boiling water to water flowers and insects, one is to eliminate insects very thoroughly; Second, you can keep the flowers warm in cold weather; Third, according to the principle of thermal expansion and cold contraction, it can promote the growth of flowers. ”
"Don't talk nonsense, let's take a break at noon and work hard in the afternoon!" Yao Shufen issued an eviction order.
After Chen Quanfu left the typing room, Yao Shufen lay on the folding bed and did not fall asleep, she was reminiscing about what Chen Quanfu had just said.
When Yao Shufen first came to the editorial department of the magazine, she didn't have much affection for Fei Aijun, and even looked down on him. Later, after getting along for a long time, I felt that he was a young man who seemed to be a hanger, but in fact he was serious and responsible for his work, and he seemed to be very aggressive, and in fact he was very careful, and he slowly fell in love with him, but he just liked it a little, and never thought that he was a person he could entrust for life, and he cared about him in life like a big sister. Among the staff of the editorial department, she and Fei Aijun are art editors, and the other is typists and typesetters. In front of Yao Shufen, Fei Aijun was like a naughty little brother at the beginning, often making some good-natured jokes with her, but later he had more respect for her, and even told her about the problems encountered in family life, asking her to help come up with ideas and solutions. After several editors in the editorial department deliberately matched her with Fei Aijun, she sorted out her thoughts, feeling that she had not and did not seem to be mentally prepared to become a family with Fei Aijun in the past, and always felt that she had an unsatisfactory marriage, had a child, and did not have a Beijing hukou, and was one year older than him, Fei Aijun might not take a fancy to herself.
Yao Shufen was a little surprised and grateful that Fei Aijun agreed to establish a relationship with her. Generally speaking, after a divorce between a couple in their thirties, it is easy for the man to remarry, and it is difficult for the woman to remarry, and the man can find a big girl in his twenties, and the woman can only find an old man in his forties. You can give me a bowl of thirst-quenching hot water, I can make you a thousand cups not drunk, if you are sincere to me, affectionate and righteous, I am willing to make a promise, follow you to the sky, watch the years go by, falling flowers all over the ground. After careful consideration, Yao Shufen weighed the conditions of both parties, imagined her future life, and decided to score twice, and it could not be a vigorous talk with Fei Aijun again, but only a bland love.
Some people say that men look for women, with their eyes, and women look for men, with their hearts. The love at first sight is better than not getting tired of it for a long time, Yao Shufen feels that Fei Aijun should be able to live well with herself in the future, and she believes that her second choice will not be wrong again. On the issue of dating between men and women, some people fall in love at first sight, some people fall in love at first sight, they are attracted or confused by some superficial phenomena of each other, love is a heart colliding with another heart, not a face watching another face. The two masters knew each other and were able to accept each other, which was a good foundation for building a love hut.
On the day when Fei Aijun confessed his heart to Yao Shufen in person, Yao Shufen did not go home immediately after work in the afternoon, and closed the door in the typing room, remembering the ups and downs over the years, bittersweet and sad, and couldn't help but bow his head and cry, with mixed feelings. Over the years, the smile on her face can be seen by others, and the pain in her heart, who can know that Fei Aijun is a man who can understand her.
Sometimes a woman's crying is not weak and sentimental, but being strong for too long. (To be continued.) )