Chapter 14 Persuasion
Lin's sick face was an expression that Li Ting couldn't understand, she must have been standing at the door and waiting for a long time, walking swaying, twisting and swaying, and her body was as light as a weak willow supporting the wind. Pen, fun, pavilion www. biquge。 info
Li Ting was slightly stunned, and then he noticed the Lin family's three-inch golden lotus.
At this moment, his heart was overturned, staring at Lin's little feet, and remembering the ancient custom of foot binding. Even if he has been coming to Daming for so long, he can't stand it a little. Usually he only stayed in his yard, and he didn't know anything about who was bound in his family, if he hadn't seen Lin's walking posture and hadn't noticed Lin's foot binding, he would have been careless enough.
Apart from the Lin family, who else in the family is bound to feet?
Li Ting carefully recalled that Yan's mother definitely did not bind her feet, the girls Yuzhu and Xuemei in the family did not bind her feet, and his grandmother Mrs. Li did not seem to have it, which means that the only ones who bound her feet were those who did not need to work.
Li Ting looked at the back of the Lin family, took a deep breath, and suddenly felt that he had not carefully observed and understood this Li Mansion at all.
He thought of his sister again.
Will his sister also bind her feet, he was a little worried, unsure of the rapid walking up.
The sun shines brightly in March.
Li Xi'er watched Li Ting follow her mother, and the original smile of joy had long since disappeared. The expression on her mother's face made her feel scared, she had rarely seen her mother so serious. She used to be coquettish, but the scene of being taught by her mother last night was vivid, and she was a little timid in her heart, and she couldn't say anything she wanted to say.
"Miss, Miss, let's go play." Yuzhu and Xuemei comforted her.
The two girls were also a little worried, and the wife lost her temper with Li Ting, and Li Ting was not allowed to get close to the young lady, and then they would never hear those interesting stories again. But now there is still a young lady to take care of, and I dare not follow the past to see the situation.
At this moment, Li Xi'er's expression was sneering, and Yuzhu looked at her little ear and said softly, "Miss, it's okay." ”
Li Xi'er was made to itch her ears and wrinkled her petite nose, "You're so annoying," and then her eyes gradually turned red, and she said with a crying voice, "My mother doesn't allow me to play with my second brother...... I didn't dare to tell my mother about my second brother anymore. ”
At this time, in the boudoir, Lin was letting Li Ting read a book, and she was silent with a cup of tea in her hand. The book is the "Internal Training" and "Ancient and Modern Women's Biography" compiled by the order of Empress Renxiao.
The room was very quiet, even the sound of Li Ting turning the book could be heard clearly, the light was not dim, and the smoke rising in the incense burner gave people the illusion of tranquility.
Li Ting held the book and read "Internal Training" and "The Biography of Ancient and Modern Martyrs" according to Lin's instructions.
These two books are the only books that can be found in Lin's house, based on the concept of male superiority and inferiority of women, teaching women how to behave in the world, such as "A wife has six virtues: one is to be supple, two is clean, three is not jealous, four is frugal, five is respectful, and six is industrious." Li Ting's mind unconsciously appeared the scene of Lin holding these two books and reading them every day.
Li Ting didn't understand Lin's intentions.
This is a book that women should read, isn't Lin going to tell him how women should behave, and tell him not to take bad regrets? Except for this reason, Li Ting really couldn't think of anything else.
As soon as he thought of this, the corners of his mouth pulled into an unnatural helpless smile.
From the Han to the Tang Dynasty, women's martyrdom was not preached, and remarriage and remarriage were extremely common, but since the Song Dynasty, Confucianism has rewritten the concept of women's chastity, and the Yuan Dynasty has tried its best to advocate that women cannot contact a second man other than their husbands, and sisters-in-law cannot take things from their younger brothers. Transferred to the Ming Dynasty, "Women's Commandments" and "Women's Training" were issued to the world, becoming the code of conduct for women in the world, emphasizing the superiority of men and the inferiority of women.
Li Ting remembered another story, saying that there was a martyr Cai Songyang.
