Ren Xiaogang is more introverted, usually doesn't talk much, and is generally speechless in front of his father, and when he has to communicate in language, he also uses interjections a lot, such as "um, good, okay", etc.; In front of my mother, I always say a few words, and I usually ask and answer a sentence; Only talk more in front of my sister.,When you're in a good mood.,It's a thousand words.,And I like to say some witty things.。 Xiaoyuan said to her brother www.biquge.info "You sometimes talk like a machine gun in front of me, like a rifle in front of my mother, and a squib in front of my father." You and your parents, mainly with your father, lack of ideological communication, less and less common language, resulting in a deeper and deeper generation gap, in fact, the generation gap can be filled with mutual communication and understanding, if you don't mind, I can be a bridge between you, and promise not to charge bridge tolls. ”

"You little yellow-haired girl, you know what the generation gap is!"

"Although I am 0.95 years younger than you, I may have a deeper understanding of the word 'generation gap' than you. The generation gap is that the parents are so anxious that they are about to hang themselves with a rope around their necks, and their children think they are practicing ties; The children were so sad that they were about to commit suicide by jumping off a cliff, and their parents thought they were chasing fashion and bungee jumping. ”

Because his parents were originally separated, in Xiaogang's young mind, his father was a photo hanging on the wall wearing a red hat badge and a red collar badge, and he was a military commander riding a tall horse or riding a military jeep like in TV. After following his mother to join the army, he felt that the imaginary father was someone else's father, and his father returned home every day in addition to eating and sleeping, or writing materials and making phone calls, and he was a strange soldier stationed in his own home.

After growing up and sensible, Xiaogang felt that there was not just a "ditch" between himself and his father, but an abyss, he didn't understand his father, and his father didn't understand him.

After Ren Chunhua retired, Xiaogang seemed to feel that his father's stern gaze was filtered by reading lenses, and he seemed much kinder than before, and he felt much less afraid of his father. However, eye contact does not mean communication of ideas.

Xiaoyuan doesn't worry too much about her parents now, they are still in good health, she is worried about her brother, Xiaogang is emotionally fragile, traditional concepts, and has just suffered the setback of divorce, she is depressed every day, she is afraid that he will have mental problems, and she is even more afraid that he is like some young people, who can't think about it for a while and does stupid things.

Before Xiaogang met Wenxiu, Xiaoyuan asked her brother, who had always been single: "Now that college students are in love, why don't you find a college classmate?" ”

"There are more than 30 students in our class, there are less than ten girls, the proportion is seriously out of balance, and the supply is obviously insufficient, in the case of more monks and less porridge or less wolf and less meat, a few girls with slightly better conditions have long been famous and have their own belongings, and they have been divided by bold and thick-skinned boys, and the others are either broken flowers and willows, or crooked melons and cracked dates, I have no interest in them." Xiaogang said disdainfully.

Xiaoyuan then asked him: "There is a girl surnamed Tang who is also your classmate, right?" I think she's kind of interesting to you, and on two occasions she called us at home to find you, and I don't know what she looks like, but she speaks in a sweet voice and has a very high sugar content. ”

"It should be said that she is a classmate who has a good study and conduct, I didn't take her to heart, one is because she is ugly, the second is because she is ugly, the third is because she is particularly ugly, the fourth is because the more I look at it, the more I think she is ugly, she goes to the cafeteria during the day to affect other people's appetite, and she can frighten passers-by on the street at night, you say that her mother is really not afraid of embarrassment, and girls of this appearance are embarrassed to give birth to others."

"Talking about friends not only depends on the vision of the eyes, but also on the feeling of the heart, good vision can entertain for a while, and good feeling can be happy for a lifetime." The younger sister criticizes the older brother.

"I don't believe that you will be able to fall in love and marry an ugly monster who is very talented, but looks like Zhu Bajie and his second brother!" Brother robbed white sister.

Xiaogang's own conditions are good, his "appearance" is relatively high, and it is not wrong to find a girl with a good face. However, he should have regretted his original choice later, because he had just tasted the sweetness of the fruit of love, and he soon gnawed into the bitterness of the kernel again.