When her husband was seriously ill, she took good care of him and did not abandon him, but she was powerless to save him. Her husband asked her to remarry, but Cai Songyang didn't agree, so she killed herself. This story, which seems unbelievable today, was praised by the official during the Tatar period, and it was talked about with relish, starvation death is a small matter, and a loss of festival is a big thing, and women in ancient times were the companions of men. Many people heard this story and thought that the Ming Dynasty was also like this, but in fact, it was only after the Tatars invaded the Central Plains that there was such a thing.
Although the women of the Ming Dynasty were also bound by the concept of male superiority and inferiority of women, the actual situation of everyone staying at home only occurred in the early period of the Ming Dynasty. After the middle of the Ming Dynasty, in addition to the etiquette abandoned by the boudoirs, they openly learned from the three aunts and six women to show their heads, burn incense in the temple, learn to play and sing, and participate in various social activities It is common to do things, which were disliked by the sour Confucianism at that time, which can be seen from the books left in the Ming Dynasty.
Li Ting put down the book, knowing that the Lin family had read the book, and he didn't want Li Xi'er to hang out outside like the third aunt and six mothers-in-law.
Alas, it is clear that women should resist these "Women's Precepts" and "Women's Training", but the actual situation is just the opposite.
Li Ting obediently finished reading the book, looked up at Lin, a little ridiculous, and didn't know what to say.
Lin was silent for a long time, and finally put down the tea in his hand and said, "You have read the book of sages, so it turns out that I don't need to break my mouth about these things." You are a dignified seven-foot man, you should focus on the career of the imperial examination, and your demeanor should be more generous, so that you can make a name for yourself in the world and make a lot of achievements. I asked Xi'er to play with you, and I also hope that you can teach her to be knowledgeable and courteous, gentle and elegant. ”
Li Ting was really embarrassed when he heard this, but he didn't expect Lin to hold this heart, but he just thought that he was playing with his sister.
Lin continued: "I never thought that you would be idle all day long, deviant, and say some ridiculous and stupid things. ”
Li Ting was a little speechless, and looked at Lin at close range for the first time.
I saw that Lin's face was as white as snow, his fingers were as white as green onions, his slender body was as graceful as a willow, and he had big clear eyes like his sister. The Lin family is only in his early twenties, and he only got married in modern times, and he is about the same age as he is psychologically, and being taught by the Lin family makes Li Ting very helpless, and he is powerless to refute.
This is a generational gap in values.
Even if he has eloquence, I'm afraid he won't be able to convince her. Besides, how could he talk back to his elders as a junior, it would only make his impression in Lin's heart worse. It's a tough thing to do.
Lin glanced at Li Ting and asked, "What do you say?" ”
Li Ting felt awkward in his heart, and bowed without being humble or arrogant, "Mother taught me a lesson." ”
Hearing this, Lin smiled lightly, "That's it, you're only twelve years old, and it's normal to understand some things later." I've never been physically good, I can't teach my son to do my mother's duty, and you, as an older brother, have to help me take care of my sister. ”
Li Ting said politely, "I know." ”
I don't know what the situation is, Li Ting was confused, he thought that the Lin family would scold her when he came here, after all, he took his sister out to play, but he committed the Lin family's taboo. Standing in front of the Lin family at this moment, Li Ting heard the Lin family talking to him in a soft voice, which was really a complete surprise.
He looked at her calm face and couldn't make out what was going on in her heart.
But Li Xi'er's mother is really a very good person. It's just that I heard that my father didn't come to Lin after Lin fell ill, so Lin stayed alone, and Lin stayed at home. She is so beautiful that she is heartwarming, obviously she is a good time like a flower, but she wastes her life like this.
It is said that Lin has a deficiency disease, but he doesn't know what the symptoms are, and he can't see the reason for this close look, Li Ting is a little entangled, and he pressed the careful thought in his heart, but he didn't dare to blatantly look at it, it is not ruled out that it is a gynecological disease, this matter is not easy for him to speak, and it is actually very dangerous to develop like this.
A faint smile appeared at the corner of Lin's mouth, "It's good to know, then you can also listen to my advice and go back to study and take the imperial examination." ”