The murderer who cripples the flower of love is sometimes not the wind of lack of money and things, nor the rain of lack of food and drink, but the hail of extramarital affairs.

The combination of Xiaogang and Wenxiu, Xiaoyuan was opposed at first, but after a one-sided acquaintance, she used the intuition of a mature woman, from Wenxiu's wandering gaze and obscure attitude, to find that she lacked due sincerity towards her boyfriend, including her boyfriend's family. Xiao Gang disagreed with his sister's warning, he didn't believe that his sister could see anything wrong in a person's eyes. He told Xiaoyuan, "In the past, it was said that the eyes were the windows of the soul, but now people have put iron fences on the 'windows'. ”

Seeing her brother's resolute attitude, Xiaoyuan wisely did not insist on her opinion anymore. She knows in her heart that for the first love, as long as there are few nutrients, the strong seedlings of feelings can be cultivated, because the judgment of the first love is not normal, always look at the other party's advantages and see the other party's shortcomings, even if the other party has obvious defects, the other party can make up for it with fantasy. For the relatives who persuade themselves to think calmly at this time, those lovers who are burned by the flame of love often have a rebellious psychology and even hostile emotions.

After the divorce, Ren Xiaogang's mood plummeted, he was listless at work, and slept with his head covered after work. Seeing Xiaogang like this, of course, Cui Ying was the most anxious, she knew very well in her heart that her son was very invested in the relationship with Wenxiu, and the more he invested, the deeper the damage. After Xiaogang divorced Wenxiu, his heart was broken, and the sound of his son's heartbreak could only be heard by a mother. Although Xiao Gang is tall and big in appearance, he is just like Xiao Yuan said, he is a "paper tiger" who is strong on the outside, and he is actually a cowardly person by nature. Cui Ying was afraid that her son would have an accident outside alone, so she asked him to quit the rented house and move back to live at home.

"No matter how beautiful a dream is, it will be shattered when you wake up; No matter how good the edge is, it will be empty when separated. What's more, you and Wenxiu have neither true love nor deep feelings, you met and combined, and broke up after knowing each other, she is a big-chested and brainless, you can leave and look for it, this is a natural thing. Xiaoyuan usually dislikes the kind of man who is soft and does not collapse, and when she saw her brother's appearance, she hated and pity, and patiently joked and comforted him, "Divorced women are used items, and they can only be discounted and promoted; Divorced men are experimented machines that can be sold at a markup. Especially for a man like you who is dedicated to love, there is a serious shortage of goods and supply and demand in the market, so with your current conditions, it is easy to find a girl who is in love. ”

"Don't comfort me anymore, there are so many good men in society, and there are very few wretches like me."

"I don't believe that some men, looking at a belly full of ink, maybe they are squid; Looking at the waist bag, it's very bulging, I can't figure out that he is a frog. Do you know that now houses are getting more and more expensive, and people are getting cheaper, including some so-called good men. ”

The sister's words only entered Xiaogang's ears, not his heart. He still doesn't talk much at home every day, and he is absent-minded about everything.

"We're all Tianjin buns - the dog ignores it!" Xiaoyuan complained to her parents.

One day, at the dinner table, Xiaogang had a calm face, lowered his head, and fed himself food, without knowing the taste. Xiaoyuan was not used to watching from the sidelines, and said to him: "Brother, are you eating or sowing?" The grains of rice have fallen on the table, do you know that 'embezzlement and waste are great crimes'? ”

Xiaogang raised his head, rolled his eyes at his sister, put some vegetables into the bowl, and sat on the sofa in the living room to eat.

Xiaoyuan shouted to Cui Ying, who was still busy in the kitchen: "Mom, you don't care, my brother is 'afraid of crime and absconding'!" ”

What's even more ironic is that once Cui Ying asked Xiaogang, who went out to work, to take a bag of garbage downstairs, but he threw the plastic bag containing a box of tea that he was going to take to the office into the trash can, and carried the garbage bag to the subway.

Soon after Wenxiu and Xiaogang divorced, they married their ex-boyfriend and held a grand wedding in a grand manner, which added a sour feeling to Cui Ying and Xiaoyuan's hearts, but they were more worried about what adverse impact this incident would have on Xiaogang.